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Shedrack, Aradagun (2026)

20/10/2025

My neighbor sent my 4 years old daughter to go buy semo for her without even telling me of which I'm very annoyed when I discovered that

Only for my 4 years to come back home without money or semo, i asked her where's the semo she's not saying anything the only thing she said is there.

My neighbor took her back to the shop and they said she didn't come with money that she only came with empty hands and demand for semo and they told her to go and bring money

Now we don't know whether someone collected the money from her or she throw the money away.

The problem now is that my neighbor is asking me to borrow her 2k that she doesn't have any other money to buy food and she doesn't know what her children will eat when they come from school i told her I don't have money and she's changing it for me that I'm supposed to refund her, her money because is my daughter that lost her money.

Mind you she's not doing anything when she sent my 4 years old to buy semo why can't she go by herself

Please am i to refund her the money?

20/10/2025

My ex was bad to me, not his mother. After divorce I was still very close to his mother. I sometimes spent holidays with her with the kids. I had two kids for her son. My mother-in-law was so nice to me. I can't stay for two months without seeing her. She carried my matter on her head. Treated me like her own daughter.

I am now married to someone else and my husband wants to put a stop to the relationship. My current mother inlaw is toxic, so each time I mention my ex's mom they frown at it. My ex mom called me two nights ago that I should bring the kids since I haven't visited her for three months. My present mother inlaw said if I'm to remain married I should focus with his son and stop sending my kids to another woman.

One time my ex mom inlaw sent gifts items to her grand kids, hubby sent those things back, I had to give those things out secretly to some kids. His mother called my ex mom in-law and said that she want to destroy her son's marriage. There was a big saga. Ex husband too said if I deny his mom from seeing his kids he will fall out with me.

Hubby here said if I dare allow my kids to visit my ex mom the marriage will end. This kids are under my custody, but court permitted their father to see them whenever he's in the country, but when he's not in the country his mom has every right to see the kids.

My house is on fire. I secretly took the kids to see one of their aunt who base in Dubai but visited Nigeria, hubby later knew about it and said for secretly visiting my ex's sister in-law, it also means I'm secretly sleeping with my ex. What should i do?😭😭

This people loves me and my children, we never had issues except with their son. They are very nice to me and the kids. My husband has confiscated all my phone's as I'm typing, I'm using a neighbor's phone. Please advise me on what to do. My husband is also wealthy and has taken very good care of my kids, but my kids needs to bond with their blood. The two families are attacking each other seriously. .

My kids can't even talk to their father for days now, because I'm not with phone. My husband and I have two kids together. Why can't he just focus on his children and leave someone's else's kids? Please advise me. Thank you

Mrs Meda

20/10/2025

My husband borrowed some money from me sometimes ago. The money includes his own money which he had kept with me. Since we wanted to use the money for a particular family project I borrowed him. He is yet to pay while I borrowed him another(on Sunday )which was mine.
Then on Monday, he was lamenting that he doesn't have any cash on him, kept complaining that if someone has a wife, the person should be able to boast now. What if he has an emergency, so his wife cannot quickly bail him out.

Then I remembered that one of my staff kept some money in cash with me. I told him about It and he requested for 10k which I gave with the mind that he'll refund me later that day. But because he already said he couldn't do any transactions , then I asked for the 10k this morning and he said whenever I am in need of it i should let him know.

Then I told him that how would I know when the owner will be in need of the money, she could ask me for the money anytime. Then he got angry and started talking in Proverbs (the Sunday that will be good will be determined from Friday).

Did I do wrong by asking for the money knowing that he doesn't have any cash on him.
(Though, I expected him to say I'll give it to you tomorrow or next not "anytime you need it let me know)

Note: He can pay the money, even the previous loan of almost 700,000. But I'm not the pressuring type.
He angrily gave me the 10k from a POS and said I should analyze how much all the money he collected from me,he wants to pay all today.

Did I do anything wrong by asking?
I'm really emotional right now, the money isn't mine and I might forget to ask him again.

20/10/2025

I’m 37 and wife my wife is 34. We have been married for nine years and I just discovered that the woman I’ve loved and and committed my entire life to has been cheating all these years with an old school mate of hers.

It’s not like they started a year, two, three or months. They’ve been there since.
Since before we got married, they’ve been there. The gentleman is also married with kids. It is his wife that came to my office to complain and show me chats and other evidences she’s been gathering since 2017.

She was in tears, because my wife is destroying her home and she’s done all she could but her husband and my wife keeps going on.
I don’t know how she’s managed to hide it and lured me into believing she’s been faithful all these years.

I went home to confront her, I was equally teary and sad when I saw the messages, videos, pictures and listened to some voice notes. Everything showed that my wife was totally in love with the gentleman and was willing to sacrifice the world for him.

