21/01/2026
Being able to label your emotions is one of the best things you can do to improve your mental health.
In my work with clients, it’s quite common that people struggle to identify & communicate the emotion they are feeling.
In order to move forward with a challenge & learn more about ourselves, we need to be able to process the feelings & emotions we have & putting your feelings into words makes them easier to cope with.
For example:
- Rating your emotions, such as anger on a scale of 1-5 can reduce your heart rate & help calm your nervous system.
- Describing your emotions when dealing with intense emotions increases your courage in facing it.
- Giving an emotion a name or label, like “that’s sadness” or “this is fear” decreases the activity in your amygdala in your brain which is where your fight-or-flight response comes from.
The next time that you’re feeling overwhelmed by your emotions, try using a feelings wheel (above) & giving your emotion a name & a score (1-5).
Learning how to treat yourself with greater compassion - no matter what you’re feeling — is one of the most important happiness skills there is 💚
Talking therapies can help you explore your feelings & identify emotions in a safe & calm space that enables you to gain a better understanding of yourself & can positively increase your self-confidence & self-esteem.
If it feels like the right time for you to focus on you & to explore your feelings & emotions and any challenges or concerns you may have, why not get in touch with me for a free 15 minute chat to see how we could work together.
Call or text me on:
07493 461180
Email me at: SoulTonic.Counselling@hotmail.com
https://www.soultoniccounselling.co.uk/