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What it looks like from the outside - a pretty space to relax… What’s really happening is something far deeper.This is ...
05/12/2025

What it looks like from the outside - a pretty space to relax… What’s really happening is something far deeper.

This is where people arrive carrying things they’ve held for years. Old grief. Hidden stress. Patterns that keep looping over and over. Stories and programmes that were never theirs to carry. Beliefs that were formed in moments of hurt. Cycles that they’re ready to step out of.

On the surface it looks like resting on a massage table. Inside, it’s a return to the self.

A place where the body relaxes enough to release years of stress. Where the nervous system feels safe enough to unwind. Where inner power begins to shine again. And there are so many layers that don’t even have words… This is the healing you feel long after you leave the room.

Healthy energetic boundaries don’t come from trying hard or putting on a strong front. They come from clarity within you...
04/12/2025

Healthy energetic boundaries don’t come from trying hard or putting on a strong front. They come from clarity within yourself.

When you are present, connected, and telling the truth inside your own system, your energy becomes easier for others to read. People naturally respond to that clarity without you needing to explain anything.

Boundaries get messy when your energy feels mixed. If your inside and outside don’t match, people don’t quite know where you are, and interactions can feel confusing.

Congruence is one of the strongest energetic boundaries you can have. It lets people feel you as you truly are.

Sometimes this starts with simple awareness. Noticing what happens in your body when you stay with yourself in a conversation. Sensing where your energy ends and someone else’s begins. Paying attention to what changes in you when you pause before responding. These small moments tell you a lot about the state of your boundaries.

Where does your energy feel clear, and where does it feel blurred?

The other day I got a very strong nudge to cancel the distance Reiki session I had planned for my WhatsApp healing group...
03/12/2025

The other day I got a very strong nudge to cancel the distance Reiki session I had planned for my WhatsApp healing group. I couldn’t explain it at the time, I just had a feeling that I should create some space and focus my energy close to home.

And then yesterday everything made sense. Things shifted very quickly here and my boys ended up sick, had to be collected early from school, so most of the day was spent looking after them. I wouldn’t have been able to hold a group healing the way I like to.

Moments like this remind me why I listen to those quiet signals in my body. The more I stay tuned in, the clearer they are, even before I understand them.

It feels good to trust that. To hear the nudge and follow it. For me it’s like a very quick full body message to do or not to do something. I’m so curious - do you get those nudges and what do they feel or sound like to you? Is it immediate flash or a slow kind of inner knowing? I think we all have a different way of tuning in and it’s just about getting to know our own signals.

The energy of a home is always moving. Everyone picks up on everyone else, often without realising it.You can feel it in...
02/12/2025

The energy of a home is always moving. Everyone picks up on everyone else, often without realising it.

You can feel it in the small shifts. When someone is centred, the space softens. When someone is overwhelmed, the atmosphere tightens. It isn’t because anyone is doing something wrong. It’s simply that our nervous systems are always reading the room.

And this has nothing to do with being calm. Calm can be held together on the surface while everything inside feels shaky. What actually steadies a home is congruence, which is when your inner world and your outer presence match. Not perfect or polished, just honest.

Children notice this instantly. They relax when your energy is readable. They feel safer when you’ve come back to yourself, even if you are still tired or tender.

This is why one person becoming congruent can shift the whole atmosphere. It isn’t about calm. It’s about truth that your system, and theirs, can trust.

There’s something incredible about witnessing someone come back to themselves.Every now and then I see a client shift in...
30/11/2025

There’s something incredible about witnessing someone come back to themselves.

Every now and then I see a client shift into a version of themselves they haven’t felt in a long time.
It’s subtle, but unmistakable - a quiet clarity beginning to rise.

They’re no longer caught in the old pattern,
no longer shrinking or doubting, just a grounded sense of “I’m here”.

Moments like that remind me why I love this work.
To hold space, offer the energy work, and watch someone reconnect with their own inner steadiness.

