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Want to know more about starting your baby on solid foods?  Our next courses are on 19th November12th December.Booking l...
09/11/2025

Want to know more about starting your baby on solid foods? Our next courses are on
19th November
12th December.
Booking link on https://linktr.ee/thebreastfeedingcafe

In 1929 Ge**er began an advertising campaign to convince dieticians and pediatricians that canned baby food was just as nutritious as homemade food, and even better because it was scientifically prepared.
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As part of the campaign, doctors received free Ge**er products for patients. Ge**er also funded research touting the health benefits of their food. That research—vaguely worded and devoid of peer review—was published in the Journal of the American Dietetic Association, positioning it as scientific fact.
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Alongside these efforts, Ge**er stated that women who prepared their own baby food were neglecting their husbands—and babies. One 1933 ad read, “For Baby’s Sake, Stay Out of the Kitchen!”
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Alongside these efforts, Ge**er advocated for starting solids at 3 months old. And by the 1950’s—after 20 years of advertising—the average age of introducing solids fell to just 6 weeks old.💔
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Since then the medical community realized that too-early introduction of solids displaced valuable nutrition from breast milk/formula. The consensus among medical institutions today (AAP, U.S. National Institutes for Health, and World Health Organization) is that it’s best to introduce solids at 6 months old. It is at this time that most babies are developmentally ready to eat and need more iron. Conveniently, 6 months is also when babies are capable of feeding themselves.
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Baby food was invented. Mom guilt was marketed.
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There is no perfect order of introducing solids. No no need for “stages” of thickness. These were all constructs in the name of profit.
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Convenience has its place. I love a good yogurt pouch and rely on Cheerios when traveling. But the idea that real food has to be hard isn’t good for anyone. Babies don’t need banana pudding or pricey pouches—a banana is fine!
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There is a reason feeding feels complicated. Corporations spent the last century telling your grandmothers and great-grandmothers that they would be bad moms and wives if they didn’t buy pre-prepared baby food. So the next time you feel a twinge of guilt for feeding your baby YOUR way, remember that it’s not you. It’s history.

Kathryn Stagg - correcting some mis-information & dodgy advice on TV.
07/11/2025

Kathryn Stagg - correcting some mis-information & dodgy advice on TV.

Come along to Clarendon Family centre today for all your feeding needs.Free entryPartners welcome.
20/10/2025

Come along to Clarendon Family centre today for all your feeding needs.

Free entry
Partners welcome.

Our next Starting Solids course is on 25th October....
20/10/2025

Our next Starting Solids course is on 25th October....

22/09/2025

Babies do like flavored breast milk - & now there's proof!!!

So true.
06/08/2025

So true.

It’s World Breastfeeding Week. I’ve shared this post five years in a row now as it remains relevant. One year I hope I won’t have to. I’ll become a cat or running shoe researcher instead.

This week was designed to protect and support breastfeeding. To highlight why we need to invest in mothers, families, babies and the future. Yet for many, this week just makes them want to shout and throw things because breastfeeding certainly isn’t something to celebrate for them.

For far too many, any mention of breastfeeding reminds them of pain, anxiety & a lack of support. It reminds them of their determination to do what had been promised as simple, enjoyable and the ‘right’ way to feed their baby. Determination which slowly turned to desperation when it didn’t work for them.

It reminds mothers of the heartbreak they felt as they stopped breastfeeding before they were ready – it wasn’t just about the promised health benefits but the feeling that their body wasn’t doing what it was meant to do, and the fact they just really wanted to do it.

But this pain is the reason we continue. This week is not about telling everyone they should breastfeed... but more about insisting that those with power step up and actually do something about investing in making a better future for the next generation.

At the moment, rather than protecting breastfeeding, the government doesn’t invest properly in the services, support & expertise that would actually enable breastfeeding – despite reports finding it could save the NHS money.

Instead, cuts to services take away volunteer groups and funding of breastfeeding specialists. What should be an easily fixable issue can turn turned into months of physical pain - and a lifetime of continued emotional pain.

The simple truth is that we set women up to fail. Most breastfeeding problems are created by a society that is not breastfeeding friendly: the actions of others are responsible for poor breastfeeding rates & trauma.

This week is about recognising that hurt and calling for change. I wish we didn’t have to have it. I certainly wish that not so many women and families were hurt by it.

We are open throughout the Summer holidays. Drop in for breastfeeding & Infant feeding support.This week Jenny will be s...
29/07/2025

We are open throughout the Summer holidays. Drop in for breastfeeding & Infant feeding support.
This week Jenny will be supporting you in Sunbury on Tuesday and Mary will be in Shepperton on Thursday.

😎We are open during the Summer Holidays 😎👩‍👧‍👦Older siblings very welcome along to The Breastfeeding Cafe this Summer ho...
27/07/2025

😎We are open during the Summer Holidays 😎
👩‍👧‍👦Older siblings very welcome along to The Breastfeeding Cafe this Summer holidays at Clarendon Family Centre on Mondays 1-2.30pm. Lots to keep them entertained whilst you have a well deserved cuppa and discuss feeding your youngest. 🤱

Stanwell Family Centre

If you are coming to The Breastfeeding Café drop-in in Clarendon today you will just need to walk across the front playg...
21/07/2025

If you are coming to The Breastfeeding Café drop-in in Clarendon today you will just need to walk across the front playground instead of using the path around the side of it.
A large tree is being removed (for safety reasons) so the path will be blocked.

Stanwell Family Centre

Important to know!!!
15/07/2025

Important to know!!!

14/07/2025

Concerned about feeding? Concerned about visiting us?
We're ready to welcome you to Clarendon Family Centre (Stanwell Family Centre ) Monday 1:00-2:30.

Supporting parents with all feeding questions, regardless of how you are feeding your baby.

13/07/2025

Nervous about your first visit to The Breastfeeding Cafe? Mondays 1-2.30pm…

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