Healing HOMES Visions

25/12/2023

Merry Christmas and new bliss in our homes in the name of Jesus

13/12/2023

As a woman have your own life; don't be a liability. A man should take care of you not because he has to but because he want to.

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13/12/2023

Pls note, men don't treat all women the same way; a man learn from you the way he treats you.

23/03/2023

Behold, unto us a new commission is born: unto us a new ministry is given: and salvation, deliverance with undiluted world of God shall be upon her shoulder, and her name shall be called "GOD BY HIS GRACE MINISTRY".
Of the increase of her exploit there shall be no end , upon the authority in the name of JESUS ; and to pastor her member with equity, integrity, sincerity and passion: and to establish her people with justice, judge their enemy with vengeance from God and give them peace by all means forever.
The zeal of the of the LORD of host will perform this.
Pls pray along with us.

08/08/2021

09/03/2021

MARRIAGE/FAMILY SUCCESS HAS NO RESPEXCT FOR ANOINTING.
I want to talk to you anointed men of God in Christiandom about making marriage work, and that it has no respect for anointing.
No matter how much anointed you are, you have to wake up to the fact that you must consciously make your marriage work.
From the pages of the scripture, we saw some heavily anointed men of God that did not do well in marriage/family life.
First, Eli, in 1 Samuel 2:12 Now the sons of Eli were sons of Belial; they knew not the LORD.
His children could not succeed him as a priest because they were wayward.
Secondly, SAMUEL, in 1 Samuel 8:1 And it came to pass, when Samuel was old, that he made his sons judges over Israel.
8:2 Now the name of his firstborn was Joel; and the name of his second, Abiah: they were judges in Beersheba.
8:3 And his sons walked not in his ways, but turned aside after lucre, and took bribes, and perverted judgment.
The first acclaimed Prophet in Israel did not do well in family/marriage. His children were corrupt. That was the first reason Israel asked for king.
DAVID, was also not a good example in family line; that was why his first son Amnon, even Absalom and Adonijah did not make it to the thrown; they were not cultured enough and were morally bankrupt, despite their father David's anointing.
Now coming to our contemporary world, we see a lot of heavily anointed and renown men of God failing in marriage to the point of separation and divorce, because proper attention was not payed to making their marriage work.
I want to emphasis that it is not automatic as an anointed man of God that your marriage/family must work by the reason of the unction of God upon you; NO. There are things to do to make it work. Even in the automobiles called automatic, there are some things you must do to make it move and keep moving.
As men of God we must set our priorities right. It is not ministry, ministry and ministry. Those who did it that way in the past are now swimming in the waters of regret.
I want to believe that it should be your relationship with God first (as a son of God and a good Christian), next is your marriage/family then ministry. You must first succeed at home before you are adjudged successful in ministry.
1 Timothy 3:4 One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;
3:5 (For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
Those that will lead in the church must first be able to rule their homes well.
We must understand that there is the place of the anointing and there is the place of understanding what it takes to make the home work (seek knowledge)
1pet.3:7 In the same way you married men should live considerately with [your wives], with an intelligent recognition [of the marriage relation], honoring the woman as [physically] the weaker, but [realizing that you] are joint heirs of the grace (God’s unmerited favor) of life, in order that your prayers may not be hindered and cut off. [Otherwise you cannot pray effectively.] (AMP).
This knowledge and understanding has little or nothing to do with the anointing of God upon you. You may be anointed to the teeth, healing the sick and raising the dead, but you have to give a conscious attention to knowing some salient things in marriage:
1. Knowing the wiring of a woman.
2. Knowing who your wife is (her temperament, personality and love language and deal with her as such).
3. What are the do and don'ts of your wife.
4. Give her and your children attention and quality time(not necessarily quantity) that is be there for them whenever they need you. These are among other things you need to know; I can go on and on.
Men of God, let's put an end to crises in marriage and the menace of separation and divorce among the anointed in the body of Christ. You must know that whatever goes wrong in your marriage you are to blame first as the husband. My father in the Lord( Bishop David Oyedepo) said, whatever happens in a vehicle accident, you ask the driver first, not the perssenger. As the husband you are the driver of the family, you started it all. As the head you are suppose to know how to go about it. Remember there is the place of the anointing and there is the place of practically making you marriage work. God bless you, may the anointing of God upon you be on the increase in Jesus name.
Remain loveable.
TOYIN ARE
LEAD PASTOR: HEALING HOMES VISIONS

22/01/2021

13 DANGEROUS THINGS WIVES ARE DOING

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s*x as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A wife that has the mind of a wonan does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cookings, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

27/07/2020

YOU MAY "FALL IN LOVE" WITH THE BEAUTY OF SOMEONE,
BUT REMEMBER THAT FINALLY YOU WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE CHARACTER, NOT THE BEAUTY. BEAUTY WILL EVENTUALLY FADE OFF BUT CHARACTER WILL REMAIN. THEREFORE, MARRY CHARACTER NOT BEAUTY.

