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Xavier's babe, jikwoyi phase 3 extension, Abuja (2026)

07/03/2026

゚viralシ

05/03/2026

One of the reason's l really want to make is because of how much l love taking care of people.I just love to be a provider,l want to be someone people can look up to for help.
I guess it's the first born instincts or something but lemme be the number my Siblings call before they even call my parents.

02/03/2026

So l TOLD MY DAD ONE DAY PERIOD FEELS LIKE PREGNANCY, HE FROZE 😅

It was the second day of my period.

You know that day, when your body is doing press-up and plank jacks inside, when food is your enemy, when wish you could exchange genders😂

I was lying on my bed, weak and nauseous.

My dad strolled into my room and just peered at me like he usually does. His eyes literally asked the question:

“What’s wrong?”

I just said:

“Daddy, I feel like I want to throw up.”

He paused.

Then asked, very seriously in igbo:

“Does me**es make somebody vomit?”

I said:

“Yes na.”

Before I could even finish, my junior sisters joined:

“It’s like when a woman is pregnant o!”

Omo.

The way my father froze, like system error😂 He just went quiet. Next thing, he said:

“Go and bring bucket for her. Just in case.”

With full concern.

That was when I knew: This man was scared. 😅

Another time, cramps was dealing with me.

You know those cramps that make you question your existence.

I told him on the phone:

"Daddy, please get me Piroxicam on your way back.”

And he did. No argument. No “manage it”. Just fatherly care. 🥹

That’s when it hit me:

Most men don’t really understand what menstruation does to a woman’s body.

Not because they’re wicked, but because nobody taught them.
Most times we focus on teaching the female child and forget the male child

So let me enlighten the male child today:

During menstruation, a woman can experience:

✔️ Severe cramps
✔️ Nausea and vomiting
✔️ Headache
✔️ Back pain
✔️ Weakness
✔️ Mood swings
✔️ Dizziness
✔️ Loss of appetite
✔️ Body pain

It’s not drama. It’s hormones + uterine contractions + pain.

Real prostaglandin pain!

And it's really similar to a pregnant woman's symptoms, at least her first trimester's.

So bros, if a woman says:

“I’m on my period.”

And she’s crying, irritable, tired, not smiling.

Please, relax.

Don’t say:

❌ “You’re too dramatic”
❌ “You’re always complaining”
❌ “It’s just period”

Don't do that. It’s not “just” anything.

And yes, sometimes we overdo it small, just for attention 😅
We admit.

But most times? We’re just surviving, removing pints of clean blood every month for 5-7 days.

Shoutout to fathers, brothers, and men who try to understand. 💙

Empathy is attractive, ignorance is not.

Learn. Ask. Care. It concerns you more than you think. 🫶🏽

゚viralシ

©️ Ekwuribe Ugo Kamsi: THE FUTURE PHARMACIST'S PEN ✍️

28/02/2026

🍀🍀There’s something suspicious about Saturdays.
Not the loud, brunch-with-the-girls, soft-life, golden-hour Saturdays you see on Instagram. I mean the real ones. The quiet ones. The ones where you wake up at 9:47 a.m., stare at the ceiling fan, and wonder why your life feels like a deleted scene from a coming-of-age movie.
Hi. I’m a mid-20s girl. Supposedly in my “best years.”
🍀🍀So why do my Saturdays always look like this?
I woke up today with no alarm scrolled through my phone for several hours (tragic in reality), and somehow ended up deep in TikTok watching strangers live their most productive lives. Pilates at 7 a.m. Grocery shopping in cute linen sets. Matcha in aesthetic mugs. Meanwhile, I’m still in my oversized T-shirt from Secondary school. hair tied in a lazy bun, contemplating if brushing my teeth counts as an achievement.
Why do Saturdays always feel like they come with expectations?
All week I complain that I’m tired. That work drains me. That I just need Saturday to reset. Then Saturday arrives and… I do absolutely nothing.

🍀🍀Why do all Saturdays look like a holding space?
Not bad. Not exciting. Just… suspended.
I think part of it is this weird in-between phase of life. You’re no longer a student, so weekends don’t feel rebellious. But you’re not fully settled into some glamorous adult rhythm either.

You’re building. Waiting. Figuring things out quietly while everyone else looks like they’ve figured it out loudly.
Maybe Saturdays feel boring because they don’t come with structure. Monday tells you what to do. Tuesday pushes you. Wednesday nags you. Friday flirts with you. But Saturday? Saturday just stares at you and says, “Well? Who are you without deadlines?”
And that question is loud.
🍀🍀Sometimes I think I’m not bored. I’m just uncomfortable with stillness. When there’s no chaos, no urgent emails, no rushing, I’m left alone with my thoughts. And they ask annoying questions like: Are you happy? Are you growing? Is this the life you imagined at 16?
On weekdays, I can ignore those questions. On Saturdays, they sit on the edge of my bed like uninvited guests.
It’s 6:55 p.m now I finally showered. Played music while moisturizing like I’m the main character in an indie film. For a moment, it felt Productive. Maybe some Saturdays are just meant to be soft. Unremarkable. Ordinary in a way that future-me might actually miss.
Because one day, I might have a louder life. Busier weekends. Responsibilities that swallow my quiet afternoons whole.
And maybe I’ll think back to these “boring” Saturdays — the ones with half-drunk cups of tea, open windows,and unanswered texts — and realize they weren’t empty.
They were just mine.
Still though…
Why do all Saturdays always look like this?

