Coping With Divorce

14/05/2024

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Are you dealing with emotions of divorce? It's time to discover 5 tips for navigating the emotions of separation and divorce in this article.

19/04/2024

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09/04/2024

WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE FEELS DEAD
When people get married, they often buy into several common misconceptions about marriage. Many
of us have been made to believe that getting married is supposed to always have a "…and they lived
happily ever after" narrative. When that doesn't happen, we blame it on our choices, also known as
spouses, and seldom accept that a marriage is built by two people and not bought off a supermarket
shelf.
There is nothing wrong with expecting to live happily ever after, but… if only this were true, if we do
not put in the effort! Just like cars, marriages have "warning lights", and we need to recognize them
before things go all wrong. Several common warning signs tell that a marriage is in trouble. The truth
is successful marriages take a lot of hard work. Both parties in the relationship must take the decision
to identify issues and unacceptable behaviour before they become serious problems. It isn't the duty
of one or the other. Neither is it healthy to stay in an unhappy marriage using the children as a prop.
A lot of the chaos in marriage is because issues have not been attended to before they become worse.
It is possible to have many years of occasional happiness but not be truly happy in a marriage. There
are times when some good news knit a couple closer and many more when they cannot stand the
sight of each other. It is never too late to truly create a marriage that will make one happy. No two
persons are totally compatible, but a sincere effort at making your marriage work will strengthen it.
As Leo Tolstoy says what counts is how you deal with incompatibility and not the fact of being
incompatible.

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08/03/2024

What would life be like without
Women?

13/02/2024

STOP 🛑 THE ABUSE

Abuse is usually hushed until the victim starts to show signs of mental disorientation. It usually starts with a desire to control. It does not breed anything good for the family.

That’s why we are inviting women to take part in this research.

Yes o, na research. This will help all those in the medical and counselling chain to help those who go through the trauma of abuse.

Share this post if you would rather not tag those who need it, but whatever you do, save a soul.

10/02/2024

Let’s be honest, can a man who wants polygamy tell his fiancé (not yet married) so?
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01/02/2024

MY STORY

I played so much at school my teachers didn't believe I would pass my ’o’ level exams. I wasn't interested in school and simply wanted to investigate and poke my nose into many things that were considered not suitable for my age. So in my third year, I led a group of us to learn to smoke ci******es. We refused to give the girls in the class above us so they squealed to the school authorities. We almost got suspended.

When I got into university, I enjoyed law very much but still had a great yen for knowledge beyond books or college degrees so I headed for the library each day after classes to do my assignments and read up whatever needed to be done.

Evenings were meant for relaxation. I leant how to smoke with puffs coming out of my nostrils, I leant how to drive a car and how to party nonstop. I has such a good time that I look at troublesome youths and understand there need to play. Only their play is high class. I had many friends until some of them realised that I passed my exams while they had to resit.

I learnt to reach a compromise in my relationship with play and study. I studied in the afternoon and played till I dropped off to sleep afterwards. I wasn't and I'm still not one to study at night.

Passing exams was important to me but playing was just as important. I learnt to make them accommodate each other. Beyond my basic needs of food, shelter, warmth etc was a need to acquire knowledge and information that weren't of the nature of a college degree.

So it should be in our relationships. We must learn how to built systems that work themselves with our relationships. For me the need to pass exams and have a career was unassailable but the allure of adventure and knowledge had to leant how to sit beside my need for a career. One wasn't more important than the other. Indeed today one complements the other.

What is the core value that needs to complement your need for an abundant relationship? What is your story.

Share nau!!

Let’s learn from each other.

Relationships are made to make us happy. Sometimes we suppress the values we need to release to make our relationships happy.

So have you wondered what is that value that you have deep in your soul that needs to be cultivated beyond your basic needs of food, clothing, shelter and love?

How do our core values deepen our relationships? How do we reach into our souls to dig them out to enrich our relationship mastery?

In my Abundance Letters I discuss these issues from time to time and I invite you to subscribe. It’s free for now and will always be till I make it available at a price .

Sisi Lawyer

01/02/2024

MY STORY

I played so much at school my teachers didn't believe I would pass my ’o’ level exams. I wasn't interested in school and simply wanted to investigate and poke my nose into many things that were considered not suitable for my age. So in my third year, I led a group of us to learn to smoke ci******es. We refused to give the girls in the class above us so they squealed to the school authorities. We almost got suspended.

When I got into university, I enjoyed law very much but still had a great yen for knowledge beyond books or college degrees so I headed for the library each day after classes to do my assignments and read up whatever needed to be done.

Evenings were meant for relaxation. I leant how to smoke with puffs coming out of my nostrils, I leant how to drive a car and how to party nonstop. I has such a good time that I look at troublesome youths and understand there need to play. Only their play is high class. I had many friends until some of them realised that I passed my exams while they had to resit.

I learnt to reach a compromise in my relationship with play and study. I studied in the afternoon and played till I dropped off to sleep afterwards. I wasn't and I'm still not one to study at night.

Passing exams was important to me but playing was just as important. I learnt to make them accommodate each other. Beyond my basic needs of food, shelter, warmth etc was a need to acquire knowledge and information that weren't of the nature of a college degree.

So it should be in our relationships. We must learn how to built systems that work themselves with our relationships. For me the need to pass exams and have a career was unassailable but the allure of adventure and knowledge had to leant how to sit beside my need for a career. One wasn't more important than the other. Indeed today one complements the other.

What is the core value that needs to complement your need for an abundant relationship? What is your story.

Share nau!!

Let’s learn from each other.

Relationships are made to make us happy. Sometimes we suppress the values we need to release to make our relationships happy.

So have you wondered what is that value that you have deep in your soul that needs to be cultivated beyond your basic needs of food, clothing, shelter and love?

How do our core values deepen our relationships? How do we reach into our souls to dig them out to enrich our relationship mastery?

In my Abundance Letters I discuss these issues from time to time and I invite you to subscribe. It’s free for now and will always be till I make it available at a price .

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29/01/2024

Woman: My husband committed adultery and I have decided I want a divorce.

Lawyer: Have you had sexual in*******se with him since you found out?

Woman: Yes, there was so much begging that day so after they all left, in what we thought was reconciliation, I slept with him but I woke up feeling dirty. I can’t cope. I want out on the grounds of divorce.

Lawyer: Madam you can no longer ask for divorce on those facts.

By sleeping with your husband after you discovered his adultery, you are assumed to have condoned it.

Don’t condone what you can’t take.

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