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10/11/2025

Monday Morning Musings

🌱 Belief in a Client: From A Counsellor’s Lens

In counselling, belief in a client is not a passive hope, it is an active practice. It means holding space for someone’s potential even when they cannot yet see it themselves.

When we believe in a client, we:

• 🪞 Reflect their strengths. We help them recognise the resilience and resources they already carry.
• 🌿 Normalise growth. Struggles are not failures, but part of the process of becoming.
• 🔑 Empower agency. Belief invites clients to step into their own choices with confidence.

From a counselling perspective, belief is relational. It is about co-creating trust, safety, a strong theareputic alliance and possibility.

Every client carries a story. When we choose to believe in that story, we don’t just support their goals, we affirm and validate their humanity and existence.

That affirmation I find in my counselling practice is when the magic happens, and is often the catalyst for lasting change!

Awareness = Choice = Change
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09/11/2025

🌺Where Memory Rests🌺

We gather not in sorrow’s name,
But in the memory where love became.
A field of poppies, soft and wide,
Where time and tenderness stand side by side.

No trumpet calls, no battle cry,
Just morning light and open sky.
The names we hold, the lives once near,
Still walk beside us, year by year.

They are the warmth in Novembers chill,
The echo on the silent hill.
They are the pause before we speak,
The gentle strength when we feel weak.

So let the silence be our song,
A place where falen hearts belong.
Not lost, but woven through the air,
And in our every breath, they’re always there.
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08/11/2025

✨Saturday is for sharing✨

‘’Beneath every behavior there is a feeling. And beneath each feeling is a need. And when we meet that need, rather than focus on the behavior, we begin to deal with the cause, not the symptom,"
Ashleigh Warner.

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24/10/2025

✨Wow what an end to an epic week✨

Just had my 8th article published in the Counselling Directory.

And today, I’m proud. Fiercely proud.
Because at school, I was told I was thick. That I’d never amount to anything.

Yet here I am, writing from the very brain they dismissed.
A brain alive with ideas, concepts, and ways of seeing the world that don’t fit neatly into their boxes, because they’re mine.

The “stupid” brain.
The brain that, years later, scored an IQ of 136.
Intelligent. Creative. Different. Not broken, just not built for their system.

So thank you, maths teacher, for underestimating me. You gave me the fire to prove you wrong.

Can you imagine what it does to a 15-year-old to be told they’ll never make it?
Fast forward, and here I stand, trusting my gut, following my instincts, refusing to shrink.

✨ Never let anyone convince you that you are stupid.
Your difference is your brilliance. Your voice is your
Power and your brain is unique to you!!

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23/10/2025

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23/10/2025

Isn’t it funny how something can completely throw you off track?
So just had a client visit for the first time and I asked her where she found out about me and she said you were highly recommended from the Princes trust? Wow just wow.

22/10/2025

✨Good morning Facebookers✨

I know some will be thinking omg here she goes again! 🤪

But this one is especially close to my heart I’m doing 30 days of mindfulness 🧘 and yoga for Mind starting in November

Why? well read my bio to find out more about me, and why supporting others mental health is now my life’s mission.

Please donate and share. Thanks 🙏🏻

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21/10/2025

✨CHOOSEDAY✨

What will you choose today?
In counselling, every moment holds a choice. Not always easy, not always loud, but always yours.

Today, you might choose:
🌵 A boundary that protects your peace
🌈 A joy that doesn’t need to be justified
🪜 A small step toward healing
💙 A breath before reacting
😤 A feeling you’ve been avoiding, held gently it’s time to let it go.

Therapy honours these micro-choices. They’re not about perfection, they’re about presence and perspective.

So on this Chooseday, we ask:
What will you choose to honour, release, or reclaim?

With love from TLC Counselling Hub 🌈 Where every choice is a threshold and rightfully yours!

Awareness = Choice = Change

20/10/2025

So as from November, I will be doing ADHD Assessments and screening at the Danebury Practice in Andover please share if you know any one that requires this service.

Currently 16 and above, but will be looking at children in the near future.

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17/10/2025

Morning lovely followers it’s been a busy few weeks over the Hub and I’m delighted to share something exciting happening next week.

Head over to my website to find out what. Happy Friday to you all ✨

https://tlccounsellinghub.co.uk/tlc-hub-news/
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