24/10/2025
When a simple request turns into a meltdown...
It’s not misbehaviour — it’s Demand Avoidance — when anxiety collides with everyday demands.
Children with autism, ADHD, or anxiety often resist not because they won’t — but because they can’t in that moment. The good news? A few small changes can make a big difference.
In this video, I have shared 10 practical strategies to turn resistance into calm cooperation:
- Understand what triggers anxiety
- Adjust the environment to reduce overload
- Reframe demands using gentle language
- Offer meaningful choices and downtime
- Use play, humour, and collaboration instead of control
- Demand avoidance isn’t defiance — it’s distress.
- Understanding helps children feel safe, connected, and capable