24/11/2025
There are plenty men and women out there but the marriageable ones are few. If you are looking for a life partner, watch the kind of comments, posts, pictures and videos they put on social media.
Whatever they are good at on social media is really who they are.
Do not ignore this.
Social media is a powerful revealer of people's mindset.
After I met my wife one on one first time in church, I went through her Facebook wall down to almost the first thing she post on Facebook and I discovered she has respect over her body, she has never posted any pictures or videos that reveal any sensitive part of her body.
She carried herself as a real woman that has a sense of decency, dignity and self worth. She knows that if you must attract a real man, you must be a real woman.
All her posts on Facebook, none of them were about beefing someone or disrespectful to men and humanity in general. She coordinates herself and her posts on social media very well and truly that's who she really is in real life. And I can boldly tell you that I have ZERO regrets in getting married to her till eternity. What I saw on her wall is what I'm seeing in our marriage, she still carry herself very well and that sense of decency is in another level, even in this era of content creation where many people are desperate for monitization, they do all manner of nonsense, going half naked and all.
My life still maintained her dignity, despite seeing her colleagues in Nollywood industry cashing out with their n**e stuffs, she chose to be herself. She chose self worth over influence or money.
She knew what others do in the industry to blow overnight and make it big and she has what it takes to do the same but she chose to be the real woman that would set a good positive pace for others.
Social media is a powerful revealer, it reveals my wife to me and thank God I found her here .
The picture attached is my one and Only lovely wife.
I LOVE YOU MY LOVE OBIM. 💕
