08/08/2025
Moderation is overrated.
Make sure you read that correctly.
It says moderation, not motivation.
Although motivation is also overrated.. that's a topic for another day.
As a broad stroke, general concept.. there's nothing wrong with moderation.
I've probably even mentioned it numerous times.
"Just do that in moderation."
"Just consume in moderation."
It's well-intentioned advice.
However, the reason why I think it's kind of overrated...
Is because it's totally subjective.
What does "moderation" even mean?
If I'm eating dessert 3x per week is that moderation?
What about 4x per week?
What if the 3x per week person is eating a whole tray of cookies each time they indulge and the 4x per week person is only eating 2?
Which one is moderate?
Are either of them?
It depends on who you ask.
And therein lies the rub.
It's hard to define moderation and it can look totally different depending on the person.
Many coaches like to give broad stroke answers because they have a hard time explaining nuance and context.
IG Bro Coach: just do it
IG Health Guru: moderation
How about we actually explain what we're talking about and how it applies to each individual.
What a novel concept.
Well, the actual definition of "moderation" is the avoidance of excess or extremes.
Again... super subjective.
Rather than guessing, we like to be very specific and intentional with our clients.
We first discuss their non-negotiables.
What are the things you absolutely love to do, eat, drink, etc that you don't want to give up?
For many, it's some form of food, social gatherings, occasional indulgences, and their favorite snacks or desserts.
Great. We make sure those stay in tact.
Then, we have the honest conversation about "moderation."
The reality is this...
We want to begin this process with the MOST amount of flexibility possible.
However, we're going to quickly see how you're responding and progressing and will be able to determine what moderation actually looks like for you.
Meaning.. we may need to dial things in and make some sacrifices here and there if you want to see progress.
Cool?
Cool.
In practice, it looks like this...
My client Sarah is able to have 2 cookies every night and still lose weight.
They're down almost 15lbs since starting with me.
My client Alyssa is able to take the entire weekend off from all things weight loss. They go out with friends, have some food out, enjoy the weekend, and are still making progress.
They've completely transformed their relationship with food and the weekend and are down over 20lbs already.
I could keep going with dozens of examples and they would all look different.
Which is the point I'm making here.
Moderation will look and feel differently depending on the person.
Most people struggle to figure this out on their own.
They often vacillate between chaos and rigidity.
Meaning.. they're either trying to be 100% perfect all the time...
OR they burn themselves out and say forget it all.
That's why my clients feel a giant sense of relief from the very beginning of our time together.
We're able to figure out the exact level of flexibility and moderation for each client so they can enjoy life while still reaching their goals.
This is a major part of my Fit Body Blueprint, which is the 3rd pillar of my program.
The first two phases are Metabolic Priming and Fat Loss Acceleration.
Once we implement those 3 phases, the results are inevitable.
1:1 coaching is the most sure-fire way to reach your goals and stay there.
So if you're ready to just make it happen so you never have to worry about it ever again...
Comment on this post or message me with the word 'DETAILS' and let me know.
I'll respond and we'll see if it's a good fit.