27/11/2025
Biggest lie that keeps us stuck and cause us suffering:”Your worth comes from being chosen and validated from the outside world .”
In our culture and society , we have been taught to look outward for validation — a partner, a relationship, someone who “chooses” us .
But yoga teaches us something very profound : your worth resides in your own essence, your being.
It’s not earned. Its not chased. It’s not given. It simply is.
When we forget this, we cling to relationships (private or career ) that no longer support our growth, diminish our true potential and silence our inner voice.
We tolerate imbalance because we fear what it means to be alone and we are averse to the unknown.
We abandon our own inner wisdom just because we are attached to someone else, who gives us temporary disguised comfort.
But self-healing begins when we turn inward.
Through breath, meditation, yoga , presence and self knowledge , we remember our divine true nature, that is:
•Already whole.
• No need to be chosen to be worthy.
• its worth doesn’t depend on outer validation
From this grounded, self aware place,love becomes something we share abundantly , not something we chase and demand.
In this dynamic relationships transform from places of fear of rejection, ego games and suffering into spaces of inducing self growth and uplifting one another- the most beautiful divine experience of two souls ❤️
B.U. Studio
Irena Ivanova