26/02/2026

AN INDIFFERENT REMINDER

🍀 You must not think Everytime before you do something.
It's the Thinking that either causes you to actually not do the thing you were supposed to do or do that which you weren't ment to.
If we thought like children the world would have lesser problem but No >> we're always crowded with the thoughts of what people will think about Us.
The Non-fun part is that they have and will always think what they want to think so why the hassle Baby???

19/02/2026

I remembered the day it started—the day my world changed forever.The day l agreed to be let go The screams, the fear, the pain,the endless nights spent hiding in the shadows. And Choose Audacity!!!!
I was young, but life had seen fit to teach me its harshest lessons. And so, I learned to fight. To stand tall, to swing my fists, to survive, and to take What's Mine 💪!!!

People often ask, "How do you keep going?" But the truth is, I didn't know anymore. The battles blurred together—each day a struggle, each night a fight to stay alive. Some nights, I'd curl up in a ball, my small body trembling with fear and hunger wondering if tomorrow would be the day I'd finally be free from the sharkles of life that envelope me.

But it didn't. Not yet. Because when the world seemed darkest, when the shadows seemed longest, I found a spark within me—a spark that fueled my determination to rise, to fight, to survive. It was a flame that burned brighter with every challenge, every lack,every obstacle, every victory.

I looked down at my small hands, battered and thin and smiled. These hands had fought battles no one should ever have to fight. They had held onto hope when all seemed lost. And though the road ahead was uncertain, though the battles would continue, I knew I wouldn't face them alone. Not entirely. For in the silence, I'd found my own strength—a strength that would carry me through the darkest of nights.

The streetlights flickered once more, and I took a step forward, into the unknown. The battles might be mine to fight, but I was ready. I was a warrior, a survivor, a young girl with a heart full of fire and a spirit that refused to break. And when the dust settled, I'd rise, stronger, braver, and more determined than ever.Now l know the strength that I carry.

I know l would be great and successful One-day but Today l tell my story from the corner of my dark Room...

13/02/2026

If you can't help someone stop invalidating their problems....it doesn't help them neither those it make the weight of the burden lighter.

12/02/2026

Azin ehn 🙂‍↔️.

07/02/2026

The Day I Learned Chairs Have Marital Status? 💁

Yesterday at the hospital I had one of the strangest experiences. I sat down on a chair and a staff member told me not to sit there because they “use the chair.” I got up thinking maybe he needed it for a patient. But instead of anyone using it, he simply moved the chair somewhere else while I was left standing. After a while, I went back and sat on it again because clearly no one else was using it.

I waited for him to come back and ask me to get up so I could ask why. But he didn’t. Instead, he looked at me and then started a conversation. First he complimented my looks, then my ring. He asked if I was married. I said no, it’s just a fashion ring. Then he told me the reason he let me sit on the chair was because he thought I was married. That somehow being a “married woman” meant I deserved respect and a seat.

And he even tried to get more friendly with me. I didn’t give him the time of day. I just kept a straight face and eventually he stopped communicating with me because I was giving him short, one-word answers. I was already very upset and not in the mood to entertain him.

I confronted him and asked him what makes him feel it is proper to assign respect based on marital status. For someone working in a hospital environment, obviously he is not an illiterate, so why act like that? He tried to laugh it off and said, “That’s just the way it is.” But I didn’t find it funny.

And these are the issues. And when we talk about it, the first label thrown at us is “Oh, she’s a feminist” or “She’s too opinionated.” But in reality, why would anyone be denied basic dignity or basic rights based on marital status? I’ve heard ladies talk about how they’ve been treated differently because they’re single. I’ve never experienced it myself until now. And I am shocked.

Who created this invisible hierarchy that certain people deserve respect and others don’t? The same way some men say, “I just dey respect you because you be married woman.” When the real question should be, why are you not respecting everybody? Why does it have to be separate for married people and people that are not married?

Don’t we all deserve respect anymore? Married or not, young or old, man or woman, dignity should not be tied to a status. Until we start questioning and unlearning these biases, we will keep creating unfair rules that nobody asked for. Respect should never be a privilege, it should be the default.
Please we can do better 🤌

07/02/2026

What's that thing that don't sit well with people but you will gladly do over and over again.?

06/02/2026

As a Hustler surround yourself with people that hustle too.
The journey is easier when surrounded by people who have the same vision.

06/02/2026

You won't see men in this comment section o but if it's things that glorify men....gam!!! Women are there.

There are some ladies that live a hard life, like when l say hard life l mean they do jobs ment for men, with heavy periods cramps but they have to push Cause of responsibilities You can't understand something unless you experience it.

OMO l remembered when I was selling bread... I used to have this phases of womaness>both ovulation cramp and period cramp..l see shege that my pad is full,my waist is paining me,my stomach...so much discomfort but l have to jump up and down on a vehicle inciteing more pain for myself but I have to move.....cause like l said nobody cares you hustle or you go hungry, Nobody clap's for you for looking for your daily bread.

The funny part is, some of these men who happens to be caring and sensitive enough to women have their friends calling them simps and laughing at them,this making them feel like they're not manly enough...being wicked or hard hearted doesn't make you a man, infact it slowly kills the human in you.sometimes l wonder who nurture some of these Grown men of today.

I just wish that some men would just have emotional intelligence or better still be ethical with words they land on wemon especially here on social media,I appreciate the role of a man l do but make person no ever ask me what l bring to the table.!!!.

Note; l said some o... there are still man who are changing the narrative and being the best they can to their families.dont come and cry here,if you lack accountability just avoid me.

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