She told me she didn’t force me to marry her, that when we met she told me she was still in love with someone but they’d broken up and I insisted I wanted to help her heal - so she didn’t send me to marry her to help her heal.

Meanwhile we dated for almost two years before marriage and she played it perfectly. Pretending I meant the world to her. She told me she was happy to meet me because I made her smile again. So I don’t know what happened.

It’s been a week and I haven’t been able to do anything. Im just broken and confused. I want to return home, but I don’t know what to go and do.
I’ve loved this woman. She’s sorry, but telling me she didn’t force me to marry her, she will go back.
Not only has she destroyed someone’s marriage, she’s destroyed ours as well.
The very divorce I’ve always hated is about to happen.

20/10/2025

My husband is always angry. We barely talk or have family time together. Even if he’s home, he’s silent, won’t talk and always on his phone. Apart from the kids, he responds to every single thing I ask him with anger.

I haven’t had a chat with my husband in a long time. He’s only nice small if he wants sezz. When he gets it, he’s off. He doesn’t even behave romantically, he expects me to get wettt when he says he wants sezz so I just apply lubricanntt and Iie down for him.

Even with the sezz I’m talking about, he asks for it once in 3 to 4 months or more. I am never to ask cuz he won’t give in and I can’t say No when. He wants it.

He won’t go out and even call me. He won’t text nor respond to texts. He barely answers calls. He’s made it clear that I should only call if it’s important. He can travel for a week and won’t call me to find out how I’m doing.

I haven’t been happy in a long time. Almost five years and he’s been the same. His only response when I complain is, he’s providing and there are women out there crying for marriage so if I’m tired of being his wife, I should park my things and leave.

Then he will add that, if I leave today, another woman some where will gladly take over.
I don’t want anyone taking care of my children so I have never considered leaving. But I’m so not happy and I feel like doing what makes me happy too.

Should I start talking to guys and going out also? Or it would make him worse? This isn’t even who I am, so I’m so confused but I’m tired too.
Advise me please. I’m 35 and he’s 38. We’ve been married 8 years.

20/10/2025

My younger sister went to my wife's shop a few weeks ago and picked hair worth #1.5 million without paying a single kobo. When my wife rep0rted it to my parents, they brushed it off, saying, "It's not a big deal after all, it's our son's mon£y."

But my wife didn't take it lightly. The next day, she went to my family house with a few boys, carried their generator and my sister's iPhone 15 Pro Max, and told them plainly: "You have one week to return my mon£y, or I'll come back for more."

I tried talking to her, hoping to calm things down, but she stood her ground. She said she didn't want explanations just her mon£y. She even told me that if my sister wouldn't pay, then I should settle it myself.

What really shocks me is that my wife has always been generous to my family constantly sending gifts, helping out, and treating everyone with love. But this time, she's drawn a hard line, and I can't say I completely blame her.

Now, I'm caught in the middle between a wife who feels di s respected and a family who thinks she's overreacting. Honestly, I don't even know who to side with anymore.

20/10/2025

"I'm 29 years old, a very beautiful young lady. My wedding is scheduled this coming December but I'm being stressed due to the hardship I faced in my past.

Hapends my parents passed away when I was just 15, i had I dropped out of school. Actually, no one, not even my extended family afford to pay my fees. I had given up on my dreams of ever furthering my studies & build a career for myself .

Along the line, i met someone when I was 18 & he sent me back to school. The guy was hardworking, he sold fruit on the streets so that he could pay my school fees. When i was 22, He got a better job as a truck driver. & then sent me to university.

Fast Farwarded, I'm now working as a lawyer. My difficulty is that I feel I cannot continue with this relationship cuz in all honesty, this person is not the kind of partner I envision for my future! I do not know how to go about this' Without hurting his feelings. I feel so tied up. I'm emotionally stressed.

I'm honestly very grateful he sent me to school, but I can't be in a relationship with him anymore! I want someone who is in a similar professional field as me, not a truck driver! Our traditional wedding is scheduled for December pls help! I'm so stressed 😥🤦🏽‍♂️"

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20/10/2025

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My second son swallowed this today. I was actually with him in the room, swept everywhere, & removed every dangerous object around the room. Normally as a mother, you don't sleep while your kids are awake, even if you are feeling sleepy.

Oh my goodness, I dozed off. Just Few mins later, I realized myself & quickly woke up, hearing a sound of cough. A mother might be sleeping, but her ears are always open. Just on time, i woke up & saw my baby struggling to breathe! I rushed to him & bent his neck down cuz i realized he was choking, so there was no need to raise his head up to check what was inside.

