Meremma D Emotional Healer

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I want to take this moment to sincerely appreciate ENDIP, British Council and King's Trust International, for trusting m...
30/11/2025

I want to take this moment to sincerely appreciate ENDIP, British Council and King's Trust International, for trusting me enough to teach and guide these amazing youths over the last three weeks.

What started as a simple plan for me to serve only as a facilitator turned into a journey.

Before I knew it, I was invited to be a judge on the elevator pitch day and then elevated again to serve as the Chief Judge on the final pitch and award day.

Sitting on that hot seat to select those 8 people out of that huge number to receive ₩300,000 investment each, for free, was one of the toughest responsibilities I’ve ever had.

Just that level of TRUST meant everything to me.

Then I understood better the word standing firmly on fairness and clarity. It wasn’t easy being the, Chief Judge at all, but grace carried me.

I want to especially appreciate ENDIP for trusting me, and DR Mrs Lilian, the Director— your confidence in me humbled me deeply.

At some point, I kept wondering, “These people don’t even know me personally,how do they trust me this much?

That level of trust is something I will never take for granted.

This organization went above and beyond.
They cared for these youths in ways I didn’t expect for 8weeks,

Daily lunch

Stipends/transportation

Learning materials

Certificates (internationally recognized CPD certificates)

A safe, nurturing environment

Took almost a thousand youth for Sightseeing in the city. (To see experienced businesses)

Hired facilitators to teach these youths for the 8weeks.

300k Investment for 8businesses

All free of charge.

I can’t imagine how much was invested into this program, but I saw the impact with my own eyes.

I literally teared up on the final day when the participants lifted their voices in appreciation.

It reminded me that we still have organizations that genuinely care, organizations that give without expecting anything in return.

If only we had more NGOs with this level of dedication, compassion, and sincerity,society would truly be a better place.

In as much as I went in as a facilitator and judge, I also came out with a deeper understanding of what it means to care for the needy and not eat alone.

That is the true heart of ENDIP and its partners.

God bless ENDIP. God bless the British Council. God bless King's Trust International.

Thank you for trusting me to be part of this impactful journey of nurturing ideas into sustainable solutions.

It was inspiring to see young CEOs, entrepreneurs showcase their creativity, innovation and resilience.





Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicle Day4Some years ago a pastor I wholeheartedly trusted did me shege,real shege.In fact,no...
27/10/2025

Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicle Day4

Some years ago a pastor I wholeheartedly trusted did me shege,real shege.

In fact,not just one person.
People I trusted in church really hurt me. I was gossiped about, misunderstood, and betrayed.

I had valid reasons to stop going to church.
And honestly, I did.
I stayed off church for years.

I told myself, “It’s better I just serve God on my own.”

But then, it hit me
Church isn’t about human beings.
If you go to church because of people, people will drive you away.

The truth is, the devil will often use the very people you worship with to tempt your faith.

That’s where the real dying to self begins.

Human beings are not perfect.

Don’t let the devil use human beings to take you out of God’s plan for your life in the church.

Because trust me, you’ll miss a lot if you don’t have a place where you worship and are connected.

Even people in the world understand the power of connection they always have a “place,” an altar, or a gathering that fuels their system.

You can’t just be there, floating around, saying,

I don’t go to church.”
“I just stay on my own.”
“Church people are this and that.”

No.You need a home church a place where you’re fed, covered, accountable, and nurtured.

The enemy knows he can't defeat you easily when you're in fellowship,so he tries to isolate you because isolation weakens fire.

That's why the Bible says in Hebrews 10:25 (NIV) Do not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

See besties, you can't walk with God and despise His body.

You can't say you love Jesus and reject His bride, THE CHURCH.

Fellowship isn't a church routine, it's a spiritual lifeline. Psalm 133:1-3.

When you go to church, you go to worship, to grow, to be sharpened, and to align my heart again with His presence.

There’s a reason God designed us to fellowship together.

The early believers in Acts 2:42 “continued steadfastly in the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers.”
Fellowship is part of our spiritual diet, it feeds, strengthens, and anchors us.

Because the truth is,you can’t do this Christian walk alone.

When you isolate yourself, you become an easy target for weakness, doubt, and deception.

When coals stay together, they burn hotter, when separated, they die out. Fellowship keeps your spiritual flame alive.

There are days when you won’t have the strength to pray or the zeal to study but what you’ve been fed with in fellowship, what you’ve heard and experienced in the gathering of believers, will sustain you.
It’s like having spiritual reserves.

