05/11/2025
Why say what someone else has said better?
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Things you weren’t told about your baby’s tongue tie…
Let’s talk about what no one is saying loud enough: tongue tie isn’t as simple as “do they have one or not?” And if you’ve been left confused, dismissed, or overwhelmed… you’re not alone.
Here’s what you should’ve been told:
👅 You can’t diagnose a tongue tie from a photo.
That picture in the mom group? It might look like a tie… or it might not. Tongue ties aren’t diagnosed by looks. They’re diagnosed by function. How the tongue moves. How it lifts. How it works during feeding. And the symptoms you’re both experiencing
🩺 Your pediatrician can’t always tell just by looking. No shade, they’re doing their best. But unless they’ve had specific training in oral function, they might miss it. A quick glance under the tongue during a well check doesn’t cut it. A full hands-on oral assessment by a trained provider is needed
🌀 Body tension can mimic tongue tie symptoms.
Yes, really. Tight neck, jaw, or fascia tension can limit tongue movement. So even if there’s no actual tie, your baby might still struggle with latch, milk transfer, or comfort. This is where bodywork can be a game-changer.
📅 Timing matters. A tongue tie release is usually not an emergency. Rushing into it without preparation can actually make things worse. Babies often need prep work first: bodywork, oral exercises, sometimes feeding therapy. The goal? To help the tongue function better, not just snip tissue
🚫 Not every tongue is tied. And not every feeding issue is caused by a tie. There are many reasons feeding can be hard. We need to treat the whole baby and not just the mouth
✨ If you’ve been told your baby has a tie, or you’re wondering if they do, you deserve answers that go deeper than “yes” or “no.”
Feeding is whole-body work.
And your baby is more than their frenulum.