Kelly The CBT Psychologist

Kelly The CBT Psychologist I am a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Psychologist who has a passion to help you to achieve your full potential.

I can work with you through difficulties by bringing a different perspective from a non-judgemental and supportive standpoint.

06/11/2025

No thank you.

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly







06/11/2025

This storyline has cropped up a few times since it aired.
So let me say yes it does happen (unfortunately), no it is not ethical, yes it is an abuse of power and a breach of trust. Finally it is definitely not advised.

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly



05/11/2025

A “gut feeling” is that deep-down, spontaneous sense you can’t quite explain but you know. It’s your brain quietly drawing on past learning, unconscious cues and body signals to guide you in a split second. It happens via brain-gut communication and rapid prediction based on past experience.

In short, it’s not mystical, it’s your body-brain system doing the heavy lifting.

Why it happens:
- Neuroscientist Joel Pearson defines intuition as “the learned, positive use of unconscious information for better decisions or actions.” 
- We absorb countless cues (lighting, sound, pace, context) below conscious awareness and our brain predicts outcomes using these. 
- Also, science shows there is a bidirectional link between our gut and our brain “gut signals” can influence emotion, cognition and even belief-formation. 

Use this:
Trust the clue, not the panic. Notice the sensation, check it against logic, then decide.

References:
Holzer, P. (2022). Gut signals and gut feelings: Science at the interface of data and beliefs. Frontiers in Behavioral Neuroscience, 16. https://doi.org/10.3389/fnbeh.2022.9296981

Nogrady, B. (2024, February 18). Go with your gut: The science and psychology behind our sense of intuition. The Guardian. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2024/feb/18/go-with-your-gut-the-science-and-psychology-behind-our-sense-of-intuition

05/11/2025

Attractive, confident, charming but are they really as perfect as they seem?
The Halo Effect shapes more than we realise.

The halo effect (sometimes called the halo error), a term coined by Edward Thorndike is a cognitive bias where a positive impression in one area, such as a person’s attractiveness, influences and shapes your overall opinion of them, causing you to assume other positive traits like intelligence or competence. This can lead to biased judgments because you are generalising one positive quality to all others, even without evidence. For example, a physically attractive coworker might be perceived as a good leader, even if their leadership skills have not been demonstrated.

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly



05/11/2025

Tell me one little thing that happened for you today that made you smile, feel grateful for or gave you a sprinkling of joy.

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly


05/11/2025

Ever feel like you’re running on caffeine and cortisol… even when you’re just sitting there?

Here are 5 quiet ways to calm your body without needing a yoga mat or disappearing to the bathroom for a breather.

All science-backed. All therapist-approved. All subtle enough to do in a meeting or a coffee queue.

1️⃣ Physiological sigh:
Big breath in → tiny top-up breath → slow exhale like you’re fogging a mirror. 2–3 rounds = your nervous system will thank you.

2️⃣ Gentle ear pull:
Lightly tug your ears out and down, hold for a few moments. Weirdly soothing and activates your vagus nerve (the body’s “chill” switch).

3️⃣ Bilateral tapping:
Under the table, tap one thigh then the other, slow rhythm, no one notices. Your brain reads it as: “We’re safe now.”

4️⃣ Micro muscle release:
Tongue to roof of mouth. Drop jaw. Drop shoulders. Exhale. Melt a little.

5️⃣ Anchor to one sense:
Find one thing a colour, texture, or sound and focus on it. It’s like hitting pause on your brain.

05/11/2025

Ever feel like you’re running on caffeine and cortisol… even when you’re just sitting there?

Here are 6 quiet ways to calm your body without needing a yoga mat or disappearing to the bathroom for a breather.

All science-backed. All therapist-approved. All subtle enough to do in a meeting or a coffee queue.

1️⃣ Physiological sigh:
Big breath in → tiny top-up breath → slow exhale like you’re fogging a mirror. 2–3 rounds = your nervous system will thank you.

2️⃣ Gentle ear pull:
Lightly tug your ears out and down, hold for a few moments. Weirdly soothing and activates your vagus nerve (the body’s “chill” switch).

3️⃣ Bilateral tapping:
Under the table, tap one thigh then the other, slow rhythm, no one notices. Your brain reads it as: “We’re safe now.”

4️⃣ Micro muscle release:
Tongue to roof of mouth. Drop jaw. Drop shoulders. Exhale. Melt a little.

5️⃣ Anchor to one sense:
Find one thing a colour, texture, or sound and focus on it. It’s like hitting pause on your brain.

04/11/2025

Optimism is defined as a mental attitude characterised by hope and confidence in success and a positive future. Optimists tend to view hardships as learning experiences or temporary setbacks. Even the most miserable day holds the promise for them that “tomorrow will probably be better.”

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly


04/11/2025
04/11/2025

It’s just my thing!

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👩‍💻Check out my website for your free download and to join my monthly inner circle messages.

💫 Take a look at my mental well-being support journals and ebooks for sale on my website in my bio!

🌻 Please remember that instagram is not therapy. I share to give information and perhaps inspiration but the content shared should not be seen as a substitute for therapy.

Take care,
Kelly







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