Olanrewaju Kolawole

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Marriage is not effortless bliss; it’s intentional growth. Even godly couples have disagreements and disappointments. Wh...
11/12/2025

Marriage is not effortless bliss; it’s intentional growth. Even godly couples have disagreements and disappointments. What keeps them strong is effort, not luck.

Stop seeking someone perfect; seek someone willing. Someone willing to grow, communicate, forgive, adjust and invest in the relationship. The beauty of marriage is not in perfection but persistence.

James 2:17: Faith without works is dead.

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Your differences aren’t defects, they’re divine design. Where one is strong, the other is sensitive. Where one dreams bi...
10/12/2025

Your differences aren’t defects, they’re divine design. Where one is strong, the other is sensitive. Where one dreams big, the other grounds the plan.

Embrace those contrasts, they complete you, not compete with you. When you stop trying to make your spouse like you, peace returns. God made you different so you could reflect His wholeness together.

Mark 10:8 -The two shall become one flesh.

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Serving side by side aligns your hearts in humility and purpose. Whether it’s helping others, volunteering, or supportin...
09/12/2025

Serving side by side aligns your hearts in humility and purpose. Whether it’s helping others, volunteering, or supporting church ministry, shared service deepens unity.

It reminds you both that marriage is not just about “us,” but about glorifying God through partnership. When couples serve together, selfishness decreases, and the shared service becomes shared strength.

Joshua 24:15 - As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

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Love stands on passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion excites, intimacy connects, and commitment anchors despite the...
08/12/2025

Love stands on passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion excites, intimacy connects, and commitment anchors despite the storm. If one leg is missing, the relationship wobbles. Balance these three, and love endures.

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Pray Together ConsistentlyPrayer is the oxygen of a godly marriage. When couples pray together, walls come down, and hea...
05/12/2025

Pray Together Consistently

Prayer is the oxygen of a godly marriage. When couples pray together, walls come down, and hearts draw closer. When you invite God into your home, He becomes your ultimate counsellor and peacemaker. A praying couple is a powerful couple.

Matthew 18:20: For where two or three are gathered in My name, there am I among them.

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Sugar-coated words can impress, but understanding sustains. Many relationships fail because people talk a lot but commun...
04/12/2025

Sugar-coated words can impress, but understanding sustains. Many relationships fail because people talk a lot but communicate little. Be someone who listens, not just responds.

Don’t just talk fluently; be emotionally intelligent and always try to understand the heart. True communication involves empathy, patience, and vulnerability. Be a listener rather than a talker, a partner rather than a performer.

James 1:19A - Let every person be swift to hear and slow to speak.

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Today, I celebrate another year of God’s grace. This past year, God stretched me, grew me, and strengthened me in ways t...
25/11/2025

Today, I celebrate another year of God’s grace. This past year, God stretched me, grew me, and strengthened me in ways that only His wisdom could. I grew intentionally in my walk with Him, in my family, marriage, and parenting, line upon line, precept upon precept.

God helped me learn, unlearn, relearn and stand tenaciously in the face of challenges. By His hand, I moved from being merely informed to being truly intelligent in the things that matter.

He opened doors for strategic relationships, granted me favour before men, and also made me a blessing to many. With His strength, I stepped into new terrains with Godfidence, boldly, steadily and Spirit-led.

Today, I look back with gratitude and look forward with faith.Thank You, Lord, for a year of growth, wisdom, and transformation. I have no doubt that the journey ahead is bright because You go before me.

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Though I consider myself humble, many ladies back in the days saw me as arrogant which got me confused but I later reali...
13/11/2025

Though I consider myself humble, many ladies back in the days saw me as arrogant which got me confused but I later realized that it was because of the way I carried myself. I am always confident. If you constantly doubt your worth, you’ll misinterpret love. Insecurity will make you settle for less or sabotage what’s good.

A strong self-image grounded in God’s truth is your first line of defense in relationships, so spend time discovering how God sees you, chosen, valued, and loved.

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As a perfectionist, I used to believe pointing fingers is the only way to tell people they are wrong, so I used the word...
12/11/2025

As a perfectionist, I used to believe pointing fingers is the only way to tell people they are wrong, so I used the word “You” a lot until I got married and realized it was not helping my marriage.

Replacing “You” with “l”is a time tested principle to engage is meaningful communication amongst couples. Instead of attacking with “You always” or “You never,” express your feelings with “I feel hurt when…” This turns confrontation into conversation. Is that not what we desire?

Proverbs 15:1 - A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

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Many singles chase the feeling of love but ignore the foundation of purpose. The truth is that only clarity will last wh...
11/11/2025

Many singles chase the feeling of love but ignore the foundation of purpose. The truth is that only clarity will last when Infatuation fades. When considering a life partner, your eyes should be open and your spirit alert. Ask God to help you discern, not just desire. Real love isn’t about finding perfection but finding peace in purpose.

Proverbs 4:7 - Wisdom is the principal thing, therefore get wisdom.

Don't ignore, Don't pressure, Just communicateYour partner or intending partner is both an asset and liabilities, yes, t...
11/11/2025

Don't ignore, Don't pressure, Just communicate

Your partner or intending partner is both an asset and liabilities, yes, they come as a complete package or say, ‘Total package’. In other words, they aren’t angels.

However, there's such a thing as pressing towards perfection i.e. shedding off liabilities and adding on assets. One of the ways to ensure this in them is real communication. Don't assume they know, communicate. Don't just say that's who she is, communicate. Don't ignore their actions that hurt you, communicate.

When you communicate politely and in love, your partner gets better and better over time. The truth is, healthy words cleanse, loving communication improves and heart to heart discussions renew.

Don't ignore their hurtful actions, don't pressure them to change, but communicate.

This understanding has saved my marriage countless times, that forgiveness doesn’t excuse wrongs, rather, it frees my he...
10/11/2025

This understanding has saved my marriage countless times, that forgiveness doesn’t excuse wrongs, rather, it frees my heart from bitterness. The speed of forgiveness determines the health of your marriage.

Pride delays peace, but humility restores it. Always keep the door of reconciliation open in your home by being quick to say, “I’m sorry”.

Ephesians 4:32: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

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