30/01/2026
“You are your own worst critic”. It is very true that most of us are hard on ourselves. Many seem to find it hard to switch off the inner critic, and for some people it can feel almost impossible to treat or speak to themselves in a kind or caring manner. Self criticism keeps our nervous system in threat mode. Self-compassion does the opposite.
Even 3 minutes of soothing self-talk can help activate the soothe system, calm your body, reduce overwhelm, and create space to respond instead of react.
You don’t need to fix everything right now. You just need safety first. 🤍