Immediately, I put my finger inside his throat & brought this thing out. Heeeyyy!! People abeg ooo! Please join me in thanking God. It is not easy at all to look after kids. I'm still having a headache from the shock. These kids are something els!!!😭😭😭"

20/10/2025

"I'm honestly not ok, my mum just came from the village to my home, she brought her traveling bag & it looks full, indicating she's not leaving soon.

Actually, i come from a poor background & have 4 siblings. But i was lucky to get a rich & wealthy husband . My husband has been supportive to me & he even open a shop for me where i deal with women fashion, like clothes, shoes & hand bags. But however, huby demands I always take permission from him before anyone from my family visits our home, which I accepted. For the past 4 years, I've made sure to respect his decision, none of my relatives have visited.

My mom called me last month, she said she'll visit us soon. Since then, I kept asking mama when, so I could discuss it with my husband first. But she didn't mention the specific day or time of her visit. 3 days ago, she came from the village unannounced. This is actually her first time visiting my house since I got married.

Although she wanted to come on many occasions, I told her to forget about visiting, and assured her that I'm fine just to avoid issues with hubby. Now she's come unannounced. Honestly, I'm not happy. For 3 days now, my husband has not said a word to either my mom or me & has started avoiding me.

I've been begging my husband, & I even told my mom to go back to the village until the atmosphere is calm. Besides, I don't have a newborn baby in the house, so what's the point of having her around now, especially where she's not wanted? My husband has refused my food, he now sleeps in the guest room, & goes out very early.

My home is about to be shattered cuz of my own mom. I have told her I will never forgive her if anything happens to my marriage. I am comfortable the way I am. I take my mother-in-law as my mother too, so if my mom doesn't visit, it's no big deal. My mother-in-law comes often, & I have no issue with that.

I believe I can always visit my mom in the village like I've been doing, but she's inconsiderate about this. She wants to enjoy a new environment, not minding if she's welcome or not. Since yesterday, I stopped talking to her, just so she will feel uncomfortable & leave but seems not moved. I don't want to be harsh with my mom. If my husband has to take away my shop & probably end our marriage we're all going to be on a loose end, I' don't know how els to make mama understand.

Please, how do I persuade this woman to just leave without causing trouble for me with my husband? I'm afraid &; I just don't want any problem in my house. Please guide me on this. What should I do about this situation? My marriage is still very young. I don't in anyway make my husband feel or think that I'm disrespecting him, Pls, I'm not ready to loose my husband😥"

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19/10/2025

"I work as an accountant & also own a small boutique. My husband & I have been married for close to 5 years & have one child together.
Even before our marriage, I was doing well & taking care of my family—my mom & 2 siblings after my father passed away years ago.

Just a few months after our wedding, my husband suddenly started complaining that his business wasn't as successful as it used to be. Since then, I've been supporting him the best I can so he could get back on his feet. I cover 80% of the household bills. In fact, the house we live in is mine; my husband's only financial contribution at home is paying our son's school fees.

Throughout all these years of marriage, I've been faithful & respectful in fact, I've been utterly committed to our relationship. But recently, completely out of nowhere, my husband entered into a second marriage, & built a house for her, & moved in with her. This is the same person that has been complaining about his business not doing well all these years yet he had money to build a house for another woman

We've been separated for almost a year. Yesterday, our families called us together to try & reconcile us. He stated his reason for leaving me was cuz I refused to put the house in his name. Everyone present started agreeing with him & supporting him, saying that he left cuz he feels like he isn't the head of the family. And its only but normal for any man to feel that way..

Actually, I'm surprised & shocked that, even my own mother said I should give him the house papers & let the house be in his name, saying that marriage is important & i shouldn't be alone or end up single cuz she's not happy about the situation.

Well, i asked him if he would end his second marriage, & he simply responded that he had already married her And she's pregnant for him

My people I am scared and confused; i have my own child to consider. I honestly do not know what to do. I feel like I'm in a state of dilemma"

19/10/2025

Information don yakpa online, Read this and share your thoughts

According to Ned Nwoko's camp, they said that Regina dey take substances to make her high. That sometimes after taking the thing, she would not take proper care of her kids and would even start damaging things in the house 🙆😲.

But Regina's friends are claiming that she started taking those things immediately after marrying Ned because she couldn't imagine herself being touched by Ned so she had to take something in other to perform in the other room. His face dey fear am especially when he wants to release so she had to be high on something 😲 eww chim.

17/10/2025

My husband told me to take my luggage and go to my parents house because last night I didn't finish work early, there were no more taxis, my money wasn't enough I only had 1000 and it was getting late. As the father of my child lives 2 steps from my workplace , I had to sléép at my child's father's house. So, this morning I had my bathe there and went to work. But my husband doesn't want to hear or understand anything.
He doesn't know that nothing happened between my baby daddy and I.

What should do?

Your advice please.

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