It’s less about “power” and more about a deep knowing that starts to switch back on.

Those moments stay with me.

We don’t need to speak to influence a space. Our nervous system communicates through presence, tone, breath, posture, ey...
28/11/2025

We don’t need to speak to influence a space. Our nervous system communicates through presence, tone, breath, posture, eye contact… All of it is energy, and all of it is felt.

Children feel it instantly. So do animals. If your system is overwhelmed, they notice. If you’re steady, they soften.

And when I say “steady,” I don’t mean calm.
Calm can be performed. What truly supports a space is congruence - when your inner state and outer presence match. Your system relaxes when you’re honest with yourself,band the people around you feel that clarity.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about awareness. When you regulate yourself, everyone around you benefits.

Your energy is a form of leadership, even inside your own home.

28/11/2025

Your emotional well-being matters. ❤️‍🩹

I was at my friend Tara’s yoga class this morning, and something settled in me in a really beautiful way.It reminded me ...
26/11/2025

I was at my friend Tara’s yoga class this morning, and something settled in me in a really beautiful way.

It reminded me that the people who support others also need support themselves. Those of us who guide, teach, or hold space still need places where we can arrive without leading… and simply be met.

My own practices matter. Meditation, breathwork, the way I tune in each day - they keep me on track. But they don’t replace the experience of receiving from someone else. There’s a depth to that kind of support that home practice can’t always reach.

Sitting in Tara’s class brought that home again. My whole system relaxed the moment I didn’t have to hold anything.

We’re not meant to manage everything alone. And our work goes deeper when we let ourselves be cared for too.

A reminder I needed today: receiving isn’t indulgent. It’s part of staying aligned.

Sometimes the most powerful work happens quietly - in the moments no one sees. When you’re tending to your energy, choo...
25/11/2025

Sometimes the most powerful work happens quietly - in the moments no one sees. When you’re tending to your energy, choosing alignment over urgency, and trusting what’s unfolding.

It’s not always visible, but it’s deeply real. Every quiet reset, every breath that brings you back to centre, builds a kind of stability that can’t be measured.

That’s the real foundation of freedom - energy that’s congruent, clear, and at peace within itself.

25/11/2025

Speaking your truth won’t always be comfortable. Sometimes it clears out what isn’t aligned.
But that’s the gift. 💯

What falls away was never meant to stay. What remains — and what arrives — is a match for the real you.
🎯 Stay rooted in authenticity.

Kate came to me because she hadn’t slept properly in months. She said her mind would race the minute she lay down. Her n...
25/11/2025

Kate came to me because she hadn’t slept properly in months. She said her mind would race the minute she lay down. Her nights were filled with tossing and turning, and her days felt foggy and heavy.

During the session, her system slowly shifted out of that wired state. Her breath deepened and her body softened. By her third session, she messaged me to say she’d slept through the night for the first time in months.

She said, “It’s like my whole system finally remembered how to switch off.”

Reiki helps your nervous system settle, so rest can reach you again.

A little note about gift vouchers…This is the time of year when everyone starts sharing gift ideas and “treat someone yo...
24/11/2025

A little note about gift vouchers…

This is the time of year when everyone starts sharing gift ideas and “treat someone you love” posts. In the past I would have been doing the same without thinking twice.
But this year I took a moment to pause.

Over the last while I’ve had a few sessions where someone arrived with a voucher they’d been given… and you could sense straight away that they weren’t fully sure they wanted to be there. Just that subtle feeling you pick up as soon as someone walks in.

It reminded me of something important in this work - healing needs to be chosen by the person receiving it.

When someone is genuinely open, the session flows naturally. When they’re unsure, the energy doesn’t quite meet in the same way, and that’s nobody’s fault. It’s simply how it is.

So instead of promoting vouchers heavily this year, I’m keeping it simple:

Vouchers are available if they feel right for someone you love, maybe just suss out whether it’s something they’d actually like.

The most meaningful sessions always begin with their own quiet “yes.”

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