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Two different routes.✌️Achieving hard things is of course possible...However:➡️One route is destructive, often continues...
09/01/2026

Two different routes.✌️

Achieving hard things is of course possible...

However:

➡️One route is destructive, often continues on repeat, leads to illness.😔

➡️The other is hard, yet aware, working with how the brain and body absorbs the 'hard bits' to enable achievement and growth without damage.😊

The key dynamic difference?🤔

✨️Awareness and small micro wellbeing tools or practices to match identified need.✨️

👇Here's the thing:

One offers sustainability and health; the other offers burnout and ill health (mind and body)

Learning how to achieve in a regulated way, that's the sweetspot, this is the higher self realised.👌

Happy Wednesday👋🧠 Neuroscience Nibble 3: Why Scrolling Is So Hard to Stop?You open your phone “just to check one thing,”...
07/01/2026

Happy Wednesday👋

🧠 Neuroscience Nibble 3:
Why Scrolling Is So Hard to Stop?

You open your phone “just to check one thing,” and suddenly 15–30 minutes have vanished.🤦‍♀️

This isn’t a lack of discipline , it’s how your brain is wired.

💡 What’s happening in the brain💡

Dopamine systems are highly sensitive to novelty and unpredictability, so variable rewards like new posts and updates reinforce continued engagement.

Experts now describe this pattern as dopamine-scrolling, a behaviour linked to habitual and potentially compulsive use.

❓️ Why it feels so hard❓️

Your brain didn’t evolve for infinite scroll feeds; it evolved to seek new information efficiently. Modern platforms exploit this system, making disengagement hard even when you want to stop.

✔️ How to work with your brain✔️

Instead of relying purely on willpower:
• Set timers and scheduled check-ins
• Use grayscale mode or app limits
• Turn off push notifications
• Plan high-focus blocks with no phone access

🎯 Bottom line
The challenge isn’t a character flaw, it’s a design problem. Change the environment and behaviour follows.



• Sharpe, B. T., & Spooner, R. A. (2025). Dopamine-scrolling: a modern public health challenge. Perspectives in Public Health. (PMC)
• Karila, L. et al. (2025). Understanding problematic smartphone and social media use. JMIR Mental Health. (JMIR Mental Health)

👇Welcome to the first in a series of neuroscience nibbles. 🧠 Taking everyday situations and considering the neuroscience...
04/01/2026

👇Welcome to the first in a series of neuroscience nibbles. 🧠 Taking everyday situations and considering the neuroscience behind it.🤔

All with the aim of heightening awareness to inform wellbeing🙏

✨️Everyday situation🙌

You plan to exercise, focus, or work on something meaningful, but by the
end of the day, your motivation is gone.

🧠What the brain is doing🧠

Planning, self-control, and goal-directed behaviour rely on the prefrontal cortex, our thinking brain. Prolonged cognitive effort and stress reduce its efficiency, making
it harder to initiate and sustain effort later in the day.

❓️Why it feels this way❓️

Motivation isn’t a personality trait, it’s a changing brain state shaped by
energy, availability and stress hormones. When resources drop, the brain shifts toward conservation. This is often mistaken for laziness but reflects neurobiological fatigue.

💡How to work with your brain💡

* Do demanding tasks earlier when the prefrontal cortex is freshest
* Lower task friction by making the first step easy
* Use small time commitments (5–10 minutes)
* Prioritise recovery - sleep and breaks matter
* Rely on systems, not willpower - Willpower fatigues with prefrontal
load. Habits, routines, and cues automate behaviour, reducing
the need for motivation when energy is low.

✔️ Takeaway: Fading motivation is a biological signal, not a flaw.


