Boiz Klub

19/10/2025

IF SHE ENTERTAINS OTHER MEN, SHE AIN’T YOURS

LOYALTY ISN’T TALKED ABOUT — IT’S PROVEN IN SILENCE.

Listen up, men — attractive women will always get attention.
That’s not the issue. The test is whether she entertains it.

A high-value woman protects her man’s name even when he’s not in the room.
Most modern girls?
They flirt with temptation and expect you to stay loyal.
Not here. Not us.

Let’s break this down like men:

1. Attention Is Normal — Entertaining It Isn’t
She’ll get approached.
That’s life.
But if she keeps the conversation going, smiles a little too long, or conveniently "forgets" to mention she has a man?
That’s disrespect in disguise.

2. Boundaries Make a Woman Worth Keeping
A loyal woman knows how to shut things down.
She doesn’t crave validation from random men.
She craves respect from her man and gives it back.

3. Modern Girls Love the Attention
They’ll claim it’s “just harmless fun.”
It’s not.
It’s fuel for entitlement, emotional cheating, and relationship rot.
Ignore it now — pay for it later.

4. Simping Has a Price
If you let her treat you like an option because she’s hot, you’re not in love.
You’re under a spell.
And spells get men ruined.

5. Masculine Men Observe, Then Decide
We don’t beg for loyalty.
We watch her habits.
If she disrespects the bond, we leave like kings.
No arguments. No begging. No second chances.

FINAL WARNING:
Stop explaining to grown women how to be loyal.
If she doesn’t value your name when you’re not there, she’s not yours.
A man who knows his value doesn’t fight for what should be freely given.

17/10/2025

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10/10/2025

09/10/2025

SHE WASTED HER YOUTH — NOW SHE WANTS YOUR COMMITMENT

She’ll sleep around for years, party every weekend, date toxic men, and brag about “living her best life.”
She’ll post quotes about freedom, independence, and not needing a man — all while giving her body to men who never respected her.

Then she hits 30.
Her phone stops ringing. Her “options” vanish. The same men she chased for fun now call her “sis.” Suddenly, the girl who mocked traditional women wants to talk about loyalty, respect, and settling down.

Now she wants you — the stable man, the disciplined man, the man who built himself — to forget her past and pay full price for what others got for free.

1️⃣ WHEN SHE WAS HOT, SHE DIDN’T WANT HONEST MEN.
She wanted excitement, drama, and validation. The nice guy was “too boring.” She chased the chaos and called it “chemistry.”

2️⃣ HER PARTY YEARS WERE HER PRIORITY YEARS.
She spent her prime chasing attention instead of wisdom. Now she’s chasing time she’ll never get back — trying to rebrand herself as “wifey material.”

3️⃣ NOW SHE WANTS YOUR STABILITY, NOT YOUR LOVE.
You’re not her dream — you’re her backup plan. You’re the man she hopes will fix the mess she created. She doesn’t want partnership; she wants rescue.

4️⃣ SHE EXPECTS FORGIVENESS WITHOUT ACCOUNTABILITY.
She’ll cry about how “men ain’t loyal” while hiding her own body count like it’s classified information. She wants the benefits of purity without the discipline that maintains it.

5️⃣ THE WOMAN WHO MOCKED SUBMISSION NOW BEGS FOR MARRIAGE.
But real men see through the performance. They know the same woman who partied her 20s away can’t suddenly transform into a peaceful wife overnight.

6️⃣ MODERN WOMEN WANT MEN WITH TRADITIONAL VALUES — BUT REFUSE TO BE TRADITIONAL THEMSELVES.
They want your wallet, your protection, your loyalty — while keeping their independence, secrets, and entitlement.

7️⃣ THE REALITY:
You don’t owe her your resources because she “finally matured.” She made her choices. Let her live with them. Don’t let guilt or society pressure you into saving someone who only noticed your value when hers declined.

FINAL WARNING:
Men, protect your legacy. Stop saving women from the consequences they created. Don’t let lust or loneliness trick you into rebuilding what another man destroyed. A woman’s past matters — not because of shame, but because patterns don’t lie. Choose peace, not problems. Choose respect, not regret.

