15/03/2022
Dear Cowgirl,
Not everyone is going to be on your side.
Not everyone is going to like you, your message, your attitude or your plans.
Guess what?
Thatâs totally okay. Actually, scratch thatâŚitâs AWESOME.
The beauty of this world is that no two of us are alike. We donât need to all be the same, have the same goals, dreams and aspirations. We donât need to all believe in the same things, adhere to the same rules, or follow the same guidelines.
And isnât that a wonderful thing?
I see firsthand how so many women feel the pressure of what everyone else is doing, and just âgo with the flowâ instead of doing what they truly want, believe or actually feel.
Folks will make you feel like youâre not enough by pointing out things about YOU â that bother them about THEM.
âYou wear too much make-up for a cowgirl!â
âYouâre too masculine for a girl!â
âDonât do that, itâs not ladylike!â
âDonât act like that, it will intimidate people!â
Heard anything like that before? Yeah. Thought so. Me too.
Arenât we always just âtoo muchâ for someone? I love being âtoo muchâ for folks, it means I am being âjust enoughâ for myself.
Do me favor please dear cowgirl, and donât give in. Donât listen to them.
I wore false eyelashes to ride Broncs and painted nails to fix fence. I don't care if that makes me less of what someone thinks of as a cowboy-girl. I am me, I am unique...& so are you!
No matter what your "THING" is, don't let anyone change you. Don't let the world change your perfection...that is what makes you YOU! Celebrate it! Embrace it, and ROCK it.
Have a thick skin, but maintain a softness that means you care.
A strong backbone, but don't forget to bend when YOU are not at stake.
A sense of self worth and love.
No matter what. You matter, whether you be hippie-hunter-cowgirl-congresswoman-CEO or stay at home mom.
Be unique, love your quirks and embrace the "you'ness" of you.