19/04/2026
I got this anonymous message from Radiant Relations Consultancy whatsapp community,
I thaught of sharing one of the responses here because i know many are in this shoe. When issues comes in, in thier marriage, you will be hearing words like " they told me" " my family did not approve of our marriage"
As a lady you can accept to marry partner of your choice but you need to listen to others to examine such choice because "Atupa ko ki ridi ara e" ( lamp cannot see itself).
This viewpoint will help you
“Can I ask you something, what is happening in that relationship that makes you feel you can spend the rest of your life with the man?
And if you are being honest, is there anything that quietly does not sit well with you now?
Remember you dont marry because you feel okay now, you think about the future.
Sometimes when we are inside a relationship, it’s hard to see it clearly, the way someone older or more experienced might.
I am just wondering, what do you think you might not be seeing yet?
If you feel a bit unsure or stuck, it might really help to talk it through with someone who can guide you professionally, you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. That is why we have Radiant Relations Consultancy.
You can join the community to enrich your relationship through this link https://chat.whatsapp.com/L0suMhr3Z8E8QbtaRQQS40?mode=gi_t
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