25/10/2020
This happens to the best of us. I've heard my clients telling me... 'but I don't want to be happy, I'm okay being sad' or 'I don't know what I'm seeking from therapy because I just feel I don't want any help'
Sometimes we hold onto our trauma, only because now we get a sense of belongingness. It feels like, this is it. This is my life.
I'm someone who got cheated on, or I'm just somebody who got replaced or left behind or I'm just someone who's meant to be sad or I'm just someone who ruins everything that I touch.
Reality is, you're here in therapy to know what else you are. You're here to realise that THIS doesn't define you. You're here to acknowledge and understand what you've achieved till now, why you're still alive and what's your purpose.
So, don't hold back from gaining a newer perspective. Something someday would make sense.🤗