18/11/2025
This is your permission to not give a **** what anyone else thinks.
So many of us hold back from moving the way we want to move because we’re worried about how it might look. As if using your body in playful, curious, childlike ways is somehow something to apologise for.
For me, the turning point was realising how much I’d been editing myself in small ways, like sitting at the side of the playground, not choosing to climb over or under and instead going around.
When you star to notice the opportunities you’re missing, it’s quite eye-opening. And once you see it, you start choosing the things that you know will make your body feel good, rather than the thing that looks ‘acceptable’ to everyone else.
I talk about a character called, ‘Social Norm’ in my book 📕, because he really is a block to our movement choices.
The moment you recognise how normal it is to restrict your own movement out of habit or fear of judgement, you also realise how freeing it is to stop doing it.
🤪 So if you’ve ever paused because you might ‘look silly’, this is your reminder: the real silliness is stopping yourself from feeling alive, having fun and using your body in ways that make you feel alive (and grateful for the movements you can do!).
Do you ever find yourself not moving in certain ways because of fear of judgement?
Wendy 💜
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