Beauty Redefined In Women - BRIW

01/04/2026

APRIL TEMPLATE ALERT!

This Month on BRIW, we would consider EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL & SEXUAL ABUSE.

01/04/2026

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01/04/2026

Happy New Month, my ladies 💕🎉🌹

27/03/2026

We are wrapping up our theme for the month - YOUR MAKEUP, with Bible study and prayers tonight by 8pm on our WhatsApp Group.
Be intentionally there.

24/03/2026

WHO IS SHE?

There's something interesting I would like to share about the woman in the attached picture. You may have seen her in a video preaching. Yes, she's a preacher but that's not my focus right now.
Or, just maybe you've come across a book she wrote as she's also a writer. This still is not my focus right now.
And although, she doesn't like to be called an actress but she has appeared in four movies.

Now focus.
Only four?
Well, Yes.
But they aren't just any random movies o.
Matter of fact, not your regular movies!
These movies are exceptional, life changing movies.

You see, when it has to do with purpose, quantity might not count but QUALITY does matter.
By quality I mean, giving it your all and being intentional.
Plus, there's no way your generation is not blessed by it!
That is the case of Priscilla Shirer, a woman who is living a life of purpose in this perverse world, even in our time.

Here are the movies she acted in:
1. War room
2. I can only imagine
3. Overcomer
4. The forge

I highly recommend that you see the movies listed above. The only one that I haven't seen is I CAN ONLY IMAGINE. Trust me, I would definitely see the movie soon.

Tell me in the comments which of the movies you've seen and what you learnt.

23/03/2026

Happy New Week, My Ladies 🌹

21/03/2026

Last night's Q&A session on our WhatsApp Group was exceptional 🔥 Go check it out.
BTW, check comments for a PURPOSE HACK😉

18/03/2026

Girl, let's get real 😴. As a busy woman, self-care can feel like a luxury, but trust me, it's a necessity!

Permit me to iterate something one of my mentors, Dr Funmi Taiwo told me sometime ago, "In all you do, don't lose yourself."

Damsel, please take care of yourself in every ramification of life. Don't be so focused on your spiritual man, that you forsake your physical body. And don't be too engrossed with making a difference financially that you ignore your mental health.
You can't fulfill purpose if your health or life is threatened!

Here are some self-care tips that might just fit into your jam-packed schedule:

- Learn to meditate, plan your day or journal after your morning devotion.

- Take short breaks at work to stretch, grab a snack, or take a walk outside.

- Prioritize sleep and aim for 7-8 hours each night.

- Learn to say NO to irrelevant things that drain your energy.

- Schedule self-care into your calendar (yes, treat it like a meeting!)

In conclusion, you're important and my world needs you to survive.

Add some other self-care tips in the comments section, let's all learn from one another.

©BRIW

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17/03/2026

17/03/2026

Hi Visionary,

Be focused.
Stay in purpose.

17/03/2026

If I could sit down with my younger self during my dating and courtship days, I would give her just two pieces of advice. And honestly, I’m sharing this because maybe it will help someone who is navigating their waiting season right now.

First, relax.
Second, don’t stop praying when love finally shows up.

Let me explain.

When I was single and waiting, I believed strongly in preparation. I still do. I’ve always been someone who believes that while you’re waiting for anything in life, you should be building, growing, and becoming. But if I’m honest, there were moments I worried more than I needed to.

Is this the one?
What if I miss it?
What if it doesn’t work out?

If I could go back, I would gently tell that younger version of me, “Breathe. If it’s God, it will stand. You don’t have to force destiny.” Everything really does fall into place at the right time.

And then the second advice, which matters even more: when the right person comes, don’t relax spiritually.

Many people pray hard to find love, and the moment they find it, they slow down spiritually. But the real work actually starts after you say yes.

When my husband and I were courting, we had a simple rhythm. One day each week, we fasted and prayed together. Nothing dramatic. We would go about our day, then in the evening we would call, break the fast together, and one of us would lead the prayer. During the day we would send each other prayer points and pray about our lives, our character, our future, and even small things that didn’t seem serious at the time.

Looking back now, I see clearly that those prayers were building something deep before life tested it.

When I later relocated and we had to do long distance for over two years, those spiritual deposits mattered. The first year was smooth. The second year was harder. Loneliness tried to whisper things. Frustration tried to creep in. But there was already a foundation.

There’s something powerful about knowing your relationship was not built only on emotions or excitement, but on prayer, growth, and intentionality. Sometimes your partner doesn’t even have to say they’re praying for you. You feel it. You feel covered.

So if you’re in your waiting season, hear me gently.

Don’t rush. God is not confused about your story.

And when love finally comes, don’t switch from prayer to autopilot. Keep inviting God in. Keep growing. Keep building.

Because attraction may start a relationship.
Compatibility may sustain it.
But prayer strengthens it.

And that kind of strenth is what carries you when life gets real.

©Copied

16/03/2026

PURPOSE IN LOCKDOWN

It's often said that if the purpose of a thing is not known, the abuse is inevitable. This statement is true in every sense of it! Before I share what I mean, permit me to tell you a story about what happened to me in year 2020.

Remember year 2020 na...the year of pandemic which resulted to lockdown.
Now you remember abi?
That year was a significant year in my life. I had defended my final year project at the prestigious Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba- Akoko and returned home awaiting call up for service(NYSC). Then, it was everywhere in the news - the pandemic. Don't touch anyone. If you do, you may "catch" COVID and get quarantined.
Quarantine ke?
Ah...me that want to serve my Father's land?
So, I jejely stayed without the confines, comfort and security of my father's house. Personally , I could stay indoor for long, so at first, it wasn't a big deal. But wait, will I just be eating, sleeping and waking up each without doing anything else? It looked like boredom moved in with us but I thank God for using Baba Odeyemi and Baba Odesola of the RCCG to teach during the weekly services as we were viewing services on cable TV. Their teachings were really innovative. They kept talking about learning online to keep one busy.

Well, I jumped on the train. It was a train called YouTube learning. I learnt how to make snacks starting from puff puff, to buns, then fish roll, doughnuts, egg roll and meat pie.
Also, God also gave me wisdom to organise home lesson for children within the community then. "Abeg, make nobody come sue me o... after all none of my pupils caught COVID. I used my father's backyard. I had a total of 20pupils who were paying a token monthly for lesson. This means, while many individuals where losing their jobs, I had two sources of income from home. Who buys my snacks? My pupils of course!

By the way, I used bulk of that income(money) for organizing 5 conferences and a cooking show for singles within my vicinity(click the link in the comment section for more details). Mhiz Prestige would bear me witness. For me, God didn't bless me just to buy clothes, shoes and sanitary pads but to be a blessing to my world.

Mind you, I had people who supported me too o. Still in the spirit of celebrating Mother's Day, I can't forget to thank My Secret Superstar and Mummy Handan Laitu Handan for accepting , embracing and supporting my vision every step of the way. Thank you, my mothers.

Listen, I had teaching ability and I knew its purpose is to preserve those children in my neighborhood academically. Some who couldn't read before lockdown began reading before school officially opened.
The money God bless me with became a tool for equipping my generation with knowledge while many youths where turning to ma********on, p**n, depression and all manner of vices due to the lockdown.

Your life is tied to a purpose.
Stop abusing the reason for your existence.
You are not better than the dead.
In case you are not aware, only you can stop yourself from discovering and fulfilling that purpose.
Even lockdown couldn't stop me.
So, I ask, "Have you discovered and started fulfilling purpose?"(Answer in the comments)