Life Returns You What You Give To It

30/12/2022

Hello and Happy New Year!
Not sure what to do in new year or how to begin with? Ever thought of "Bringing your Future You into Present"?
If I am not sure what actions I should do now, then I might end up being a mediocre person in another new year.

Just answer this question to yourself- "How would I live my life I am a successful person and I have all the qualities, facilities, resources and people with me?" "What will be my daily routine? "
The answers to above questions will lead you to actions of new year. Start behaving like a successful leader now and treat yourself and others in same way. You will be one step closer to bring your future into present. And remember- Life returns you, what you give to it.

Enjoy

08/04/2016

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09/09/2015

Do you ask question or just pass order?

Everyday we deal with many people around us. Some in home, some in workplace. We are Inter-dependent people. Sometime we work for others and sometime we need to others' help in our work. Imagine a case where your friend or colleague is giving you an order, "come here and give me this, go there and do this".
Does it sound good? Do you really like the way you are being treated? In my opinion, answer is NO. Now a days No one likes to be given order to them.

Imagine another case, now you have some work and you just pass an order to near and dear ones. "Mumma, I want this", "Listen sister, you are not going there", "hey buddy! you are coming with me now"... See what happens when both the people are giving orders to each other. Both feel annoyed, Right? So what is the solution?? In my opinion, It is simple, "JUST START ASKING QUESTIONS".

When we ask question like, "Would you come with me? Your help is needed", "would you go there if possible? I am not able to make it today", "would you work on this with me?" the other person feels 'respected' as you are asking his/her permission also his/her opinion matters to you and hence they will start working for you happily. See the difference in just asking question.

There is a rule, "everyone wants to feel accepted by someone". When we ask questions (permissions) in our daily routine work, people around us will start liking our company as you are not imposing any order to them. And do you know what they will do, they will also start asking your permission from you. After all once you start giving respect, you get respect. Life returns you what you give to it!!

Stay Happy! Stay Blessed

~Tarun : )

07/08/2015

"Don't Let 'Pressure' ride over you, we can always RESTART"

Last two weeks of July, I was occupied with too much work. I was trying hard but work was not getting completed.
After one week I started to loose my confidence. I tried to read good positive thoughts but in vein. The problem got worse when I was not able to sleep properly and was not able to take good care of myself. It started affecting my productivity day by day. And then one evening, I said to myself,
"enough!!" "I can't allow any situation to affect my life badly", "I need to stop this".

It was time to introspect and I found my thought process was like, "oho!! how much effort and time I have put in for last few days and still not able to get any result, OMG!!". Yes friends, this burden of 'past' was dragging me behind and I was not able to find my way.

1. I immediately wrote down few good lines about myself, my family and my Job in my diary. It was like,
"With God's grace, I am living a good life", "I have a great and supportive family", "I am working in a fantastic company and in a very good project".

2. I reminded myself that, "its okay that I am not getting success even after hard work", "I can always do a RESTART". I just freed myself from the baggage of past and stopped measuring the effort of past which I had put in.

And it worked like a miracle. I was able to do a fresh restart. I was gaining my self confidence back and my brain was free from 'cobwebs' of past work and I finished my work in next couple of days.
Friends, when we stuck somewhere in life, sometime it is good to have 'let it go' approach and find a new way to RESTART.
Life is a journey and its not necessary that every path will lead you to your destination. Sometime we have to come back and again do a Restart. "Life will return you destination, if you just keep walking again and again and again".

Stay Happy! Stay Blessed!
T@run-Rathore

08/07/2015

Let's opt for the Best!
In a store we select best products for ourselves. Best in class, Best in Quality, Don't We? What's wrong in that, everyone does the same. Oh Yes! I too agree!

We dress in a very fashionable manner so that we look good, feel confident. We shop best material for our house building, Best ingredients for cooking, Best vehicle (of course in budget). And that's how it should be. Isn't it?

Would you like, if someone serves you rotten food in your breakfast? Would it be good? What if you have to eat bad quality food everyday? You would be sick soon, right?

