04/11/2025
I spent Friday running a therapy stall at a Halloween event. And honestly? I was terrified.
I'm a former people-pleaser myself. The thought of sitting there for 5 hours, being visible, being approached by strangers…it brought up all the old patterns. Perfectionism. Over-preparing. Worrying what others were going to judge me on.
But I went anyway. And the day was mostly quiet, reflective, and actually really lovely. I had meaningful conversations with women who resonated deeply with my work. Others took leaflets for friends who were struggling. Some just smiled knowingly at my "overwhelmed women, let's chat!" sign whilst chasing their kids through a scavenger hunt.
The biggest thing I learnt? I was most comfortable when I just let myself be human. Nervous. Imperfect. Real.
If you found me at the stall on Friday - welcome! So glad you're here.
And if you've been waiting for the "perfect time" to prioritise yourself, to start therapy, to finally put your needs first, this is your reminder that you don't need everything aligned to take that first step. Reach out via DM to chat.
Sometimes brave just means showing up.