14/02/2026
Today I look back and think about the me from 8 years ago.
I was struggling with a difficult divorce, addicted to new a co dependent physical relationship, depressed, overweight and exhausted. I look back and I feel like I am watching a movie of someone else life.
The me from 8 years ago was not authentic. I did things I did not want to do to keep the peace. I agreed with everyone else’s plans for me and my parenting.
I cried a lot. I argued a lot! I listened to the inner voices of overthinking! I was over emotional! I was struggling! .
But I go through it.
Today I look back and I would not change anything. I learnt who my authentic self is.
I do not apologise any more. I got my health back. Called my power back! Took the time to learn self care. To learn who I am.
I tell my new partner what I want like going to bed early, going out with friends by myself, or even away for a long weekend or space and do not feel guilt. I share my feelings but only after working through them myself.
Yes, I made mistakes I am not proud of but I do not live in the past. I do not live in regret.
I have learnt! I have changed! I am moving forward!
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