16/07/2025
Story Timeeee 💃💃💃💃 EPISODE 30 (FINAL): I AM NOT AFRAID TO BE SEEN
The message haunted me for days.
“You’re not safe. Someone from your past is planning to leak something big.”
I couldn’t sleep.
Ireoluwa sensed the tension. He’d cry at night. I’d hold him and hum lullabies my grandmother once sang.
But the fear remained.
Then it happened.
The leak.
A blog post, anonymously submitted.
The headline read:
“THE REAL ADORA OKONKWO: Fake Pregnancy, Sugar Daddies, and the Book She Stole.”
It spread like wildfire.
WhatsApp groups. Twitter. Instagram.
Even bloggers I trusted reposted the gossip.
They claimed I was never pregnant.
That the child was borrowed.
That “4 Star Food Fix” was plagiarized.
That I had slept my way into the speaking gigs.
They even attached an old photo of me crying in front of a pharmacy.
They said I was begging for pills to stage a miscarriage.
I couldn’t breathe.
📖 Written by: Lydia Ayankoso
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For the first time in a long time,
I wanted to hide.
Mama said, “Ignore them.”
Tosin said, “I’ll handle it legally.”
Sam said, “Let me speak up.”
But I said nothing.
Until Ireoluwa found the old diary again.
Grandma Ezinne’s diary.
He opened the page and pointed at a line I never noticed before:
“Let them shame you in public. But rise in public too. You’re not their secret. You are your own light.”
I wept.
The next morning, I did something radical.
I went live.
On Instagram. Facebook. Twitter. YouTube.
Unfiltered. Unedited. Unafraid.
“My name is Adora Okonkwo. And this is not a defense. It’s a declaration.”
“Yes, I was pregnant.
Yes, I bled in a guesthouse.
Yes, I was abandoned.
Yes, I begged. Yes, I crawled.
But I never faked my pain.”
“My book was written in tears. My child was born in truth.
And my story? It’s mine.
You can’t cancel what you didn’t create.”
“To every woman who has been called names, dragged for her choices, doubted because she chose survival
This live is for you.”
“We are not perfect.
But we are powerful.
And we will no longer whisper in shame.
We will heal LOUD.”
The live went viral.
Over 1 million views in 24 hours.
Celebrities reposted it.
Survivors from across Africa stitched it.
A major TV station requested to air it as a documentary.
Then came the real twist.
📩 A message from a woman named Ngozi.
“I was the blog editor.
I was paid to run that story.
But I found the truth after watching your live.
Here is the name of the person behind the smear campaign: Chioma from the sisterhood group.”
Chioma.
The one who once prayed with me at midnight.
The one I trusted with the first draft of my book.
The one who wanted the speaking slot I got.
I confronted her privately.
She cried. Denied it. Then confessed.
“I thought if I ruined you, they’d see me. I was tired of being your shadow.”
I looked her in the eye and said,
“You were never my shadow. You were my sister. But you chose betrayal.”
I didn’t sue her.
I didn’t drag her.
I did something more dangerous:
I forgave her.
Weeks later…
I got an invitation letter.
From A*o Rock.
You’ve been selected for the “Woman of Courage” National Award.
For using food, story, and faith to rebuild your life and inspire a generation.
I stood in my kitchen, holding Ireoluwa,
as I read the letter.
Tears rolled down.
But this time, they weren’t from pain.
They were from power.
🎉 The award night was electric.
Tosin escorted me, dressed in white.
Mama wore coral beads.
Sam stood respectfully at the back with Ireoluwa on his lap.
When I climbed the stage, the hall went silent.
I took the mic. And said:
“There was a time I begged to be loved.
Now, I teach women how to love themselves first.”
“There was a time I sat in shame.
Now, I sit at tables I built myself.”
“There was a time I was just Adora.
Now, I am a mother, author, warrior, woman.”
“And if you’re watching this, know that healing isn’t soft.
It’s hard. It’s holy. And it’s yours.”
As they handed me the award, I saw Grandma Ezinne’s diary in Mama’s hand.
We locked eyes.
I mouthed, We made it.
📘 The next morning, I posted the final entry in my story series:
“We are not our mistakes. We are our rebirths.
Feed yourself. Find your voice.
Tell your story. LOUDLY.
And then teach others to do the same.”
✨ Adora’s story ends here.
But your story? It’s just beginning.
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❤️ Thank you, healthy family. For reading. For crying. For sharing. For growing.
Let’s turn this story into a MOVEMENT.
Signed,
Lydia Ayankoso
The woman who made healing a headline.