Proverbs 27:17a says,
Iron sharpeneth iron;

That’s what fellowship does, it keeps you spiritually sharp.

You see, you can’t be lukewarm in this walk.
You can’t be halfway in, halfway out.
You’re either here or there.
Revelation 3:16 warns us Because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.”

So, dear Soldier of Christ,
Don’t let offense, pride, or disappointment isolate you.

I understand they really hurt you, you either go back there or find another living church and commit yourself.

Please go back to fellowship. Go back and die. That's where the true dieing to self and the world begins.

Plug back into your spiritual family.

Because that’s where growth happens,
that’s where your fire stays burning,
and that’s where God commands His blessing
like Psalm 133:1–3 says, “How good and pleasant it is when brethren dwell together in unity,for there the Lord commands the blessing, even life forevermore.”

Stay planted
Stay connected.
Stay sharpened.
Stay growing
Stay burning.

Written by Blessing Meremma Ahamefule
©Meremma D Emotional Healer
27/10/2025




Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day3Rahab wasn’t a priest, not a prophet, not even a woman of good reputation.She was ...
26/10/2025

Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day3

Rahab wasn’t a priest, not a prophet, not even a woman of good reputation.
She was a pr0$titute.
A woman everyone would have easily judged and written off.

But when two spies from Israel came to scout the land, Rahab the sinner everyone despised hid them in her house. She risked her life to protect them.

And because of that single act, God used her a pr0$titute to play a key role in Israel’s victory.

Imagine that a woman with a sinful past became part of the family line of the Savior

God doesn’t discard sinners.He redeems them and turns their mess into a message.

He doesn’t use perfect people He perfects the people He chooses to use.

Let’s talk about that kind of Christian,the one who’s quick to criticize others because they believe they’re the most righteous person in the room/world.
You know the type,If it’s not them doing it, then nobody else is worthy to do it.

If it’s not them, you can’t be good at it.
If it’s not them, you shouldn’t even be doing it.

When I started my Christian journey, it was a very dicey one for me.
I honestly felt like the most righteous person on earth.

You know that feeling of being the only “holy” one in the room?.

I was too quick to criticize other people because of how they looked, how they dressed, how they spoke.

There’s nothing wrong with correcting people.
But when correction turns into gossip.
When it turns into talking about them behind their back.

When it turns into using them as examples "every time" you preach or talk that’s no longer correction, that’s condemnation.

Christianity, to me, is about gathering, not scattering.
That’s what Jesus did.

If Jesus had behaved like most of us do, I don’t think many of us would have the salvation we boast of today.

The goal is to gather, not scatter them.
But some of us feel so righteous that we think no one else is qualified.

We feel so righteous that we start seeing everyone else as “bad and unworthy.”

We become so careless with the souls around us,
using people as examples even when we know they’ll realize we’re talking about them.

We need to think about people’s emotions.
Christianity is a balanced journey one that requires emotional intelligence as much as spiritual fire.

Criticizing others doesn’t draw them closer to God, it pushes them away.

And God never did that.
Christ never pushed anyone away.

He always brought them close.

Think again it today and change for good.

✍Blessing Meremma Ahamefule
26/10/2025.



Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day2. Many years ago in the unvi, I had this very friend. Back then in the unvi, I did...
25/10/2025

Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day2.

Many years ago in the unvi, I had this very friend.

Back then in the unvi, I didn’t really know God for myself. I didn’t understand much about Him. I just wanted to live life a bit, breathe, enjoy myself, and not feel caged by religion.

After all,I grew up in a pastorage where I was forced to read the Bible and pray, even when I didn’t want to. So I just wanted some space.

But this friend of mine oh, she was always preaching to us. Always telling me, “You need God in your life.”
And I’ll just smile and say, “I hear you,” but deep down, I didn’t see the need then.

But there was something I noticed about her.
Among the three of us, she was always the first to get offended. The first to hold a grudge. And when she’s angry? She could go five whole days without talking to you.

Yet, she was the one who claimed to know God the most.

And honestly, that confused me.
Because I kept asking myself how is it that someone who claims to have the Holy Spirit can be so quick to anger, so comfortable with offense, so distant in forgiveness?

And that’s when I began to understand something much deeper.
You can claim Christianity, you can speak all the church language, you can even preach with scriptures.
But without a deep walk with the Holy Spirit, it’s all just religion empty and exhausting.

