07/01/2026
📌WHY I SPEAK ABOUT NARCISSISM, NEURODIVERGENCE, HORMONES & THE NERVOUS SYSTEM
📍This work did not come from theory alone. It has all come from my own lived experience followed by years of extensive study.
📍 I grew up in an emotionally dysregulated childhood environment.
📍Over the past few years, through research and clinical literature (not pop psychology), I came to understand how emotional invalidation, chronic stress, and narcissistic family dynamics shape the early developing nervous system.
📍Because early relational and childhood environments influence:
• stress reactivity
• emotional regulation
• hormone sensitivity
• hypervigilance & threat perception
📍As I began to map my own hormonal profile through science starting from the womb - including ADHD, complex trauma and sensitivity to hormonal shifts (PMDD, Post natal depression) these connections became much clearer.
⚠️Many women I’ve spoken to privately describe similar patterns:
being dismissed as “too sensitive”,
learning to self-monitor,
growing up attuned to others’ emotions.
📍This pattern shows up repeatedly in women with:
⚠️ADHD or AuDHD
⚠️hormonal sensitivity
⚠️PMDD-type profiles
⚠️nervous system hyper-reactivity
But it’s important to say this clearly:
📍Hormonal sensitivity is not caused by trauma alone.
📍Our nervous and hormonal profiles begin before birth.
📍Heritable genetics , epigenetics, and the intrauterine environment all matter because your own life experience then interacts with that biology over time.
📍This is why women all respond differently, to stress, to hormones, and to HRT and medical treatment.
📍When I speak about narcissism on my social media - I am not diagnosing individuals.
📍I am describing researched patterns, systems, and power dynamics and how they affect sensitive nervous systems.
📍This work sits at the intersection of:
neurobiology, hormones, early life stress, childhood experiences and lived experience.
⚠️Because women deserve hormonal care that recognises complexity and not “cut and paste” - Stepford Wives medicine.