24/11/2025
✨ For any parent navigating school with a child who has special educational needs; you’re not alone. ✨
We wanted to share a few thoughts that might help if you’re trying to work with your child’s school and are unsure where to start.
1. Reach out and start a calm, open conversation.
Email the teacher, SENCO, or support staff and ask for a meeting. It doesn’t have to be formal, just a chance to talk about how your child is doing and what support is (or isn’t) in place.
2. Ask clear questions so you understand exactly what the school is doing:
• What support strategies are currently being used?
• How are they being monitored?
• What goals are they aiming for?
• How will the school keep you updated on progress?
• Who is the best person to contact if things aren’t going smoothly?
3. Request examples of what the support looks like in practice.
Sometimes what’s written on paper doesn’t match what happens in the classroom. It’s okay to ask how the plan works day-to-day and what your child’s teachers are noticing.
4. If you feel the support isn’t working:
• Share specific examples of what you’re seeing at home.
• Ask the school what adjustments can be made and how flexible they can be.
• Request a review meeting, you don’t need to wait for a scheduled one.
• Keep everything documented (emails, notes from meetings, etc.).
5. Remember: you are your child’s best advocate.
It’s okay to ask questions. It’s okay to push for clarity. It’s okay to say, “This doesn’t seem to be helping, what else can we try?” Schools are meant to work with you, and you deserve to feel heard.
Most importantly, you’re doing an amazing job. ❤️
If anyone else has tips or words of encouragement, feel free to add them below; we’re all learning together.
