10/12/2025
I spent decades thinking these were just my quirks, but they were actually my brain's frantic way of hiding my Autistic/ADHD traits to blend in. Late diagnosis is the process of realizing all those little "coping mechanisms" were actually masking.
It’s exhausting to:
Make scripts in your head
Consciously manage your voice tone
Study yourself closely in conversations
Use alcohol to feel 'less awkward' (A very real and common issue!)
Which one of these resonates with you the most? Let me know the trait you didn't realize was masking! ADHD masking symptoms. Autism in women. Late diagnosed Autism traits. Social scripting. Using alcohol to cope with social anxiety. Neurodivergent relatability.