Because truth is, Christianity without the Holy Spirit?
It’s hard.
It’s dry.
It’s unfruitful.
It’s a struggle.

The Holy Spirit is what makes this walk easier.
He’s the one who teaches, convicts, comforts, and changes us from the inside out.

He is the greatest Therapist & emotional healer.
He is the greatest Counselor.
Remember, Jesus said, “I will not leave you comfortless, I will send you the Holy Spirit the Comforter.”

For me, the Holy Spirit is my correction flute.
He is my inner Healer.
He checks me.
He guides me.
He won’t let me misbehave and feel comfortable about it.

So I honestly don’t understand how you say you carry the Holy Spirit, yet your character stinks.
You speak in tongues, but people can’t stand being around you.
You preach online, but your attitude offline chases people away.

It breaks my heart when unbelievers come close to some Christians and end up saying,
“If this is what being a Christian looks like, I’d rather stay the way I am.”
That statement should never be traced to you.
It’s painful. It’s disappointing.

Because one of the true fruits of the Holy Spirit is character transformation.

See, there are things I personally can’t do, not because I don’t want to but because the Holy Spirit won’t let me.
Sometimes it’s even annoying.
He stops me, He convicts me, He pulls me back.
But because I know it’s Him, I can’t ignore it.
I can’t afford to grieve Him.

So how do you claim to have the Holy Spirit and yet your behavior drives people away?
How do you say you’re filled with Him, but people can’t vouch for your integrity, your patience, your love, or your humility?

Some of us are praying for referrals but nobody can confidently refer us.
Some are praying for marriage but even the person dating you can’t testify that you have the Spirit of God in you, same with the person married to you.

My brother, my sister. if that’s you, please, go back home.
Have what I call a “Me-Time Meeting.”
Sit with yourself. Reflect. Meditate.
Ask the Holy Spirit to brood over you again to work on your heart, your words,your habits, your attitude.

Be still.Let Him shape you. Let Him refine you.

So that when we see you next time, we’ll know not by your words, not by your tongues, but by your fruit that truly, the Holy Spirit lives inside of you.

I'm rooting for you besties.
Written By
Blessing Meremma Ahamefule
25/10/2025.





Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day1. Dear Christian, please can we do better?. I got into a conversation recently wit...
24/10/2025

Dear Soldier of Christ Chronicles Day1.

Dear Christian, please can we do better?.

I got into a conversation recently with someone and he said he was skeptical about employing the christian guy someone recommended for him in his firm.
His reason?
He said, “Christians are usually nonchalant, overly religious, and bring their spirituality into work in the wrong way.”

And that hit me.
Because I’ve heard this many times, and it breaks my heart deeply.

Before you jum into conclusions,I beg you take a moment to read through.

I’m a jesus girl.
One who is genuinely trying every single day to die to self, make I no be@t some personsđŸ€Ł.

Because truth is, you can’t truly walk this Christian journey without dying to self on a daily,if not human beings go whyne√whyne you up and down with anger or satan go use free food mess you up.

Your flesh and your spirit dey war every single day.

Can we represent the God we claim to know, love and serve, especially in our workplaces, businesses, and assignments?

God is not a God of disorder.
He’s not a God of mediocrity.
He’s a God of excellence, of diligence, of structure, of beauty, of precision.

I’ve come to understand that God is, indeed, a businessman, a master planner, a strategist.

So when we show up carelessly, lazily, or without excellence, we misrepresent Him.

If we truly carry God, then let it reflect not just in our tongues, but in our work.
Not just in our prayers, but in our character.

You can’t say you serve God and then underdo things, doing them carelessly while someone who doesn’t even know God takes the time to do it excellently.
No, it doesn’t work like that.

You can’t spend all day, joining every prayer meeting online morning, afternoon, and night yet you don’t work on improving your brain bank & hand.
You don’t learn.
You don’t develop your mind.
You don’t go for conferences.
You don’t attend seminars.
You don’t pay for courses.
You don’t ask questions.
You don’t even correct yourself.

God has His part to play, and you have your part to play.

You believe you’re an island, that you know it all.
You don’t want to give your best where you are.
You don’t invest in the company that’s paying you.
And yet, you want them to respect you because you’re “a Christian”?

I’m sorry, but that’s not how it works.

If you have to tell me that you’re a Christian, then something is wrong somewhere.
Because your character should already tell me.
The fruit you bear should speak for you.

