25/06/2021
Falling in Love- COPIED!
She had an ‘extra-marital affair’ and her husband got to know about it.
She looked different for the last few days.
She looked happy, confident, mysteriously more beautiful, and more organised.
Not just a dedicated wife for her husband or a woman for her home anymore.
Now she was singing, she was dancing, her dress sense had commendably Improved.
It was strange!
He has never seen this shade of hers since they got married.
He was sure someone else had entered her life and that she was transforming herself for him.
He thought to himself that a woman always lives for the joy and happiness of a man.
He felt like spending some more time with her to explore the reason behind it.
"Saturday eve," he thought, will make "a perfect time to spend together."
He proposed a dine out and she accepted the proposal.
He asked her about the venue and for the first time she expressed her opinion!
Again, a surprise…
Earlier it was always his decision!
They went to a beautiful restaurant with a very romantic ambience.
She looked amazing and he kept staring at her as if he is meeting her for the first time.
While they sat on the table, which was reserved by her, he was trying to explore the reason for this transformation,
He held her hand and asked her in a very polite tone,
"Dear, you look amazing and have changed in the last few days.
What is the secret ?"
She looked into his eyes and smiled, and said,
"I am also surprised!
You are sitting with me at a place of my choice, holding my hand, looking into my eyes, not looking into your phone, or staring at girls that are moving around!
Isn't it strange?"
Then she picked up her phone and took a selfie and forwarded it to someone and her phone started ringing.
Now he was uncomfortable.
She smiled and announced
"I am in love!!!"
He was shocked!
For a few minutes, he felt like slapping her.
But for the first time, he also started loving her and didn't want to lose her.
Composing himself he asked,
"Who is he?"
She smiled and said, "It's not he, it's SHE."
Infact, It's not she, it's me!
I love myself.
I love spending time with people I like, visiting places I love. I am alive!
And you know what I realised?
You also love me more when I love myself.
He had tears in his eyes; although, of relief.
He apologized and promised that he will not have unreasonable expectations from her and respect her always.
Now, he knows the lady who is with him is alive, confident and deserves love and respect and if not given by him, she can find it within herself.
PS.
"You don't need someone to make life beautiful!
Spend some time with yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, value yourself.
Ultimately when you love and respect yourself, you will be loved by others and you deserve it!" —Unknown
It’s hard to feel desire when you don’t feel desirable. ― Christine Feehan
Encourage yourself, believe in yourself, and love yourself. Never doubt who you are. ― Stephanie Lahart
Love yourself. Forgive yourself. Be true to yourself. How you treat yourself sets the standard for how others will treat you. ― Steve Maraboli
You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be the one. If you can wrap yourself around the idea that you are something incredible, then you will stop excusing behaviour that rapes your very soul. You were never meant to teach someone to love you. You were meant to be loved.
~ written by Shannon L. Alder
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