31/03/2026
1st April folks, April Fools Day… but this isn’t a joke.
Because instead of practical jokes today,
there are a few things I really wish we took more seriously when it comes to communication.
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✨ Communication is not just talking:
Speech is one way we communicate… but it’s not the only way.
Children communicate through:
– movement
– gestures
– facial expression
– sounds
– AAC
– behaviour (or what I’d call a physical response)
If we’re only waiting for words…
we miss so much of what they’re already telling us.
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✨ Eye contact isn’t a measure of listening:
Some children process language better when they’re not looking directly at you.
Looking away, moving, or focusing elsewhere doesn’t mean they’re not engaged.
It often means they’re regulating enough to actually take language in.
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✨ More questions don’t create more language:
“Say it”
“What’s this?”
“Tell me…”
This can feel like pressure… not support.
Language develops through modelling and connection, not testing.
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✨ AAC doesn’t stop speech:
Giving a child a way to communicate reduces frustration and supports language development.
Communication should never be withheld while we wait for speech.
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✨ Play isn’t a bonus… it’s the foundation:
Play is where:
– connection happens
– regulation happens
– communication begins
Without it, language has nowhere to land.
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And I think sometimes…
in the world we’re living in… busy, fast-paced, full of demands, these things get lost.
Not because parents don’t care.
But because life is a lot.
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So this isn’t a joke.
It’s a reminder.
You don’t need to do more.
You don’t need to get it perfect.
But understanding these shifts?
It can change everything about how you support your child’s communication.
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I’m a Speech & Language Therapist based in Birmingham with nearly 20 years’ experience, supporting children who are learning and communicating in different ways.
If this resonates, you’re not alone 🤍
💬 Comment “INFO” or send me a DM… I’m always happy to help.
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Steph | Go Talking Ways