A true Christian is a person of excellence.
A person of order. A person of deep knowledge and deep revelation
A person led by the Spirit.

Because when you truly have the Holy Spirit, there are certain things He will not let you do.
He won’t let you deliver carelessly.
He won’t let you settle for the bare minimum.
He will sit on you until that thing comes out excellently done.

He will nudge your spirit
“Take that course.”
“Go and improve yourself.”
“Do it again, this one isn’t your best yet.”

Because He cannot be associated with mediocrity.

So sometimes, I wonder the Holy Spirit that some people claim to have
 is it the same one that produces excellent results or we have one now that produces average results?

Because the one I know pushes you to grow, to shine, to stand out.

And you see, this isn’t just for those in offices, even for those who have skills.
You can’t keep delivering poorly and expect people to keep coming back.

No! We are praying for customers, yet we keep chasing the ones we already have away with our bad attitude.

That’s not God.
That’s not Christlike .
That’s not Christianity.

True Christianity shows in how you work/live, not just in what you say.

Because excellence is a language that even unbelievers understand.

Let the world see Jesus through how we handle our jobs, our customers, our colleagues, and our deadlines.

Because at the end of the day, our greatest sermon is not what we preach "it’s how we live".

WRITTEN BY
✍MEREMMA D EMOTIONAL HEALER
Blessing Meremma Ahamefule
24/10/2025.





15/10/2025

Dying to self is the key

Yesterday was anty courage's birthday. And honestly, my mentees left me completely speechless. Now, I’m not sharing this...
15/10/2025

Yesterday was anty courage's birthday. And honestly, my mentees left me completely speechless.

Now, I’m not sharing this to sound proud or to brag, but in a positive sense, yes, I’m proud nah.
I’m sharing this to "encourage" upcoming mentors, teachers, and everyone in the impact space.

One of the greatest lessons impact has taught me is this,when we talk about impact, it starts with you. Impact is not just what you do for others , it’s who you become in the process. Because truth is, you can’t give what you don’t have.

I started this mentorship journey over a decade ago. And honestly, when I began, it was "tough" very. It was draining. There were times I had to feed mentees, pay bills for people, even when I needed those things myself.

Some of them were ungrateful, some disappeared along the way, and some have remained deeply grateful. But the truth is, there were days I felt discouraged. Days when I felt unseen. Days I sacrificed more than any normal person should.

And yet, through it all, I’ve learned that impact isn’t about being seen, it’s about being *used*. Used by God. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about me; it’s about Him.

If Jesus healed ten and only one came back to say “thank you,” who I be to expect nine? đŸ€”can't be that crazy

Yesterday reminded me that life is progressive, and that God is faithful. I’m just a vessel, and it’s a privilege to be used by God to impact this generation.

One of my biggest prayers has always been that my children will never be stranded in life. That the seeds I sow, the sacrifices I make, that they will eat the fruit of it.
And biko me too, will eat the fruits there in đŸ€Ł. I say it with confidence.

I will eat the fruit of my labor. My children will eat it. My grandchildren will eat it. My entire generation will benefit from it.

Some of my mentees decided to celebrate my daughter. They said, “Let’s make her happy, so she feels proud of the kind of woman her mother is.” They all started sending in money for anty courage hmmm this girl got big money ooo đŸ„°

When I got home, anty courage ran up to me, hugged me so tightly, and said, “Mommy, I’m proud of you.” (Me you say đŸ€Ł biko talk it again)

Yes, she always say it before, but last night, hit different. There was emotion, depth, and admiration in her eyes.

She didn’t just see me as a mother,she saw me as a "role model". And that right there
 that moment meant everything.

So this is for you, maybe you’re not a mentor, maybe you’re not even in a teaching space. But whatever you’re doing, do it so well that your spouse, children, & the people around you, can benefit natural from it.

Keep doing what you’re doing.God never forgets your labor.

I will leave you with this :
As a minister, understand that every platform you step on is not proof that you’ve “arrived” it is a test.

God watches to see how you handle honor, how you carry influence, and how you steward opportunities. Fail the test, and the platform will destroy you. Pass the test, and the platform will multiply you.
A minister who survives the test of platforms is one who never forgets that the stage belongs to Jesus. You are only a vessel , the spotlight is His.

So keep impacting. Don’t stop.

©MeremmaDEmotionalHealer
Blessing Meremma Ahamefule





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