10/10/2017
World Mental Health Day -2017
Over 15 years ago the World Health Organisation predicted that by the year 2020, depression would reach epidemic proportions and be the major cause of fatality. The latest statistics from the WHO are undeniable proof that we are indeed headed in that direction and moving at an alarming pace. Every 40 seconds, someone, somewhere in the world, dies by su***de. It is not surprising, then, that this year’s theme for World Mental Health Day is, “Depression –let’s talk “. That the numerous efforts to spread awareness and offer treatment options have not produced the desired results in terms of a reduction in su***de rates and depression related deaths is a matter of grave concern.
Depression is an illness characterized by persistent sadness and a loss of interest in activities that you normally enjoy, accompanied by an inability to carryout daily activities, a loss of energy, change in appetite, sleeping more or less, reduced concentration, feelings of worthlessness, guilt, hopelessness, thoughts of self harm or su***de etc.
Think of depression as a continuum of severity. On one end it is bothersome, at the other end debilitating. When persons with depression are asked, “How depression feels “, a common word they use is “Hell”. “ If there is a hell upon the earth, it is to be found in a melancholy heart “, observed Robert Burton in the 1600s. The poet Robert Lowell wrote, “I myself am hell”, “A room in Hell “, “A lonely, private hell”. “ Hell’s black depths, “said William Styron, author of Sophie’s Choice. There seems to be an intimate connection between hell and the hopelessness of depression. The images are dark and evocative. Desperately alone, doom, black holes, deep wells.
Depression involves a complete absence: absence of effect, absence of feeling, absence of response, absence of interest. The only thing you know is that you are guilty, shameful and worthless. It is not that you have made mistakes in your life, or sinned or reaped futility. It is that you are a mistake, you are sin, you are futility. Perhaps some who are reading this rather bleak and gloomy description of how depression feels, may begin to feel depressed. But take heart! It is not the end of the road.
As gloomy as this description may seem it is not the end of the road.
There is indeed light at the end of the tunnel! Every cloud, no matter how black, does have a silver lining! There is hope even if you can’t see it or feel it. This is where talking about it helps – initially it may be to just respectfully listen to the silence and gently reassure the person that you as a family member or a friend or a professional are physically present with them and available to attend to them. Gradually, as bonding develops the person will start to talk, which apart from what he / she is experiencing will include questioning , “ why me ? “ What have I done? What sin have I committed? Will I ever come out of it? As the person is encouraged to continue to describe their feelings, they will begin to notice the fears, failures, losses, frustrations and broken relationships that might be attached to their feelings and then be ready to discuss effective ways of dealing with whatever may be the underlying issue. Treatment for depression is a combination of taking antidepressants if required and talking about it with a competent person. No matter how much talk therapy may be criticized by some, if it leads to hope and useful insights, it is proven to be the best form of treatment for depression. This is the message I wish to send out today as we celebrate World Mental Health Day – “Don’t give up, there is hope”. Talk about it!!
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