The point is, If we like Best Quality Food, Cloths for ourselves EVERYDAY then what happens to us when it comes to quality of our thoughts EVERY TIME?
When people tells you, "Hey! Don't do this, you may fall ill", "You are living in a big/small city, You may get robbed off", "You may fail if you try this", "If you delay this, you may never get it", "In our city/neighbor some bad thing has happened, be careful, it May happen to you".
Situation gets worse when its not people, its us who think negative about ourselves all the time. Oh Come On!! Its time to wake up!!

1. (About People): Can't you use better words in your genuine advice? Of course you are my well wisher but the advices can be given in a positive manner.
2. (About myself): If I have to think about myself, why shouldn't I think POSITIVE about myself. Okay I should take all precautions when start anything, I should learn everything before I try new one but I can also say to myself that, "I will be succeeding", "I will get good results", "I will be healthier", "I will be happier"... I can have better SELF TALK.

The Idea is, our thoughts are Seeds in our life, which will grow and shape our future life, If I don't use thought power in a positive manner it will eventually result in negative future. I just have to change the manner I think about myself. There is a need to convert every negative thought (either coming from someone or generating in my mind) into positive. I have to be careful when I think about others too. When I give advice to others I should use positive sentences. It will start making positive change in your future life because you are giving it positive seed now. Life will return you what you are giving to it.

Stay Happy! Stay Blessed!
T@run~ Rathore

22/06/2015

Let's throw away the specs, Life is full of different color.

"We can't get a gist of any book by just reading few pages of it." Right? And we say, "can't comment on that book because haven't read it fully."
So why do we become judgmental by seeing just a few days/ months of a long Life of a person? "Mr. X is like this", "Miss Y can't do this", "He is THAT sort of a person" etc....
Shouldn't we see a person as a whole? I meet people who often take reference of the past experience only (not looking in present) to make a comment about someone but why do we forget that during all these days/ months the same person can't improve or couldn't be developed or in better position than me?

"I meet people as they are TODAY and not on the basis of what they WERE in past. I remove the specs of my own perspective/ experience once and try to see person in a neutral way first. Once I found any change (+ve/ -ve) then only I make my new belief about them." This practice gave me better relationship, better sense of acceptability of others and also courage to move beyond the past.
We should not forget that we have also committed few mistakes in life, we are not complete and not all the decisions we made were correct then do we have any right to pass the judgment on other people's actions/ thoughts.

At least be true to yourself first. You can be a victim of same judgmental process of others. "Life returns you what you give to it"

Stay Happy! Stay Blessed!

19/06/2015

Have you made a list?

I was not happy one evening knowing that I didn't accomplish few important things. Then I read in a book that we should write down all the tasks beforehand and then complete them one by one based on priority.
I liked the idea and noted down all tasks in my diary. Though I couldn't accomplish all the tasks on that day but at the end I was having few tick mark on most important things which were finished and I felt satisfied.

It really worked for me because it reduced tension of my head that, "I need to do so many things". It is always better to cut down your bread in small pieces instead of eating it whole :)

I have changed my habit, I started making list every evening for next day. Have you made your list?

17/06/2015

One can either watch TV or have a meaningful time with family. Both can't be done together. The strong bond in relationship requires 'undivided attention' and listening skills. If I want to have a strong bond in family then there is no scope left for TV.

In my experience watching TV leads you nowhere. It is just a waste of Time which could be utilized in having an Evening walk/ Having a good conversation about your current thinking/ Reading a Book/ Do some creative work etc..

No one likes to throw away their hard earn money from pocket, Aren't we doing the same with our precious time by just watching a screen with very limited IQ level of various programs?

For daily updates we can have news paper and online websites too. For music we can have CDs/ Mobile (if we are really serious). We can have a good time to watch a movie in cinemas.

Believe me friends it is just not worth it to waste our time. As I always remember, "Life is too short to be little, Live a great life".

Stay Happy! Stay Blessed.

Om Shanti