21/01/2026
*** “THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT MY LIFE.”***
No, perhaps not now because you haven’t met them yet. How can they?
This statement shocked me because I was amazed that someone thought this about therapy.
Therapists care deeply about their clients wellbeing and their experience. Yes, it is our jobs and we have probably all experienced a young person at one time or another suggest that we are only here because we get paid for it.
But actually, we love what we do. We’ve gone through years of training, input and *hard work* to be able to do it. We deeply care about supporting people with their mental health. And if we were here just for the money, quite frankly, we chose the wrong job!😝
I know every member of our team thinks about clients a long time after they’ve finished therapy. We see something or think of something which reminds us of that client. And we wonder how they are doing and hope things are working out for them.
Just like teachers remember special students and tell their stories years later, therapists recall and think about their clients and wish them well (privately). Not all the time but it might surprise you how often.
With our current clients we think about them often, we spend a lot of time researching what might be supportive, we reflect on how we can be an even more effective therapist for them in supervision… The list goes on.
So this really isn’t true. Therapists care deeply about our clients lives, about their mental health, their special relationships and crucially about their longer term success. This is what sets us apart from schools, for example. We are thinking about their success in adult relationships, their long term wellbeing and opportunities to thrive. Not just getting them to school or through this next exam or to be able to sit on the carpet for the whole teaching session…
There is so much that goes on behind the scenes. The client only sees 50 mins a week of that work. Their parents (if they’re children) even less. But trust me, it’s all happening behind the scenes in order to help you thrive 🌱🌱