04/10/2025

‎10 Wrong Parenting Styles That Create Brøken Adults
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‎Marriage is beautiful, but parenting is one of its greatest assignments. Unfortunately, many adults today are damaged not by demóns or destiny, but by the parenting style they were exposed to. As a marriage counselor, I’ve seen husbands and wives still bleeding from childhood, raising their own kids with inherited pain.
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‎Dear parents, parenting is a ministry. We must be careful not to produce well-fed children with empty souls. Below are 10 parenting styles that may look normal today, yet they produce brøken adults tomorrow.
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‎1. The Shouting and Beating Style
‎Some parents believe the only language children understand is shouting and slapping. Every little mistake is met with verbal abùse. These kids grow up afraid, insecure, and emotionally crippled. They may obey you out of fear, but they will resent you deep inside.
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‎2. The Over-Pampering Style
‎This looks like løve, but it destrøys. Children who are never corrected become adults who cannot take responsibility. They grow up thinking the world owes them everything. Tomorrow, their spouse suffers it. Overpampered boys become lazy husbands; overpampered girls become entitled wives.
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‎3. The Too-Busy Parenting Style
‎Both parents are pursuing money, ministry, or fame. The children are raised by house-helps, gadgets and cartoons. These kids grow up emotionally detached. They know their parents pay school fees, but they don’t feel Løved. Tomorrow, they struggle to løve or trust anyone deeply.
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‎4. The Comparison Style
‎“What’s wrong with you? See your brother!” These words break something inside a child. Comparison breeds jealousy, hatred and low self-esteem. Such children become adults who feel insignificant, who compete instead of connect, all because home trained them to feel inferior.
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‎5. The Military Parenting Style
‎Rigid rules, no affection, no smile, no praise. Only “Yes sir, No ma.” The children grow up like soldiers, not sons. They find it hard to receive løve or show emotion later in life, even in marriage. They obey you, but their hearts are lonely.
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‎6. The Public Shaming Style
‎Parents who insult their children in public, calling them names, embarrassing them in front of others. Such children grow up feeling worthless. They become adults who hide, avoid people, or over-perform just to prove they are not useless.
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‎7. The Neglect Style
‎Some parents are physically present but emotionally absent. They never listen, never notice sorrow in their child’s face, never ask “How are you really doing?” These children feel unseen. They grow up emotionally dehydrated, always looking for attention from the wrong hands.
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‎8. The Hypocritical Style
‎Parents who teach Bible at home but live another life outside. Or parents who praise God in church but fight like enemies at home. Children see everything! Hypocrisy confuses them. They grow up hating religion, distrusting people, and repeating the same double life.
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‎9. The Over-Control Style
‎Parents who decide everything: school, course, career, who to marry. They suffocate their child’s destiny. That child grows up either rebellious or totally wéâk. Such adults cannot make decisions, and they blame everybody for how their life turned out.
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‎10. The Conditional Løve Style
‎Parents who only show affection when a child performs well. “You got A’s? I løve you. You misbehave? I withdraw love.” This creates adults who are performance-driven. They never feel enough. They end up trying to earn løve from friends, spouse, even from God — because home taught them that you are only Løved when you are perfect.
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‎Final Thoughts
‎Dear parents, children don’t just grow; they are trained. Some of us are still healing from childhood wounds, yet God is counting on us to break this evil cycle. Let us raise emotionally whole children. Let us correct with love, discipline with wisdom, listen with our heart, and guide them with prayer.
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‎A healthy child today becomes a healthy spouse tomorrow.
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‎Let us not raise broken adults in the name of “I am the parent.”
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30/09/2025

What stage is yours 🤣🤣🤣🤣

29/09/2025

They should know men are important....
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21/09/2025

MY TRUTHS ABOUT WOMEN

1. Women don't love with their hearts. They love with their heads. Their love is nothing but calculation and self-interest. For them, a man is not an end but a means to an ideal. For example: escaping singlehood, poverty, lack, finding a job, etc. You're just a pawn.

2. No matter what you've done for a woman, she will only remember two things: what you didn't do and the "harm" you did to her. This is why a woman you buy a phone for can easily leave you or cheat on you with someone who gave her money. You buy her a car, and she cheats on you with someone who changed her tires or bought her gas.

3. Women are hypergamous. They have no attraction to a man they "outshine." Always invest in yourself, your looks, your education, your plans. Because a woman won't hesitate to leave you if she finds someone better than you. A man goes to Europe. There's an 80% chance he'll stay with his sweetheart. If it's the woman who goes, the relationship is irrevocably over. A man is admitted to the magistrate's exam. He can always marry his illiterate girlfriend. If it's the woman who passes, the boyfriend's fate is sealed.

4. A woman is a metaphor for the absurd. She can leave her husband because of infidelity and enter into a relationship with a legally married man to become a mistress. She can leave a man who scolds her for a guy who beats her.

5. A woman's regret is nothing but hypocrisy. Women only feel remorse when their choices haven't worked out. That's why you should never accept a woman who left you and then comes back. She doesn't come back because she loves you. But because she hasn't found anything better elsewhere.

6. Women excel in the art of manipulation. When there's disagreement between you and your partner, they can make you look obsessed, irresponsible, or insane just to make people feel sorry for them and agree with them. To do this, they won't hesitate to shed torrents of tears, if necessary, to make themselves look like the poor victim of a psychopath.

7. Women are always uncompromising about their worth. As long as they're fresh, beautiful, and young, they'll never want a broke guy. They want someone handsome, strong, and rich. But as soon as they hit their thirties and start to lose their cool, usually with a child with an irresponsible father and sagging breasts, that's when they start looking for love. This is where you hear the famous phrase: "Love is the heart." The truth is, she has nothing left to offer.

8. You will never replace a woman's parents. You can pay for her education, classes, training, find her a job while her biological parents are there, without lifting a finger. But as soon as she sees the light at the end of the tunnel, and a disagreement arises with her or her family, she won't hesitate to dump you. With the complicity of her parents. This is where you hear the legendary phrase: "They are my parents. They're the ones who brought me into this world."

