25/02/2026
💍✨ WEDDING WEDNESDAY ✨💍
After such a lovely day at the wedding fair on Sunday, wedding planning is very much top of mind! Some of the beautiful conversations were about one thing: how to protect the joy of the day. 🥰
Planning your wedding should feel exciting and intentional, not heavy with tension or quiet pressure. These points are suitable for everyone, so read on! However, if you’re navigating complex family dynamics as an LGBTQ+ couple, please know this - you are not alone, and you deserve a ceremony that feels fully and unapologetically yours.
Here are a few gentle reminders I often share:
✨ Set boundaries early, and communicate them clearly
✨ Surround yourselves with people who uplift and affirm your relationship
✨ It’s okay to limit involvement from those who bring stress
✨ Honour chosen family in ways that reflect your real journey
✨ Remember - your wedding is a celebration of love, not a performance for approval
Under Brehon Law, marriage was entered into freely, between equals, with full consent and understanding. That spirit still matters. Your ceremony should feel grounded in respect, safety, and truth. 🗣️
I’m really looking forward to continuing those conversations with couples; helping you shape a ceremony that holds your story with care, clarity, and intention.
💬 How do you feel about setting boundaries? Vote in the poll in my stories 👆