The Spiritual Aunty

01/04/2026

BUSINESS NOTE 📝

Why I Don’t Allow Support People at Your Reading 💚

A reading is a sacred and personal space.

When you come for a reading, the messages, energy, and guidance are meant for you, not the person sitting beside you. (Unless it’s a booked 2 person Reading)

When support people are present, a few things can happen:

• Their energy can influence the space
• Their reactions can shift how messages come through
• Sometimes people hold back or filter the truth because someone else is there.

For the most honest, clear, and powerful reading, the space needs to be just between you, me, and spirit.

If you need support, that’s completely understandable, but the reading itself is a space for your wairua, your healing, and your truth.

Trust yourself to step into that space.

Ngā mihi 🤍

31/03/2026

You can’t control other people.
You can’t control their lies, their behaviour, or their intentions.

But you can control who gets access to you.

You can control your response.
Your boundaries.
Your energy.

Tiakina tō wairua.
Protect your spirit.

Whakarongo ki tō hinengaro.
Listen to your mind.

Whakanuia tō mana.
Honour your mana.

Power isn’t controlling others.
Ko te tino kaha, ko te whakahaere i a koe anō.

True power is mastering yourself.

29/03/2026

Let’s be clear.

If you’re coming for a Reading with me, come OPEN.

Don’t come trying to test me.
Don’t come trying to catch me out.
Don’t come closed off and then say “it didn’t resonate.”

Energy doesn’t work like that.

Come with respect for the space and the process.

Be prepared that you might hear truth, not just what you want to hear.

Come sober, present, and grounded.

And most importantly, come responsible for your own healing.

A reading can guide you, bring awareness, or confirm things you already feel deep down.

But I’m not here to fix your life for you.

If you’re open and ready, the space can be powerful.

If you’re not…
This probably isn’t the place for you.

28/03/2026

Sharing for those who have asked if I’m still doing Readings & Reiki - I’ve never stopped, I just had a break here and there 🤷🏽‍♀️💜😊

Book your appointment with The Spiritual Aunty

27/03/2026

Sometimes the ones who speak the truth are the ones pushed to the outside.

Silence is more comfortable for people than accountability.

But awareness doesn’t happen by staying quiet.

So if standing in your truth puts you on the outside…stand there with strength.

26/03/2026

Let’s normalise giving compliments… and accepting them.

Too often people feel awkward when someone says something kind about them. We brush it off, laugh it away, or quickly point out our flaws.

But a compliment is a gift.
It’s someone noticing your light.

And accepting it doesn’t make you arrogant. It makes you grounded enough to receive.

So if someone says:
“You’re doing amazing.”
“You look beautiful.”
“I admire your strength.”

Try this instead of deflecting…

Just say “Thank you.”

No shrinking.
No explaining it away.
No downplaying who you are.

Let’s also be the people who speak those compliments out loud.
Kind words cost nothing, but they can shift someone’s whole day.

Normalize lifting each other up.
Normalize receiving it too.

Because when we celebrate each other, everyone rises.

24/03/2026

Some people don’t actually want you to get better.

Because when you’re unwell, confused, or doubting yourself…
you’re easier to control.
Easier to silence.
Easier to benefit from.

Your healing threatens the system they built around your pain.

The moment you get stronger,
see clearer, and reclaim your mana, their influence over you disappears.

So heal anyway.
Even if it makes people uncomfortable.

24/03/2026

Sometimes the strongest ones are the ones carrying the most.

The ones who hold everyone else up.
The ones who listen.
The ones who show up.
The ones who say “I’m good” even when they’re not.

Check on your strong friends.
Check on your whānau who are always there for everyone else.

Even the strongest pou need support around them. Even the biggest tōtara still stands in a forest.

Send the message.
Make the call.
Sit with them.

Sometimes the people who look the strongest are the ones who need the most aroha.

Kia mahara:
Strong people need support too. 🤍

24/03/2026

Sometimes the hardest decision
is recognising when your time somewhere has come to an end.

Not because you failed.
Not because you didn’t try.

But because you have grown
beyond the space you are in.

When your peace matters more than the position, when your value is no longer recognised, and when your wairua begins to feel heavy.

That’s usually the moment you realise it’s time to move forward.

Some chapters are meant to close
so new ones can begin.

Trust the knowing within you.

23/03/2026

Inner Circle

Your inner circle should be the ones who stand with you, not against you.

The ones who clap when you win.
The ones who sit with you when you’re hurting.
The ones who remind you who you are when you forget.

Your inner circle shouldn’t compete with you, talk about you behind your back, or disappear when things get hard.

Choose people who carry mana, not drama.

And remember, even with a strong circle around you, you must still have your own back.

Stand strong in who you are.
Trust your path.
Protect your wairua.

Ko au tōku rongoā.
I am my own medicine. 🌿

22/03/2026

Be careful what you ask for.

Wednesday night I said out loud, “I need a break.”

By Thursday my throat started playing up… then boom 💥 I started losing my voice.

When your voice is one of the main tools you use for your mahi, that’s the universe making sure you actually take the break you asked for.

Message received.

Thank you to those whose bookings I’ve had to reschedule. It’s very rare that I do that unless I truly have to.
I appreciate your understanding.

PS. Now I’m saying out loud I want to win the $23 million Powerball this Wednesday 🤞🏼🙌🏽😂 Probably won’t hear me anyway, with my squeaky, whispering voice 🤣🤣🤣