19/02/2026
PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE
**Trigger warning - su***de**
One of the reasons I started to develop an interest in mental health in children is actually because of my fear of su***de. Members of our family have died by su***de and others suffered depression. Therefore the idea of any of this passing onto my own children terrifies me, especially when they have already previously shown signs of low mental health and self harming. We try to be very open and talk. It’s good to talk and ok not to feel ok.
I found this radio 1 show interesting and recommend a watch but if you don’t have an hour to watch it I’ll try sum up some of my take aways…
All 5 men on the panel commonly mention the importance of learning about your emotions and understanding yourself.
Professor Green talks about people feeling they need permission to talk, or the need to fix feelings, “Don’t try to fix it, sit with your emotions.”
“Ask a man how he feels and he’ll tell you what he thinks” because he’s not emotionally literate.
Guvna B refers back to his own Dad, “he wasn’t equipped with tools to talk, I’m trying to be emotionally literate to talk to my son.”
Prince William talks about how he talks to his children about their feelings and he also mentions the importance of learning about emotions and how to deal with them as well as continuously building up a toolkit.
When asked where we go from here, Professor Green replied, “Early intervention, don’t wait til it’s too late.”
I feel this is where I can come in.
If we can provide children with emotional literacy at primary age, hopefully once they hit puberty and the dreaded teenage years, then onto adulthood, they will be equipped with their own toolkit to mange their emotions better, as well as tools and strategies to support their mental health🤞
By no means am I suggsting all of our children will suffer poor mental health, but if we can prepare them to be emotionally literate they will be able to support others if not themselves.
Greg James hosts a panel discussion about male mental health and su***de. He’s joined by Professor Green, Guvna B and HRH Prince William, as well as young ca...