12/02/2026
I just saw a glossy, curated post for a slick solution focussed approach to ensuring you are always successfully productive.
Or something like that. I didnāt actually read it as I donāt buy into any of that.. āyou just need thisā¦ā. approach.
My approach is more organic /messy.
For me thereās 3 approaches to getting things done. And I use all of them.
1. Stress, pressure, deadlines - weāre all familiar with that - and allthe negative side effects - stress, exhaustion/melt down, need to decompress afterwards. Results can be effective. But impact can be destructive . Works for emergencies not good as a geverdl long term āgo toā plan.
2. Dopamine fuelled ⦠either I feel in flow, because itās an act of joy or because Iām working towards a long term goal which brings me joy/excitement to think of (although not too much otherwise I get overwhelmed and have to stop š„“). The risk here is that the task may be a bit left field, impulsive, perhaps not as much a priority as my attention suggests. But can leadto unexpected results.
3. This is when Iām in balance ⦠ticking over nicely - all the safe care is in place, Iām checking and ticking off (sometimes) my to do list; I can be productive on a measured, calm way. Iāve had a lot more of those days since I invested in a new work space and I am reaping the words in terms of business and other (although not all) holistic goals around health and well being and being mum.
But - what Iāve experienced this week is when Iām in that regulated place ie feeling good suddenly I think Iām Wonder Woman - suddenly I moved the parameters which had been working nicely do that I could do more (be more). Itās not that Iām advocating staying static, I am adhd after all but trying to triple my exercise routine and start getting up at 6am and going to ed late obviously was never going to work. Not all in one go.
I can reflect now that Iāve been pushing myself too much.
Spoons theory is always relevant - Iāve been getting up early, going to bed late and increased my exercise count.
Today Iāve flaked. Iāve still been functioning but allowed myself to be distracted- I kept 2 appointments but the other tasks were not on my to do list.
I could - kind of was - be cross with myself because those extra tasks have been social media posts (3 today š«£) and Iād promised myself social media would take a back step.
But I also recognise the role social media has - posting is my go to as an āunhealthyā calming strategy when Iām too āfar goneā to remember to choose the healthier options.
And even though Iām thinking of my unloved to do list - itās ok. This is my reminder that wanting something to be possible isnāt enough.
And itās my reminder that I need to be soconscious about the choices I make.
Thatās the main take away i just needed reminding of today.
As someone who is neurodivergent I think itās inevitable that every day is a school day. And how can that be anything other than a good thing?