Life Story Louise

Life Story Louise Therapeutic Life Story Practitioner | Trainer & Supervisor | Supporting storytelling, healing and growth through a trauma informed lens.

26/02/2026

We recommend you read this really helpful guide to the consultation written by Adoption UK

https://www.adoptionuk.org/pages/faqs/category/adoption-support-consultation

We also recommend that you do not rush to respond to the consultation; it doesn’t close until 5th May.

It might be helpful to take time to fully understand what is being proposed and the potential consequences, and to read the guidance and information that will come out from various sources, including this guide from Adoption UK.

As you will have seen, our campaign has serious concerns about the proposals within the consultation and the overall direction of travel for post adoption and kinship support.

We also have real concerns about the design of some of the consultation questions, the leading nature of these, and their sometimes ambiguous wording. This occurs across both the adult response form and the child and young person form.

We will give some examples taken directly from the form below that you may find helpful (picture example below as well):

⚫️Example 1. Strengthen peer and community support for adoptive parents and children. Do you agree with this proposal?

When taken alone, it would be easy, for example, to strongly agree with this statement. But if it added further context that a consequence of this would be a reduction in access to specialist therapeutic support, you may answer differently.

⚫️Example 2. Provide proactive support for adopted and kinship children at key life stages, such as transitions to secondary school. Do you agree with this proposal?

It would also be easy to strongly agree with this, but when you realise that what they deem to be proactive support is 6 x 2-hour parent sessions or training when your child is in Year 6 at school, you may decide you don’t think it’s adequate or proactive at all.

⚫️Example 3. Require clinical adoption support therapies to be compliant with NHS evidence standards. Ensure all interventions are well evidenced and assessed. Do you agree with this proposal?

This sounds good in theory but fails to recognise the many very effective therapies that have been developed but cannot be assessed under the standards suggested here, or have not yet been assessed in this way.

This proposal has the potential to significantly limit some well known, effective therapy models that the government has funded through the ASGSF but where appropriate research into them has not been funded at the same time. That doesn’t mean evidence doesn’t exist or that the therapy models aren’t effective; it means investment should be made in this area.

Limiting therapy to those currently offered through CAMHS, for example, would be a mistake and could see the unique nature of our children’s needs overlooked. The ASGSF was designed because of the very specialist nature of need and the very specialist nature of the therapeutic interventions required. It is well evidenced that statutory services fail our community. We absolutely support growing the evidence base for therapies used, but it is important to remember that absence of evidence does not mean evidence of absence.

⚫️ Example 4. Improving value for money to ensure every pound spent is used efficiently, sustainably and on families. Do you agree with this proposal?

This sounds great, but what do they actually mean? There is nowhere near enough information to make an informed decision about this at present. For example, money can be very well spent on specialist therapeutic provision, but it can also be the more expensive option in the short term while saving huge amounts of money in the long term and, more importantly, providing children, young people and adults with the support they really need to thrive. However, with this leading question, the DfE could gather responses that the government can then use as they wish to support whichever narrative they choose.

⚫️ To summarise:

If we are all led by the nature of the questions to select strongly agree by the form’s very design, the government (Department for Education) could end up with substantial quantitative data that appears to support their proposals when, in actual fact, you aren’t in support of them at all.

We do not currently know how they will present the qualitative data collected within the comments section of these questionnaires. We do not know who will be interpreting the data or information collected, or what weight it will carry in decision making.

We therefore recommend you take time to consider the questions carefully and your responses to them.

If you do not agree with the overall proposals being made within the consultation around the future of post adoption and kinship support, then your answers to these leading questions may need to reflect this.

There’s a particular kind of pride that comes from your children seeing you achieve something 💖Seven years ago today I g...
21/02/2026

There’s a particular kind of pride that comes from your children seeing you achieve something 💖

Seven years ago today I graduated with my Masters in Advanced Social Work Practice 🎓 and received an award for the highest mark for my dissertation — exploring life story work with looked after children 🧩

I felt proud.
Not loudly.
Just steadily.

My children were so proud of me that day — and that meant everything.

Looking back now, I can see it was more than a graduation.
It was a turning point.

