Baby and child sleep

05/11/2025

Baby naps causing anxiety?

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Babies sleep needs change all the time. Just when you think you’ve got it worked out they start resisting their naps or taking ages to fall asleep at bedtime. Sound familiar?!

If you’re worrying about your baby’s naps, perhaps they seem short or you think they aren’t having enough, it’s worth looking at the overall picture.

If they are pretty happy in the day, fall asleep quite easily with good stretches of solid sleep at night, then naps are likely good too.

Try not to focus on the wake window and nap charts too much, they’re a guide, not rules. If your baby is doing something a bit different that’s ok too.

16/10/2025

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Advice for new mums is everywhere. Often conflicting. Everyone has an opinion. Usually 💯well meaning.

But it can be overwhelming and make her doubt herself.

So give advice if she’s asking but more than anything, give reassurance and remind her how amazingly she’s doing.

She’s probably sleep deprived, hormonal and being too hard on herself. Your reminder will mean the world. 🥰

25/09/2025

❤️Hello new parent. This one’s for you…

There is only 1 rule you need to follow as a new mum or dad…

Rule: Your baby, your rules.

That’s it. And remember it’s a complete untruth that you can spoil your baby. Contact naps aren’t bad habits that you’ll regret. You won’t. I could go on…

(Is untruth an actual word?)

Listen to advice if and when you want and it sounds like something you can get behind.

But trust your own voice the most and believe that you know what’s best for your baby. Because you do.

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13/09/2025

11/09/2025

I’m Rosy Whitwell, paediatric sleep consultant, registered nurse and health visitor. And I absolutely love my job!

My family is everything to me and all the motivation I need to keep pushing forward, trying harder and getting outside my comfort zone every now and then (teaching health visitor students soon being my latest scary project!).

I’ve raised two guide dog pups who are now working guide dogs. And I’ve adopted a guide dog pup who sadly couldn’t continue for health reasons.

I love a sunny holiday destination and I’m happy to be taken skiing as long as there’s plenty of coffee and long lunches (and a glass of French rosé in the evening)!

And I’m getting slightly more into gardening with age, out of necessity really!

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28/08/2025

Here’s the tea on wake windows!

It can be helpful to know how long your baby/toddler can comfortably stay awake before needing to nap/bedtime (sometimes referred to as a wake window).

The reason it can be helpful is babies find it easier to fall asleep quickly and happily if they’re tired enough. So whilst “wake windows” aren’t really scientifically based, the biological drive to sleep is very much so!

Sleep drive, or pressure is that feeling you can’t fight when you’re trying to stay awake and watch something good on the TV, but your eyes keep closing and your body says no! Sleep!

It’s actually a build up in the brain of a chemical called adenosine, whilst you’re awake, and then gradually dissipates whilst you sleep.

Often babies need the shorter end of how long they can comfortably stay awake for in the morning, before their first nap, gradually needing longer awake before subsequent naps/before bedtime.

And just to say, some babies do something different from the charts. And that really is ok. Some days can be very different.

Try not to worry about things you can’t control and how long your baby does or doesn’t stay awake for is often out of your control.

Does your baby roughly follow these wake windows or do they do something wildly different?

Oh and p.s, I’ve left out baby’s first month as it varies so much, literally no point in trying to cover the variation in a chart!

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06/08/2025

25/07/2025

I wish all new parents knew…

😍That you have everything your baby needs. You are the perfect parent for them.

🤗Picking them up for cuddles, helping them fall asleep, contact napping etc etc isn’t spoiling them. In fact quite the opposite, we know it’s helping healthy brain development and attachment.

👶🏼Knowing and believing this will help you relax into your new role and not question yourself too much. Try and enjoy the early weeks and not worry about things your baby just isn’t ready to do on their own yet.

🥰And remember, self care is essential, not selfish. To take care of your baby, you need to take care of you.

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