Hypnotherapy Clinic

09/01/2017

10 TERRIBLE THINGS THAT WILL BURY YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE LONG BEFORE YOU REALIZE THAT EVERYTHING BETWEEN YOU IS DESTROYED: NUMBER # 9 IS THE MOST DANGEROUS!

No relationship is perfect, nor can function if you do not work on it. Both of the partners must do their best to save the relationship. These are 10 things that each of the partners needs to take into consideration, if they want to have a healthy relationship.

Arguing in public

You need to know that in a relationship both sides are equal. Whatever you want to say to each other, say it as an adults at home between four walls. Do not argue in public, because this generally leads to your relationship being destroyed.

Ghosts from the past

Bringing up all the negative impressions and pain from a previous relationship in the present one is strictly prohibited. Bringing up this stuff will destroy your relationship and any chance of it to work. What you need to do is start over and forget all the past relationships. Do not let your past experience define your present relationship.

Jealousy

Jealousy is not an option, especially if it is a long and serious relationship. If your partner does not give any reason for jealousy, then you must not be jealous. However, if for some reason you do not trust your partner, think carefully whether this relationship is what you really want.

Intimate relationships

When people start using their intimate relationships as a system of penalties and rewards, they are moving down a dangerous road. This will increase the chances of the other party becoming unfaithful or will eventually lead to the end of the relationship. During intimate relations each of the partners needs to express their deepest feelings. This way both sides will be happy and satisfied.

Support

Your partner must always be there for you, and you for him/her. In the most difficult times you have to be next to each other and this way you can make everything work out as you want to. Everyone feels comfortable when they have someone to rely on at all times.

Eye contact is very important

Eye contact is very important when you’re talking with someone you care about, especially if that someone is your partner. This will show the person you are talking to that you are actually listening and that you care about what that person wants to tell you. If you do not do this, people will feel like they are undesirable.

Trust

Trust is one of the key factors of each relationship. Without it, your relationship is just a facade that will soon fall apart. Before you engage in a serious relationship with any person, make sure that you can trust that person. Trust is equally important as love.

Affectation and dissatisfaction

If every day you express dissatisfaction, your relationship is doomed. Nobody likes people who are eternally dissatisfied and those who complain about everything and everyone.

Feeling in love with yourself

If at some point of the relationship you realize that your whole relationship is about one of the partners and both of you care only about the interests of that partner then this is no longer a relationship. You must remember that in each relationship both of the partners are equally important. Even when you want to do something for yourself you must always think about your partner, and vice versa.

Take a day only for you

Take a da y off and celebrate love. Of course, express your love to each other every day but select a date when everything will be about you and other day when everything will be about your partner. This will again cause a spark between you and your partner, and the partner will thus feel special and loved.

08/01/2017

If Your Guy Ever Does These 4 Things Do Not Marry Him

The concept that a loving relationship between partners should be all about love and respect should never be forgotten. There are an abundance of truly healthy relationships where both partners communicate, show respect and affection, and work hard to keep the relationship in good-standing.
Unfortunately, there are also an abundance of relationships that look nothing like the aforementioned relationship. Even more distressing is that many of these destructive relationships evolved despite early signs of dysfunction. For women, these signs should be deal breakers that scream “Don’t Marry Him!”. The four biggest deal breaker should be:

Temper and Violence
Violence doesn’t have to become physical to set off alarms. If a man is prone to excessive verbal outbursts and physical actions such as destroying property, it might be nothing more than a matter of time before that violence is turned towards his partner in the form of physical abuse. Worse of all, temper and violence tend to escalate and can’t be easily fixed without counseling.

Infidelity
“Once a cheater, always a cheater”. Once a person has shown the willingness to cross the line, that willingness will always exist. If your man has a history of infidelity in prior relationships or cheats early within the existing one, the necessary love and respect are not present and it is only going to get worse. Relationships can only grow if people take them one at a time.

Addiction
Drug abuse, alcoholism, s*x addiction and compulsive gambling are all highly destructive behavioral problems that tend to take down anything in its path. Far too many women feel compelled to “save” the addict from himself. The reality is that most addicts need intensive counseling and support just to gain and ounce of abstinence and, women are ill-prepared to “fix” a sick addict.

Possessive Behavior
If a man exhibits signs of extreme jealousy and ownership over his partner, he is most likely suffering from issues of low self-esteem and little confidence. A mentally healthy man understands a woman’s need for social interaction and won’t get in the way. Unfortunately, possessive behavior often leads to rage and violence.
If your partner exhibits any of these signs, your best option is to move on and find the healthy relationship you deserve. Don’t fall victim to your need to nurture and rescue a damaged man. The right man will be the one who has already focused on his issues to become the man you really want and need.

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