08/02/2026
UNF*CK THE PEOPLE-PLEASING đź’Ą
People-pleasing isn’t a personality flaw.
It’s a survival response.
It often starts when you learn that keeping the peace, being “good”, or putting everyone else first feels safer than having needs of your own.
People-pleasing can look like:
• saying yes when you want to say no
• feeling responsible for other people’s emotions
• avoiding conflict at all costs
• overthinking after conversations
• feeling resentful, exhausted, or unseen
Over time, it can leave you disconnected from yourself, burned out, and stuck in relationships that don’t feel balanced.
Therapy isn’t about turning you into someone who doesn’t care.
It’s about helping you feel safe enough to:
• set boundaries
• express your needs
• tolerate discomfort
• choose yourself without guilt
If this resonates, you don’t have to work it out alone.
đź’¬ Free 15-minute introductory call
📞 Telephone or video sessions available
GLA Therapy Services
Gemma Allen – Integrative Counsellor (MBACP)
📍 242 Lyndon Road, Solihull B92 7QW
đź“§ glatherapy@outlook.com
📞 07932 458444