9. Women are unpredictable. You can live with a woman for 20 years without ever knowing her until the day you get sick, or you die, or she gets a job. That's when she shows her true colors to you or your family.

10. Women are the embodiment of ingratitude and lack of appreciation. No matter how much you pay the rent, the bills, the utilities, and take care of her without flinching, she'll only ever remember them as trivial acts. But the day she buys a needle in the house, the whole world will know. She'll remind you of it all your life.

Note: Exceptions (good women) exist. The only problem is finding them.

20/09/2025

80% OF DIVORCES ARE FILED BY WOMEN—AND MEN STILL GET BLAMED AS THE QUITTERS

Here’s the brutal truth: four out of five divorces aren’t filed by men. They’re filed by women. Yet when the dust settles, when the papers are signed, and when the kids start carrying backpacks between two houses, the finger still points at the man. Society still says: “He quit.” But the facts tell a story most refuse to face.

1. Men don’t leave—they endure. A man will stay in a dead marriage long after the intimacy, respect, and warmth have vanished. He’ll sleep in silence, eat disrespect, and swallow rejection because he knows what’s at stake—family, legacy, stability. That isn’t quitting. That’s sacrifice.

2. Women walk away—and call it “growth.” The modern script rewards abandonment. She doesn’t call it quitting, she calls it “I’m unhappy,” “I’ve outgrown him,” or “I deserve better.” But vows said “for better or worse.” Boredom was never grounds for betrayal. “Finding yourself” shouldn’t mean destroying your family.

3. The courts reward the leaver. There’s a reason women file first. Custody leans their way. Child support flows their way. Assets split in their favor. Divorce isn’t just about broken hearts—it’s about incentives. And the system pays her to leave.

4. Men get branded as failures. Even when he didn’t file, even when he fought until his soul bled, society still brands him the quitter. “Why couldn’t he hold it together?” “Why didn’t he fight harder?” Nobody ever asks, “Who walked into the lawyer’s office first?”

5. Children carry the real scars. Adults argue about who quit. Kids don’t. They just learn to live between two homes. Two holidays. Two broken lives. They lose the safety of one roof and one family—all for her pursuit of “happiness.”

6. The lie of quitting. Men don’t quit marriage. They quit being disrespected. They quit being treated like wallets. They quit begging for love from someone who already left emotionally. And most of the time—they didn’t quit at all. They got left.

7. The brutal truth. If 80% of divorces are filed by women, then 80% of the time—it wasn’t the man who quit. It was her. And yet—he’s the one who walks around carrying the scarlet letter of failure.

FINAL WARNING: Don’t let culture rewrite the script. Don’t let them brand you the quitter for surviving the war she declared. She filed. She left. She quit. And the children—the very ones you both swore to protect—are the ones left bleeding in silence.

17/09/2025

THE FEMALE double side CONTROL...

16/09/2025

1. He is 67 years old.

2. He has retired as a teacher — a primary school headteacher.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children. His life was an assembly line in a factory.

4. He compromised his strategic goals to pay for expensive school fees in high school and university.

5. The children are currently in lucrative jobs, some in Europe, Australia and America.

6. His wife, aged 55, has relocated to live with the children who paid for her ticket to Australia, and later another ticket to Europe, and finally to America. She will live there for 5 years, visiting them.

7. But the man remains alone back at home.

8. His children rarely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a single man in the village.

10. He also struggles with metabolic ailments like Hypertension and Diabetes.

11. He is waiting for his pension which is stuck at the National Social Security Fund. He is always traveling to the city to confirm if his pension file has been found.

12. This is the reality for most working-class men in monogamous arrangement: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, the older he gets, the less valuable he becomes and everyone doesn't seem to have attention for him.

14. Therefore, what benefits do men derive from this biological programming called marriage?

15. We sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for the hard work, while the woman benefits from emotional security, financial access and the compromise the man makes to accomodate the woman.

Men,

What are you doing to protect yourself from this isolation?

I can guarantee you that the isolation is inevitable.

What are you doing about it?

What is your retirement plan?

Focus on yourself as much as you care for the family.

Start living in singularity as early as now.

Take care of yourself.

God bless you.

16/09/2025

Did the bull climb my cow
So yesterday morning my cow had smell and wanted to be climbed. Since there was no one , it broke free and went to my neighbours where it was climbed by his bull.
The neighbour hears the story , comes and takes my cow when I'm not around demanding 500 because his bull climbed my cow. I told him his bull is actually a very week breed and as a matter of fact the climbing happened by the roadside not at his place. Its him who tied his bull there . Also , its the village kids who witnessed the event and we can't ask kids if at all it entered. Maybe the climbing wasn't even successful. So I took my cow home and refused to pay. Now he is threatening to tell the chief.
Crazy how petty people can get.
My neighbour is my uncle. The one I buy cups every now and then 🤦‍♀️.
Very ungrateful individual.