Cllr. Nelson Teah Toe Jr.

20/02/2026

Some people come into your lives to awaken parts of you that you never knew existed.

11/02/2026

The trauma of seeing your prayers answered and still losing the blessing because you didn’t know how to handle it.

Interesting point:

People mistake blessings they once prayed for. We handle relationships carelessly and allow pride get in the way of accountability. And when the relationship falls apart, our friends convince us that it wasn’t meant to be, when in reality, it was the very love we once prayed for and enjoyed at some period. Now it’s the result of what we refuse to confront in ourselves.

To make matters worse, we often allow outsiders or friends to influence our decisions of how we handle love. We listen to advice from friends who are still struggling with their own relationships and love. We take emotional counsel from people who lives are filled with unhealed wounds. And without even realizing it, we let those opinions ruin something sacred.

The truth is not everyone who talks about love has the capacity to live it successfully. Be careful of who you speak into your relationship or marriage. By the time you realize it, the damage it done. The person who once stood beside you is gone and now you’re sitting in silence, not just heartbroken but haunted by regrets.

You told yourself there would be time to fix it, time to change things, and time to say sorry. But time runs out. Before you even realize it, you find yourself in your late 30s or early 40s, emotionally drained, alone, wondering where it all went wrong and the possibility of seeing a relationship like that again. That another kind of trauma on one talks about.

The trauma of looking back and realizing you had real love but couldn’t protect it because of pride, ego, and poor decisions. The trauma of missed chances, ignored advice, and listening to the wrong people.

11/02/2026

A real apology isn’t just words; it’s a reflection of emotional maturity. It’s not, I’m sorry you feel this way or I am sorry for what happened.

It’s, “I realized how much I have hurt you, and I take full responsibility for my actions. I want to make it right not just to you but to the relationship “. This level of honesty is powerful and it’s a clear sign of someone with real self-worth.

People with true self-worth aren’t afraid to own their mistakes. They don’t feel smaller for apologizing. They feel stronger, because they value truth over pride and people over power.

11/02/2026

Without apologies, partners stop communicating. Everything stops and people stop trying to make love successful. They become defensive, disconnected and resentful. Even love begins to fade when pride keeps getting in the way. In the end, people think new relationships might be a solution which would be the worst place for solution.

But when both people are willing to apologize, grow and forgive, love deepens. Trust strengthens. And the relationship becomes a space of healing, not harm. Sometimes, refusing to apologize with change, or changing of attitude can cost you to let go the very person you once prayed for. The partner you asked God for. The love you thought you were ready to receive.

When pride speaks louder than humility, and ego speaks louder than love, blessings are lost. Not because they weren’t meant for you, but because your attitude couldn’t sustain what your heart asked for. We don’t just lose people because they stopped believing in us or loving us. We often lose them because we stopped being accountable to the very love we asked God for.

11/02/2026

No one wins when love becomes a Competition

This isn’t just poor communication; it’s a lack of emotional maturity. It’s ego disguised as confidence, and control mistaken for strength. Without self-awareness and humility, even the most successful or charismatic people will find themselves stuck in a cycle of failed relationships.

Over and over again. True self-worth doesn’t scream, demand, or control. It doesn’t sit in silence to punish or wait for others to shrink so it can feel big. Real self-worth allows space for accountability. It invites reflection and seeks peace, not power. Because in the end, no one in a relationship wins the prize. The relationship itself is the prize, when it’s built on mutual respect, emotional connection, safety, and growth.

Real self-worth doesn’t need to win arguments; it seeks to win hearts. Love cannot survive where pride refuses to listen and power replaces true partnership “.

Cllr. Nelson Teah Toe Jr.

10/02/2026

04/02/2026

This Week on Heart Talk - Liberty Radio 88.1 FM

Special Guest: Mr. Darric Dennis
President, National Association of Liberia School Principals

Topic: Sustainable School Leadership for Quality Education

Focus: Empowering School Leaders for Lasting Change

Date: February 8, 2026
Sunday evening
Time: 6:00 PM

It’s an honor to host the President NALSP.
We’ll be discussing key issues within the education system in Liberia in regards to sustainable school leadership, quality education, and empowering school leaders for lasting change. How can we integrate counseling into schools and skills for teachers and school counselors.

28/01/2026

Over the years, I have discovered a deep passion and special calling to serve and love children, for which I am truly grateful.

Each day, we travel long distances, often on difficult roads and across unsafe bridges, learning from the guidance of my supervisors and continuing the work of bringing hope and smiles to the lives of those we serve. Thanks to my Bosses. God bless you more.

As Scripture reminds us, “I am the least of the apostles… but by the grace of God I am what I am” (1 Corinthians 15:9–10).

Liberia is all we have; together, let us work with commitment and unity to build our country and secure a better future for the next generation..A visit with Abraham.

15/01/2026

Today, we had a productive and engaging meeting with the Minister of Health and Social Welfare of Liberia. The discussion focused on hospital improvement and expansion, strengthening patient-centered care, and enhancing government collaboration with international partners to improve healthcare delivery.