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I’m passionate about Helping Singles, Couples & Singles in courtship build love that lasts!

I will guide you towards self-discovery, alignment process with partner/spouse & create systems that bring joy & harmony to your relationship

04/02/2026

A QUESTION AND ANSWER SERIES WITH THE COACH.

What is marriage proposal?
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02/02/2026

RENEWING OUR MINDSET ABOUT MARRIAGE

This teaching is important because if our mindset about marriage is not renewed, every other teaching will have little effect.

Over time, social media, culture, upbringing, painful experiences, and negative stories from friends and loved ones have clouded how many people now see marriage.

Many singles are afraid and no longer know who the right person is.

Many people now see marriage as a trial and error journey.

Ecclesiastes 9.9- Enjoy life with the wife whom you love

Marriage was established by God for partnership, fulfillment, and enjoyment, and it works best when done His way, not based on fear or public opinion.

So, I would like to start this year’s teaching by reminding us of God’s design for marriage.

📌 Marriage is between a man and a woman even though globally we are seeing various developments.

When you know the truth, you will not be carried away by lies.

📌 The two must leave their parents and cleave to each other.

We have adults who cannot draw boundaries to start their lives with their spouses.

Remember, your parents have made their mark, so it is now left for each person to cleave to their spouse and make their own mark.

📌 Each partner’s joy should be a priority, just as Christ left His glory above and became a man to save us and give us joy.

📌 Marriage must be built on mutual respect for individuality and opinions.

Each partner’s view must not be treated as nonsense.

Both partners’ opinions and views must be understood and worked with.

📌 Singles must understand Amos 3:3 as God’s wisdom in choosing the right partner.

Amos 3:3– Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

The right partner is someone you can truly agree with in values, vision, beliefs, lifestyle, finances, family, parenting, and other aspects of life.

This is just the foundation

As we move forward, I encourage everyone to reflect deeply, renew your mind, and focus on marriage the way God, who established it, designed it

I wish every married person harmony, joy, and growth this year,
and every single clarity, peace, and alignment with the right partner.

May this year bring us strong foundations in marriages and beautiful wedding testimonies

31/01/2026

Reaction is fast. Response is learned.

The space between them is where harmony lives.

Swipe to understand what your body already knows.

29/01/2026

REACTION VS RESPONSE — THE DIFFERENCE THAT CHANGES EVERYTHING

You may not know this but, reaction is automatic. Response is intentional.
Reaction is rooted in memory. Response is guided by awareness.

In relationships, unresolved trauma often hijacks the moment—turning simple conversations into emotional battlegrounds. What feels like “overreacting” is often the nervous system trying to protect itself.

But harmony requires space between feeling and action.

That space is built through healing.

When we learn to pause, reflect, and regulate, we stop repeating old patterns and start creating new ones.

Consider this:
❗Do I react before I understand?
❗What does my body do during conflict?
❗How often do I feel misunderstood or unheard?

These insights are invitations, not accusations. Change is possible. Healing is possible.

Harmony grows where awareness leads.

28/01/2026

Love can be real and peace can still feel distant.

This doesn’t mean your marriage is broken.
It may mean your foundation needs attention.

Swipe with honesty.
Healing changes everything.

27/01/2026

TRAUMA DOESN’T ALWAYS LOOK DRAMATIC

Not all trauma comes from abuse or obvious loss.
Sometimes it comes from:
❗Growing up unheard
❗Emotional neglect
❗Being forced to mature too early
❗Inconsistent care or affection
These experiences shape how safe connection feels.

You may avoid vulnerability—not because you don’t care, but because being seen once felt dangerous. You may withdraw during conflict, not because you don’t love, but because silence once meant safety.

These are not flaws. They are signals. Signals that healing deserves space.

Harmony becomes possible when we stop judging our responses and start understanding them.

Ask yourself:
❗Where do I avoid closeness, even when I desire it?
❗What situations activate fear instead of curiosity?
❗What patterns keep repeating in my relationships?

Know this, you deserve relationships built on safety—not survival. Support creates clarity. And clarity creates change.

26/01/2026

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH — AND THAT’S NOT A FAILURE

Love is powerful. But love alone does not heal trauma.
Love does not teach emotional regulation. Love does not replace self-awareness. Love does not automatically create safety.

Many couples love deeply—yet struggle endlessly.
Why? Because unresolved inner wounds continue to speak in moments of stress, disagreement, or vulnerability.

Marriage amplifies what hasn’t been healed. Not to punish—but to reveal.

When harmony is the goal, foundations matter:
• Emotional safety
• Self-awareness
• Accountability
• Willingness to heal
This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being intentional.

Reflect gently:
❗Do I expect my partner to soothe wounds I avoid facing?
❗Do I confuse love with endurance?
❗Am I building from healing—or from hope alone?

Harmony is built—carefully, consciously, together.

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24/01/2026

“This is just how I am”...
Or is it how you learned to protect yourself?

What if who you truly are is beneath the coping?

Swipe. Reflect. Learn. Leave a comment

22/01/2026

WHY WE’RE FOCUSING ON FOUNDATION FOR HARMONY

At Marriage With Harmony, we see a pattern again and again.

Couples aren’t failing because they don’t love each other. They struggle because they’re building on unexamined foundations.

Communication techniques help. Advice helps. But without healing, the same cycles return.

That’s why this month, we’re returning to the basics: Identity. Self-awareness. Emotional safety. Inner work.

Because harmony isn’t maintained by effort alone—it’s sustained by clarity.

Know this, healing is possible. Change is possible.

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