21/02/2020

Love at first sight does not last long in marriage. I LOVE U cannot carry u through either; It will get to a certain point in that you will need more than what we call "in love" or love obsession to move on in marriage. At this point you need to know or understand what we call "LOVE LANGUAGE" Join us on Sundays at healing Homes meeting to discuss "The love languages in marriage relationship" @ 4pm. Same venue. God bless u remain loveable.

13/11/2019

WHAT IS YOUR CONCLUSION ABOUT MARRIAGE?
Taken a look at your experience in marriage, and what you have seen or heard of other marriages around you; considering what people, culture and tradition has made of marriages today; what are you saying about it?
Are you one of those who believe that marriage is a necessary evil? Or that marriage is another form of bo***ge; that you have to stay in it for the sake of your children, just like our mothers use to say. Have you given up, as in that you can never be happy or enjoy marital life again ("Oti gba kamu")? Are you saying all men/women are same evil alike?
In spite of all these believes and human assertions, have you ever thought of what God the author of marriage intend it to be, as in what He said about it from the beginning.
Gen.2:18 Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.(AMP)
It is not good for a man to be alone... So He instituted a union between the first man and the first woman which is called marriage today.
I can tell you emphatically that God meant it for good; to be enjoyed and not to be endured; Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.(KJV)
What you therefore say or believe about marriage has a lot to do with what you will get and continue to see in your marriage; see Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.(KJV)
The kind of picture the devil is painting for you about marriage nowadays does not matter, but what you are saying or believe matters a lot; see Numbers 14:28 Say unto them, As truly as I live, saith the LORD, as ye have spoken in mine ears, so will I do to you.(KJV)
Watch out what you confess about your marriage or what you say about marriage generally; in spite of people's experience in it; see Genesis 2:19 And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.(KJV)
Whatever you call your marriage is what you will see in it. If you call it good, sooner or latter, no matter how bad, it will turn out to be good. But if you call it bad. Num.14:28 might answer for you. Also see matt.12:34, Pro.23:7. As a man/woman thinks in his heart so is he/she.
Remember the vision of Peter in Act.10:11-15. Whatever God sanctify and call good do not call common or unclean.
Say what God says about your marriage or marriage generally and you will begin to enjoy the good of it, see Isaiah 8:12 Say ye not, A confederacy, to all them to whom this people shall say, A confederacy; neither fear ye their fear, nor be afraid.(KJV)
Do not say what they say nor fear what they fear, and you will see good in it.
That is my conclusion about marriage.
Remain loveable.
Pst. Toyin Are

30/10/2019

12 GOLDEN RULES TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND FOREVER
1). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your
husband s*x. You must give it to him . S*x is very important to
men
2). Never raise your voice for any reason against your husband.
Its a sign of disrespect.
3). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family
and friends. It will bounce back on you.
4). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your
husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them.
5). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea
what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his love for
you will diminish.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid,
do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband,
people may do everything else but your husband is your own
responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty
handed. Rather encourage him.
9).Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental
attitude about marriage
10).Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants
a nagging wife
11).Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband
12).Never challenge your husband in front of the children. Wise
women don't do that.

19/09/2019

MISTAKES YOU MUST AVOID AS A SPINSTER.
-Don't let the fact that you need husband urgently for shorce you to fall for ungodly man.
-Don't let him sleep with you all in the name of testing you, you are not an okra. To descend low is to offend God that hates premarital s*x, if and when the young man disappoints, you can't run to a God that you have sinned against( Hebrew 13:4)
- Don't ever send your naked picture to him in the name of love, such can be used to brutalize your personality when the going gets soured.
-Don't be tempted to follow him to his home town. The first person to contact is your pastor, let him do the spiritual screening. Through the eyes of faith can discern a pretender, play boy and unspiritual folk.
- Notice these danger signals: if he is a liar,drunkard,smoker,drug addict,mummy boy, too jealous. Think twice. Remember, you will marry to a personality but will live with a character.
- When he doesn't respect your family members. Don't put your head into such relationship, it simply means that in times of misunderstanding, querrel and black days in your marital journey, nobody can speak to appease him.
- When he doesn't love God, to uphold him for him to hold on to the word of God, doesn't like prayers at all; no matter how deep his pocket and fat his bank account, such riches can't deliver in the days of unexpected challenges and unforseen contingencies.
- Don't use any diabolical means to tie a man, no free gifts from Satan, when the charm expires, such relationship will crash or holy wedlock be padlocked by frustration, divorce and mysterious powers.
- You can't wait for God and be a waste.
Resolved that you will be marry to a man from your faith, not be a second wife, will not let impatience to degrade you to a single mother.
- While you are waiting, be a committed worker in Church, you can't be committed to God's work and be omitted from His blessings.
This year cannot swallow your marital breakthrough in Jesus Name!
Proverb 15:31.