References: Arnsten, A. F. T. (2009). Stress signalling pathways that
impair prefrontal cortex structure and function. Nature Reviews
Neuroscience.
McEwen, B. S., & Morrison, J. H. (2013). The brain on stress. Nature
Reviews Neuroscience.
Baumeister, R. F. et al. (2007). Self-control relies on a limited resource.
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

Here's to 'going on'..with your collection of learns✔️of understandings..🤝of memories..💭of self awareness...👁..weaving a...
31/12/2025

Here's to 'going on'..

with your collection of learns✔️
of understandings..🤝
of memories..💭
of self awareness...👁
..weaving a new pathway into this new year in which we get to add more .🙏

Finding the gift in each experience.

Sending love to you all for 2026, you wise ones💗🥂

Stoking the embers of stress to new flames🔥🔥OREnabling the embers to cool and dissipate?💦👆This is the difference between...
30/12/2025

Stoking the embers of stress to new flames🔥🔥

OR

Enabling the embers to cool and dissipate?💦

👆This is the difference between adding to a dysregulated nervous system and listening to what it needs.

Listen to what your brain and body needs, honour it. That's it.🙏

A  few ' Ray the Robin' posts from December. 👇Loved his little tips for anxiety and wellbeing.💗Sending love this Christm...
24/12/2025

A few ' Ray the Robin' posts from December. 👇

Loved his little tips for anxiety and wellbeing.💗

Sending love this Christmas. Thank you for the support it has been a busy year of wellbeing support, new workshops and tools between my work with The Myton Hospices and my own anxiety coaching practice.

Sending love and if you're not feeling it right now, be kind to yourself, validate how you feel, let it pass through, breathe and find one tiny glimmer.🙏💗

Moving slowly, is an underrated game changer when things feel frantic.🙏
21/12/2025

Moving slowly, is an underrated game changer when things feel frantic.🙏

Ray's day had been heavy.😔👉Enter: Music🎵🎵Ray listened to music that mirrored how he felt to process his emotions.🎧Ray gr...
17/12/2025

Ray's day had been heavy.😔

👉Enter: Music🎵🎵

Ray listened to music that mirrored how he felt to process his emotions.🎧

Ray gradually moved from music that matched his mood to music that represented how he wanted to feel.🙌

Music and mood are closely linked—music can shape, reflect, and even regulate how we feel.

How music affects mood👇

Tempo:

Fast tempos → energizing, motivating

Slow tempos → calming, reflective

Key & harmony:

Major keys → happiness, optimism

Minor keys → sadness, introspection

Rhythm & dynamics:

Strong beats → confidence, excitement

Soft, flowing rhythms → relaxation

Today I attended the mind body and  spirit festival and I can honestly say it was glorious! I've been going for 8 years....
14/11/2025

Today I attended the mind body and spirit festival and I can honestly say it was glorious! I've been going for 8 years. A chilled, calm, creative environment with heaps of taster sessions. We did Kundalini yoga, gong baths, tried raw cacao and met some gorgeous people.

An amazing day, can recommend 🙏💓

My Anxiety Coaching approach embraces a body up⬆️ and mind down⬇️ approach, exactly for this reason.👇We also explore the...
12/11/2025

My Anxiety Coaching approach embraces a body up⬆️ and mind down⬇️ approach, exactly for this reason.👇

We also explore the science behind why.👌

I love wellbeing 🙏I believe in every tool💗I am super passionate about helping unique individuals understand themselves a...
31/10/2025

I love wellbeing 🙏
I believe in every tool💗
I am super passionate about helping unique individuals understand themselves and find a right blend of tools or approaches to serve them and their wellbeing, to feel at their best.🔨🛠

Here's the thing:👇

To do this type of work it's so vital to turn this work inward.💗

To, I guess,... 'walk the talk' 🚶‍♂️🗣

Not always been the best I'll admit at doing this.🤦‍♀️

This week I've taken two days off to recentre, connect and flood my nervous system with safe regulating messages 〰️

Kundalini yoga🧘‍♀️, journalling,✍️time with family, laughing😀, sharing with good friends and walking through leaves 🍂and a generally less rushed existence🙏

Creative ideas and clarity have rushed back in too. (bonus)😊

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