The research I poured my heart into 📖
The belief that children deserve to understand their stories 🧩
The courage to follow work that felt deeply purposeful ✨

That day planted a seed 🌱

And in time, that seed became my Life Story Louise business.

Seven years on, I’m still guided by the same belief. That every child deserves a safe, held space to make sense of their story 💖

Still quietly proud.

✨ Join me for a two-day coastal WORKSHOP ✨A gentle, trauma-informed learning space focused on life story work — held in ...
18/02/2026

✨ Join me for a two-day coastal WORKSHOP ✨
A gentle, trauma-informed learning space focused on life story work — held in my calm seaside home.
Over two inspiring days, you’ll:
🌿 Explore practical tools and resources
🎨 Engage in reflective, creative practices
🧠 Deepen your understanding of trauma-informed life story work
🤝 Connect meaningfully with fellow practitioners
This is a hands-on workshop — a nurturing space to learn, reflect, and grow your practice with confidence.
We’ll work in three large, light-filled rooms overlooking the sea — a warm, welcoming environment designed to spark creativity and connection. Lunch is provided on both days, along with a thoughtfully prepared goody bag for each participant.
Where creativity thrives. Where stories are honoured. Where practitioners learn together.
✨ Limited places available
🧡 Book your space here: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1983370968959?aff=oddtdtcreator
📩 DM for enquiries

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11/02/2026
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05/02/2026

Kinship carers often step into their role during a time of crisis or loss. Grief, in many different forms, can be part of that. Managing your own grief, and the grief of the child you’re caring for, can be extremely challenging.

That’s why we’re running a free online masterclass on Tuesday 10 March about moving through grief as a kinship family. This one-off session is just for kinship carers and led by experts from Child Bereavement UK.

We won’t be able to take the pain away, but hopefully we can provide some information and advice that might help you take care of yourself and your family. 💛

As this is a sensitive and emotional topic, there's no need to have your camera on or speak in the session - but you can ask any questions in the Zoom chat.

➡️ Find out more about this masterclass and book your free place here: https://loom.ly/9Y88ti4

Cyril the Sloth was well loved in my life story session yesterday even being wrapped back up snuggly to keep him warm. W...
04/02/2026

Cyril the Sloth was well loved in my life story session yesterday even being wrapped back up snuggly to keep him warm. What was more of a hit was the firm squidgy glitter ball.
I had noted that the child was applying some firm pressure onto their parenting parent and the ball gave the child an object where they could really apply some force ☺️

I always take time to explore what a child needs to be able to tolerate sitting alongside me as we do life story work. H...
03/02/2026

I always take time to explore what a child needs to be able to tolerate sitting alongside me as we do life story work. Here are two items that I’ve recently added to my toolkit.

03/02/2026

I always take time to explore what a child needs to be able to sit alongside me as we do life story work. Here are two new sensory items that I’ve recently added to my tool kit.

14/01/2026

Our What Is.... Series - today, INTEROCEPTION.

The hidden sense behind emotional regulation.

If a child seems to “go from 0 to 100” with no warning…

If they melt down suddenly…
If they struggle to tell you what’s wrong until they’re already overwhelmed…

There’s often a hidden sense behind it — interoception.

Today’s one-page visual breaks down what interoception is, why it’s so important for emotional regulation, and how you can gently support a young person whose internal signals feel confusing or too loud.

If you’d like the free parent information sheet to go with it, follow the directions in the visual, ensuring you LIKE the post and I’ll send you the Dropbox link. ⬇️

29/11/2025

It’s important to remember that when we’re supporting someone who has experienced trauma, it may take years—or even decades—for them to feel safe enough to begin to hint at what happened and to be patient with them as they go on the wiggly journey of trauma recovery.

The Trauma Recovery Global Team

What to when a new book written by one of your fav authors,  drkarentreisman , gets delivered when you had plans to Chri...
23/11/2025

What to when a new book written by one of your fav authors, drkarentreisman , gets delivered when you had plans to Christmas decorate 🎄can anyone spot gorgeous Taya the Tortoise 🐢 🌟💫

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