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Paraklet Love and Life consultancy is a firm that is dedicated to addressing issues of love (dating,

Paraklet Love and Life consultancy is a firm that is dedicated to addressing issues of love (dating, courtship, marriage, and parenting) and life (social, mental/Psychological, emotional, academic, spiritual, and moral) among young people. The Consultancy offers solutions to these issues for people from all walks of life, especially young people. Our services include the provision of counseling services to all who come to us or call us, Career guidance, and organizing seminars and retreats (Love, Educational, Motivational, and other important areas).

02/12/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: TAKE A FORMALISED TEST!
The effort to learn to speak your spouse’s love language is dependent on your ability to identify which of the five is their primary love language. It could be words of affirmation, gifts, quality time, acts of service, or physical touch; but you need to clearly get to know what makes your spouse feel loved. This can be known through taking a formalised test that can help both you and your spouse know what your primary love languages are. This inventory, together with informal observations and interactions can help you know and understand your spouse better. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

01/12/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES:LEARN TO SPEAK!
Words of affirmation, gifts, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch are almost universally accepted as ways of communicating love. Everyone appreciates them one way or another. However, each one has one that they appreciate more. It is important that husbands and wives try as much as they can to identify the primary love language of their spouse and learn to speak it. Though your partner will appreciate any of the other expressions of love, it will be better appreciated if their primary love language is used. Make a conscious effort to learn to speak your spouse’s love. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

30/11/2025

CONSISTENCY: A WAY OF LIFE!
Once your activities are characterised by uniformity, reliability, and harmony, it can be said that you are consistent. Consistency leads to people trusting your name and vouching for your credibility; and consequently finding you trustworthy enough to do business with you. It is therefore important to work on becoming consistent. For these reasons, consistency helps you build your self-confidence and generally contributes to a positive reputation.

It is clear that when you prioritise consistency, you can achieve greater reliability, trust, and success. This is true for both individuals and organisations. You and your organisation should always make a conscious effort to be consistent by being reliable, applying the same principles at all times, and living in harmony with general principles. Consistency should be a way of life. — Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

29/11/2025

WISDOM IS BETTER THAN FOLLY?
After the preacher had stated the meaninglessness of luxury, he went on to compare wisdom and folly (Ecclesiastes 2:12 - 15). His conclusion was simple: “I saw that wisdom is better than folly, just as light is better than darkness” (v. 13). Though this straightforward conclusion seems like the natural fact to state, it may not be the preacher’s final conclusion.

He eventually debates this stance in subsequent verses; but it is worth noting that his initial thought is that wisdom is better than folly. Interestingly he uses light and darkness to illustrate the difference. To him, wisdom is as bright as light and folly is like darkness. By this, the preacher seems to call upon all to embrace wisdom because it is better than folly. But did he really confirm this conclusion? – Josiah B. Andor, PhD.

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

28/11/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: PHYSICAL TOUCH!
Hand holding, massages, hugs, kisses, and other forms of physical touch constitute examples of ways in which your love can be communicated. Giving your spouse a gentle, tender, and caring touch is very important as that kind of physical touch is one of the five love languages identified by Gary Chapman. If your spouse has physical touch as a primary love language, then you have to try as much as possible to do more of holding, touching, caressing, hugging, kissing, and other forms of loving touches. Intentionally doing this will help improve the love in your marriage. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

27/11/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: ACTS OF SERVICE!
When you love someone, you want to give them the best of everything. One way to show this is through acts of service. From the five love languages identified by Gary Chapman, some people have acts of service as their primary love language. This is shown by trying as much as you can to make life easier for your spouse. It may not necessarily involve the big tasks, but simple tasks such as helping to carry a bag, helping in household chores, helping draft a letter, helping with the kids, etc. The principle is simple: make it a point to do something that lightens the load of your spouse. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

26/11/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: QUALITY TIME!
Love is shown by spending quality time with your spouse. Apart from words of affirmation and giving of gifts, another love language identified by Gary Chapman is quality time. When you love someone, you plan to spend some of your time with them. Consider closing earlier from work, taking time off screens and just talking, taking a walk in the neighbourhood, watching the sunset, or doing something you both enjoy together. Intentionally making time to be with your spouse is a great way of communicating your love. Be intentional - spend some quality time together. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

25/11/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: GIFTS!
Apart from words of affirmation, another love language identified by Gary Chapman is the giving of gifts. When you love someone, you tend to share what you have with them; and this is done in the form of gifts. Giving your spouse gifts occasionally or randomly will communicate so much love. Gifts, no matter the size, big or small, are always appreciated. Everyone enjoys gifts, especially those whose primary love language is gifts. Give your spouse some gifts and let the love be known. A little candy, some shoes, bags, a dress, a car, or any thoughtful gift will give your love life a boost. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

24/11/2025

THE FIVE LANGUAGES: WORDS OF AFFIRMATION!
One of the five love languages that Gary Chapman mentions is words of affirmation. This is communicated through words, spoken or written, affirming that your spouse is important and special to you; and that you love them. Simply telling your partner “I love you”, “you look beautiful”, “I am proud of you”, or calling them by an endearing name or title will go a long way to make your spouse feel loved. If your spouse’s primary love language is words of affirmation, then you need to endeavor to speak it out. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

23/11/2025

BECOMING MORE RELIABLE AND TRUSTWORTHY!
When you are consistent, and people get to realise that you are reliable, they tend to trust you more and this improves your relationship with them. Ultimately, consistency promotes stronger and more meaningful relationships. This is so because your actions become more predictable and people are able to live with you better and appreciate you better.

Inconsistency, on the other hand, will lead to a lack of trust and make you appear unreliable. Others will not fully trust you or be willing to rely on you. It is therefore important to embrace consistency, promote uniformity, reliability, and harmony. Consistency will make you more trustworthy and reliable and improve your relationships with others. — Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

22/11/2025

LUXURY IS MEANINGLESS!
In Ecclesiastes 2:10,11, the preacher explains that he did not deny himself anything he desired. He gave in to every impulse and held back nothing (v. 10). He even found pleasure in his hard work. This seems like the kind of life everyone would like to live - a life in which you get whatever you want and you enjoy every bit of life. It is indeed the ideal life. But this is also described as meaningless after carefully surveying all he had achieved.

A life of luxury does not lead to an end better than a life of moderation. Luxury does not guarantee quality of life. It may feel good to have your desires fulfilled, drive the latest cars, eat in the finest restaurants, sleep in a mansion, or work in the most prestigious places; but it cannot be the ultimate goal in life. He concludes that it is as meaningless as chasing after the wind. – Josiah B. Andor, PhD.

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

21/11/2025

LOVE LANGUAGES: THE FIVE LANGUAGES!
The five love languages that Gary Chapman lists include words of affirmation, gifts, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch. By these, he explains that people show love by either uttering words of affirmation, or giving gifts, or spending quality time with their partner, or lending a hand to offer some service, or through gentle loving touches. Everyone appreciates these and feels loved by them. However, each person has one that they appreciate more. That one is their primary love language and it will be better to understand understand your spouse and communicate your love to them using their primary love language. - Dr. Josiah B. Andor

For counselling, speaking engagements, further enquiry, and to remain in touch, contact Dr. Andor, Director of Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy through +233-208905912.

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Hse. # 208, 15th Street, Ayensu Estates
Accra
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