Diary of a WOMAN

09/02/2024

NOTICE!!!

Information reaching us from EPA (Environmental Protection Agency) is that the current change in weather / atmosphere across the country is not harmattan, but rather an extreme form of air pollution with dire consequences on human health

This can be hazardous and lead to :

1. Reduced Lung function
2. Respiratory infection
3. Inflammation
4. Oxidative Stress (low level of antioxidants which even creates an imbalance in your body)

Consequently, everyone is being advised to please :

- Mask-up (wear nose mask)
- Stay hydrated (Drink more water) preferably warm water. No to cold water
- Cover food and water very well to prevent dust from settling on them.
- Wash fruits very well before eating
- Stay indoors as much as possible

This condition may prevail for a considerable period of time.

Let’s take note, adhere strictly, keep our family and friends informed.

06/02/2024

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31/01/2024

One of the secrets to success is adapting things that you learn to your own personal situation.

For single moms: I know it is hard. You have lost not only physical and material support but also emotional and spiritual support. It is a scary feeling knowing you are the sole person responsible for you and your children. Some of you, like me, had jobs with no sick days where, if you missed work, you didn’t get paid. When things are that tight, missing work may be the factor that determines whether you can eat this week or not. I know it is very difficult. God understands, too, which is why the Bible is full of commands to take care of the widows and orphans.The lord will take great care of us all.

Young Moms Support initiative.

29/01/2024

Learning is acquired by reading books, but the much more necessary learning, the knowledge of the world, is only to be acquired by reading men and studying the various facets of them. When you are focused on what you're doing, you are not going to miss the next opportunity. It's more likely that you get more! Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all others. When you focus on what's blessing you, you'll forget what's depressing you. Train your mind to see solutions, not problems.
Wake up, and start a new story today. The Lord drives...Congratulations on your encounters. Your testimonies are here! Good morning and have a blessed week.
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27/01/2024

Communication is important in relationships. We need to talk openly and be good listeners.
Most people can learn how to communicate more effectively.
Share positive feelings about your partner with them.
It is better to act early if you are having difficulties, rather than waiting for the situation to get worse.Positive Communication Skills to Practice
Choosing the right time to bring up a conflict.
Being honest in a respectful way.
Not hiding your feelings.
Validating your partner's feelings and perspective.
Staying on topic in conversation.
Taking constructive criticism.
Finding compromise.

26/01/2024

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

20/01/2024

Celebrating God's faithfulness.

03/03/2023

True or false?

03/03/2023

12/02/2022

Good morning ma!
Good morning my fellow mommy's
Pls ma post for me nd hide my ID
I need it advice mum's my story goes like this!
Is about my husband, the way him nd his family treated me has been killing my soul, i gave birth to my first son nd he died then after 3 months i took in again 8 months later i nearly has miscarriage but i was admitted in the hospital for 3 weeks nd some days, then 9 months my doctor said that if i don't want to lose my baby i should delivered through CS which i did to save my son's life, i suffered everything alone no help my husband did not brought my mum for omugwu due we live outside nija then after 1 yr nd 3 months we went to village for my greatest surprised my husband turn his back on me nd join his family to plan evil things against me, they took away my son without telling me where he was, he left me in the villa refused to answer my calls even my mum's call he ignored nd my sisters them, I later fail sick i called him he ignored i text him he ignored after a week i recovered b4 i knew it someone called me from outside nd told me that he saw my husband she asked why didn't we follow him came back i told her we will be staying for months b4 coming back. He later come back after 2 months i asked him where is my son nd he told me to stop asking about my son that he's doing fine where he's" after all motherless children 're doing well without their mum i asked him y is he referring to with motherless babes he called me a fool then my dad was threatening me when i asked for a divorced, i later went back was trying to reach my son, i thought everything was over then they planned again nd took me back to my parents he seized my phone's clothes nd other things then when i went back to collect my clothes cuz he took me back with nothing on my greatest surprised he changed the padlock so i couldn't enter but his senior bro was around i waited for him to come back but he slept outside the next morning i left later he came back nd asked me to give him all the key to the huz which i did but he later brought my bad to my parents but there's no good clothes in that bad only rags after a month i called him with my mum phone he told me to come that he want us to go night vigil while my dad refused to pay back my dowry so i went after 3 days one woman that called her God's servant ordered him to burnt my clothes which he did. I continued playing along just to see my son then we went back to lag he later bring back my son he never give me my phone's oo then we all went back to base i taught he will changed or apologized towards what he did but no instead he told me all he did was for my own good i was surprised nd i kept quite b4 i knew it the result showed that am pregnant after 9 months i put to bed with CS again but he never bother to bring my mum so i suffered alone he doesn't help. This man never give me money to buy food stuff, clothes, underwear, pad etc.. instead he does that him self, if i ask him for money he will tell me that i don't need any money that he bought everything for me but if i need anything i should tell him so he can buy it hmmm I am so ashamed of myself cuz he doesn't treat me like a married woman or value anything i do, he told me i don't deserved anything good from him, he take decisions alone without telling me, he sometimes go out without telling me where he's going, sometimes he came back by 1,12,11,10 if i ask he will call me a fool by keeping silent . So what make me to seek for a divorce this time is that last 3 weeks i confronted him the way he press phone he beat me threatening to hit me if i confront him again nd this is 2 times he beat me, the way he press phone even when we're sleeping he will wake-up in the middle of night nd started chatting if i ask he will call me a fool he never apologized whenever he does something wrong rather he will put the blame on me then i aspected the blame nd call him for peace but he feel like I'm begging him to marry me, he never come around or call for peace rather he call his family nd complain to them even to his friends discussing me with them. Now i need a divorce cuz i can not continue like this, since he beat me cuz of phone he has been giving me silent attitude waiting for me to come nd apologize to him but i told him never will i apologize again for his wrong doing, till now we don't communication through phone for a yr nd some months cuz he seized my phone, i just bought this phone am using without his noticed just to communicate with my parents nd siblings, i hide it when he come back, is not that i can not bring it out to his face but just giving him respect. So am writing these to u my fellow mum's did u support me to divorce or stay nd suffer in the name i marriage? Sorry for long post plzzzz

12/02/2022

Good morning ma am happy to be here . pls hide my id and notify me when post . am a mother of two boys my husband travel out last year . with out letting know about it . he ever arranged anything for me and my children. so last December he called me to go to d sister place every month to collect money for the childhren feeding 20k he has never call for once to say sorry for wot he did . we never talk as husband and wife . since he travel even his family are not calling to know of d kids the 20k is not stable . am tired and I don't have good job . am 32yrs is not easy taking care of the children alone . pls I need mother's advice should I move on or wait for him .Note he is not saying any thing to me .am out of his plan .

12/02/2022

Pls mum post on YMF page and hide my identity, I got married last year July but before the marriage ceremony I took in but unfortunately for me, I miscarried the baby due to the pressure my hubby and his family was giving me. God been so good I took in again and am about 3 month pregnant now. Last 31th December as early as 7am in the morning a lady called him and he immediately took his phone outside to received the call, I got up and decided to follow him as I was about to reach where he is, I heard him saying (1) baby u know I miss u (2) I had dream about u and immediately I woke I decided to go back to sleep so that I can dream again (3) have u bath this morning (4) I love u. All these while I was there listen to his conversation without him noticing me. I confronted him and he didn't say a word to me the problem is am so depress and I don't know what to do am pregnant and I can't eat, sleep and lot please mummyz help in prayers I don't want to loss this baby again. Thank u