06/01/2025
Little did he know, he was unintentionally facilitating the departure of his potential wife to another man. As fate would have it, the lady's relationship with the other suitor ended in heartbreak as he abandoned her for another woman. Seizing the opportunity, my friend stepped in, and declared his love for her, and they have since enjoyed a blissful and enduring marriage.
When I decided to look for the ideal life partner among the women around me, I found the search to be more challenging than I had anticipated. It was daunting to realize that I was about to choose a partner with whom I would spend the rest of my life, and that I had to make this choice from among many eligible ladies. This decision could significantly impact my life, destiny, and the destiny of my partner as well.
At first, I made a list of the qualities I was looking for in a woman to be my life partner. These qualities included spiritual and ethical values, physical appearance, intellectual capacity, emotional and social abilities, and other attributes. After creating a shortlist of women I knew, I assessed their qualities based on the criteria I had established. I carefully weighed the pros and cons of each woman and prayed for guidance from God. Ultimately, I chose one of them, whom I later married.
I didn't realize that I had been unconsciously observing her character and other qualities until the day when my mind started replaying her lifestyle like a video. I noticed her character, dress sense, dedication and commitment to the church, consistency, exemplary lifestyle, and respectful attitude. It seemed like she had a lot to offer. I never knew I was unconsciously taking note of her character and relationships
