26/06/2025
Day 9 — Cousin’s Curse: How Your Mind Could Be Making You Fat
We’ve all had that one cousin, friend, or neighbor who just looks at food and gains weight — or so we think.
But what if the real weight isn’t in the paratha or the pastry… but in our perception?
Let’s begin with a curious stage experiment. A hypnotherapist gave a girl a glass of salt water, but suggested to her subconscious mind — now in deep trance — that it was sugar water. She drank it and smiled: “Yes, it’s sweet.”
What you believe, you become.
In another classic experiment from Harvard, elderly participants were immersed in a setting that mimicked the 1960s — music, furniture, magazines, everything. After just a few weeks, their blood pressure dropped. Posture improved. They had aged in reverse.
Why?
Because their mind believed it was 40 years younger — and the body responded.
Mind cannot take a joke.
If you keep repeating, “I’m fat,” your body listens.
If you live in regret, anxiety, or self-loathing, your metabolism follows suit.
Take the story of Norman Cousins — diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis and written off by doctors. He refused to accept the prognosis. Instead, he embraced laughter, optimism, and high-dose vitamin C. His famous book “Anatomy of an Illness” recounts how ten minutes of genuine belly laughter gave him two hours of pain-free sleep. He outlived every prediction.
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
Even Lord Rama, exiled, wronged, and torn from his beloved Sita, lived with dignity, never with despair.
Even Jesus, nailed to a cross, chose forgiveness over bitterness.
Their bodies were in pain, but their spirits never suffered. And so their stories still lift us — millennia later.
Exercise for Day 9: Be Cheerful for No Reason
Just laugh.
Stand in front of a mirror and smile at yourself.
Giggle, chuckle, laugh even if you don’t feel like it — especially if you don’t feel like it.
Joy is a muscle. Practice flexing it.
And you’ll notice — your body begins to feel lighter.
Coming up tomorrow in Day 10: Eyes That Can’t See
Is it your hunger that’s driving your hand… or hidden triggers in plain sight? Discover what you’ve been blind to all along.