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Olanrewaju Kolawole

Certified Relationship and Marriage Coach who's heart sings seeing God's kingdom being fulfilled in every life and marriage

09/01/2026

Many who told me a “thank you” during my teenage years are often surprised I don't reply to them and that was because I wasn't used to it. I didn't hear much of it at home and I can't remember thanking people either. So if you see me appreciate my wife now, understand that it was by God's help and deliberate personal commitment to the covenant. I know many spouses have similar experiences as mine.

Many other spouses believe that too much praise will lead to arrogance or complacency, so they withhold verbal appreciation. This is a profound, spiritual crime against the covenant. Words of affirmation are food for the soul.

Your voice is a powerful instrument of blessing. Speak their praises, celebrate their strengths, and affirm their worth with reckless consistency. A spouse who feels deeply honored is a spouse who will strive to honor the covenant.

Kolawole Olanrewaju

07/01/2026

At times, I am cranky and irritable towards my sweetheart; of course, she at times feels the same towards me as well. I initially thought this experience was unique to us but I found out it is universal. Lol. Thank God I have learnt enough not to let my feelings dictate my commitment to her.

Most married couples operate with what I call a feeling-first or emotion-first mindset. This kind of mindset causes couples to abandon their marriage the moment the initial feeling of passion fades.

We need to have a covenant understanding of love, to normalise love as a covenant, as a deliberate, persistent, radical action of the will. It is the choice to serve, forgive, and commit, even when your feelings are nowhere to be found. I encourage you today to always choose the action of love, and the feeling will follow the obedience.

Kolawole Olanrewaju
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05/01/2026

The biggest lie keeping you lonely is thinking you’re "incomplete" without a spouse. If you go grocery shopping while you’re starving, you’ll buy junk. If you marry out of desperation, you’ll choose wrong.

Marriage doesn't cure loneliness; it exposes it.

Watch until the end for the 3 things you need to do to become "magnetic" to the right person.

Drop an "I AM WHOLE" in the comments if you’re done waiting and ready to start GROWING.

29/12/2025

The day you accept your spouse for who they are is the 1st day of your marriage.

26/12/2025

A fulfilling marriage is a visible result of invisible preparations.

25/12/2025

Merry Christmas from the lofacouples

23/12/2025

The most profitable gists for couples are those about why we disagree. Not knowing how to discuss disagreement is a RED FLAG.

20/12/2025

Your spouse is your BEST fit. Someone slimmer is too slim; someone taller is too tall, so avoid comparison and be content.

19/12/2025

There is no trophy for winning arguments in marriage. Married couples note this and adjust your approach.

15/12/2025

I know you've been following my posts this year, but now is the time to reflect. One pattern has spoken loudly through our conversations on love, courtship, and marriage and that has been “being intentional” i.e. wherever you plan to harvest, there, you must intentionally invest. This is one theme that has saved my own marriage from early marriage crises and still saving it. A hard truth I had to settle with as someone who loves prayer is that love doesn’t fail because people stop praying; it fails because they stop planning, choosing, and acting with purpose.

Don't just move from 2025 to 2026, also move from passive participation to active investment. In your singleness, be intentional about character and Christ-likeness, in your courtship, be intentional about clarity and purity and in your marriage, be intentional about service, communication, and sacrificial love.

Don’t just hope for a better marriage or relationship, design one. God is deeply committed to what we intentionally steward. When you show up with clarity, discipline, and humility, heaven will respond with grace, wisdom, and strength.

With Abundant Love
Kolawole Olanrewaju
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13/12/2025

Is she really "stubborn," or is she simply resisting a vision that doesn't capture her dreams? Can she palpate your commitment to her being fulfilled? Think on this.

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